Whether you have made up your mind or are still struggling, whether to stay or not in this city is nothing more than the following three considerations. ?
1, social factors. ?
2. Career development. ?
3. Special hobbies.
social factor
Let's talk about the biggest decisive factor, that is, social factors. China has paid attention to relations since ancient times, especially social relations and family background. Therefore, the number of family members, extensive contacts and strong economic foundation in a place have become the biggest reason why you can feel at home here. Realistically speaking, if you are a single man or woman, this factor will be the biggest content that you will be inspected by the other party in the blind date. Other jobs are good, wages are high, height, weight, age and living habits will give way. Young men, in particular, are mainly concerned about this, including the woman's parents, relatives, friends, references and themselves. Do your parents, brothers and sisters have formal companies to become big bosses, how many houses do you have at home, what cars you drive, how famous they are in the local area, and so on. This is what everyone wants to know. As long as you stand out from one of these branches, even the driver in the security taxi downstairs and even the cashier's aunt in the supermarket will look at you with new eyes, not to mention your future mother-in-law. Most of us have nothing to do with the powerful, and the eyes of the world are fixed on the house first. But why?
Because the house is the most expensive. Driving a car of 100,000 to 200,000 yuan, or a turtle student with a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, or a decent bank employee, nobody cares. I just want you to tell me if you have a house and how many sets.
Although the question is direct, it is simple and clear. If you have a house, it is about 2 million assets in first-and second-tier cities. Even if you are a turtle, you can't afford it without ten years' accumulation. When you can afford it, her daughter will be old.
Even if you drive a mid-level car of 200,000, no one will take a fancy to you without a house, because a house can buy more than a dozen Passats. Besides, cars are consumables. As long as you have a room, people are willing to take the bus with you. Even if you are a senior bank employee, as long as you don't say how much spare money you have, others will turn a blind eye to you. Fight for a house with wages all my life. Who wants your daughter to suffer with you?
When you become a senior manager of an IT company in Beijing after ten years' work, with a monthly salary of 40,000 yuan and no house, you are constantly afraid of countless blind dates, breaking up in love, being cold-eyed, the ultimatum of your girlfriend's parents, and the disapproval of colleagues and friends around you, then leaving a first-tier city like Beijing naturally becomes a choice you have to make. The tragic story of fleeing from the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen is staged every day. . . . . .
In this case, we must make an accurate judgment so as not to die without hitting the south wall. We used to be young, and our parents and elders told us again and again, "I don't know there are tigers in the mountains, but it makes sense." But the key depends on whether you have the means to kill the tiger. I don't mean whether you have the physique or kung fu of Song Wu, but the way to talk about it and kill or subdue the tiger.
In fact, there are many ways to avoid or at least reduce the influence of social factors on whether we stay in a city.
First, since you know that the assets of the family property are very important, it is natural for you to go to another place to start over, so you should eliminate the risk of fleeing after you start working.
For example, if you were born and studied in Dongguan but went to work in Shenzhen, it is naturally unnecessary. You are from Suzhou. There are many local employment opportunities and foreign investment, and the average house price is around 1 000. But you went to Shanghai as an engineer because the monthly salary in Shanghai is 5000 yuan more than that in Suzhou, and the average price of Shanghai's outer ring has exceeded 30 thousand, so your choice is also stupid.
For example, your home is in Zhuozhou, a small city in Hebei Province, but you are looking for a job in Shijiazhuang, the provincial capital, after graduation. There is no need without special help. Beijing and Tianjin, which are relatively close, should be your first choice.
Therefore, in the tide of market economy, if you are not a civil servant, there is a basic principle for employment in different places: don't go to a city with the same or similar economic strength as your hometown. To be more specific, it is not necessary to work in a first-tier city from a second-tier city, nor is it necessary for a third-tier city to go to a second-tier city, but it is wise for a fourth-tier county to go to Shanghai and Shenzhen. On the contrary, it is unwise for people from Wuhan, a big city in Central China, to travel thousands of miles to work in Taiwan Province provincial enterprises in Huizhou, South China, and want to get married locally.
