Aunt Shen is a very capable woman, raising her son by herself. Small and thin, can carry 100 kilograms of things. After the daughter-in-law gave birth to the child, she went to take care of her daughter-in-law and confinement. At the same time, my mother was there, and they took care of their daughter-in-law together. At first, the two had a clear division of labor. My mother cooks three meals a day, and Aunt Shen cleans and takes care of the children. But a few days later, the daughter-in-law said to her mother-in-law, Mom, I like your cooking. So Aunt Shen began to cook three meals a day.

Go to buy fresh vegetables, cook, wash dishes and clean up after 5 o'clock every morning. Hand washing clothes, children's clothes, sons' clothes, parents' clothes. These things are all done by Aunt Shen, such as putting children to bed in the middle of the night every day and changing diapers for them. One day Aunt Shen fainted, and my son realized that his mother had done so much work alone. She lost ten pounds in less than a month, and she trembled with anger when she learned the truth. Because my son goes to work early and comes back late, my daughter-in-law always tells him that the two mothers go to work together. I don't know. The so-called division of labor means that my mother does everything and my mother-in-law is only responsible for chatting.

In order to take care of her daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law lost ten pounds in less than a