If you sail against the current, you will not only lose many family members and your social relations in your hometown before, but also the scissors difference of income is too small to be worth it. From the perspective of housing prices, Huizhou will not be lower than Wuhan, and it is equally difficult to buy a house. It is better to be in a familiar hometown, which is more affordable.
Let's broaden our horizons. For professionals who want to study abroad and have always wanted to work abroad, if you come from a first-tier city in China and now want to take root in Hong Kong, you need to think about whether the cost is worth it. If you are a Beijinger who works in Tokyo, Japan, or a Shanghainese who goes to Spain and Portugal, a poor European country, the choice of staying or not is obvious from the perspective of career development.
So when you just choose a job, you should have a clear judgment on the future city, whether it is worth staying, and make a firm choice.
Second, when we are employed in different places, we should try our best to solve the problem of taking root.
The most important thing is the house. You should have a clear understanding of the nature of house prices. Maybe a year or two of ups and downs is not easy to grasp. For various reasons, the views of local and central media are completely opposite. Some people say it's down, others say it's up, but you have to judge the general trend. On the premise of understanding the reality of domestic land based on government land sales, exploitative tax prices and monetary policies, it is obvious that house prices will be higher and higher and cash will be devalued more and more. Buying a house early is a wise choice for you, especially if you don't have a room to live in.
Of course, the salary at the beginning will not be very high, so you should expand your thinking and use all your resources to buy a house in the employment city as soon as possible. There are many ways. Borrow some cash from parents and relatives, get the support of parents and male and female relatives, study the regional characteristics of local housing prices, make good use of the rules and preferential policies of provident fund and commercial credit after down payment, choose a small house with low unit price in suburbs or urban areas, and apply for housing assistance from the unit even if it is overdrawn, and repay it with a credit card according to your foreseeable income and repayment ability in the next five years. It is possible to buy a house by hook or by crook. The sooner you buy it, the cheaper it will be. This is not to fool everyone into buying a house, but to use your resources to increase the weight of your settlement in the employment city. Otherwise, it will be a pain that you have to bear if you miss the opportunity and finally leave.
Third, a large number of social relations have been established.
Most social relationships in a person's life are created by himself, not by parents or distant relatives of officials. The so-called rooting in a place, wages and houses can be counted as landing, and local social relations can be established and cultivated. This is rooting. There is no social relationship when there is an emergency but no one can get help.
Take myself as an example: after working alone in Shanghai for four years, in 2006, I suddenly had an emergency and was short of cash of 654.38+10,000 yuan. I listed all my friends in Shanghai who can help me solve my urgent needs immediately, and I circled 10 friends who can help me, including my colleagues who are on good terms now and my old colleagues who used to work. I finally called only the two of them, and the next day, 200,000 yuan had arrived, and they called. When it comes to borrowing money today, it is difficult for relatives, including brothers and sisters, to help each other. I have so many such good friends, which is the return of my usual focus on business relations. Of course, the relationship is mutual, and I am helping them with many things, such as job hopping, getting married, buying a house and a car. This is the only way for the accumulation of social relations to take root and sprout somewhere in China.
vocational development
The need for career development is another major factor that we leave behind after choosing a job city and making a decision.
Let's consider the city that can help you develop your career best. If you want to be a civil servant or enter a public institution, you should naturally focus on your hometown or the city where your school is located.
Want to engage in or are engaged in headhunting, looking for suitable talents for large and small foreign-funded private enterprises every day, which is obviously in more developed cities, especially in cities with more demand for professional managers, such as domestic first-tier cities and some second-tier cities with more foreign companies.
If you want to be a headhunter in a third-tier city or even a fourth-and fifth-tier county, the opportunity is very slim. It is extremely difficult for you to find a headhunting company, and it is naturally difficult to find a job.
If you want to engage in foreign trade, you will make great progress in this field in the future. It is very clear to go to coastal cities. If your automobile engineering major is to develop in the automobile industry in the future, then several domestic automobile manufacturing bases will be your better choice.
If you take machine tool equipment sales as your main career direction, then more private enterprises that use these equipment are mainly in the Yangtze River Delta and the Pearl River Delta, and these two places will become your choice. You go to the northeast, southwest, central China, and even get married and have children there. In the end, it is very likely that not only the equipment will be difficult to sell, but also the career will be difficult to develop. If you have always been happy to work in an investment bank, then Beijing, Shanghai and Shenzhen are your best choices.
Then, combine your own occupation to make the choice of employment city.
For example, if you want to work for a few years before starting your own business, it's a good idea to work in Zhejiang, the most developed private manufacturing industry in China, and then choose a place with preferential policies for small enterprises. For example, if you are particularly good at exhibitions, you will not make much progress in working and living in third-tier cities.
For example, in fast food business, instead of going to cities with many office buildings or factories, we choose second-and third-tier cities with slow pace and mostly going home for lunch, which is doomed to fierce competition and slim chances of success. If you are determined to find a job in a small county town after graduating from Ph.D., and there is no way to take the civil service exam, you can only get it. If you are a returnee who has worked abroad for many years, and now you want to return to China to work and settle down, you must go to large cities with many foreign-funded enterprises such as Beishangguangshen and Shenzhen. Otherwise, not only is it difficult to find a job, but your annual salary is not as good as your income last month, which will make your intestines regret. If you open a trading company, or even a Taobao seller, but live in a rural house that can only be reached by postal services, then you are not close to customers, sources of goods, ports and other logistics and transportation points, and you will become "three noes", and business will naturally be difficult to improve.
Special hobby
The simplest special hobby comes from wishful thinking. For example, the poverty in rural areas yearns for the prosperity of cities, and the fast-paced metropolis yearns for walking in small cities, which makes it possible to judge the choice of employment cities according to personal yearning.
But try it anyway. For the choice of hobbies, we must first determine whether our material foundation is solid, and then see whether the humanistic environment and external spiritual foundation can last for a long time, because this yearning romanticism will eventually be implemented in work and life, day and night. The most common is the dream of fresh graduates for big cities. Many of them regard big cities as their first choice after graduation, but they don't want to go back to astronomical property prices and make ends meet after working there for a few years, and they have no face when they return home to face relatives and friends. In fact, you can be flexible and make a good plan before going to a big city: go to work, learn skills and experience for five years, experience life in a big city, and go back to your hometown or familiar city immediately. In this way, you can make a good work plan for these years and establish a suitable consumption attitude. When you finally leave, you will leave as a positive beginning of your new plan, instead of leaving in a negative way. Their mentality is not the same, and their working methods and life plans are different, which leads to different money reserves when they leave their jobs. In order to satisfy their hobbies, there are not many people left, but those who plan to work in big cities for a few years and go back immediately have accumulated high-paying savings and accumulated experience, laying the foundation for a more successful career after returning home. There are many special hobbies, and the most common one is love. My lover is in that city, so I went there by myself. Relatives are officials of that city or managers of enterprises; A hearsay city is suitable for people like me to develop; Or just want to earn the scissors difference between the wages of the same industry and the big cities; There are also southerners who go to the north to experience the cold, and northerners go to the south to chase the warm weather; Of course, there are also people who appreciate the scenery or history of a certain place, or like to see beautiful men advocating avant-garde spirit and other special hobbies and go to different cities for employment, and so on.
These special hobbies come from instantaneous or accidental factors, but they are not pragmatic choices that are beneficial to family and career after careful consideration. Once the idea is finalized, it's best to stay for a while, and then turn around soon, otherwise the economic foundation will be difficult to support, and the special favor will not be able to counter the pressure of real social relations and housing prices.
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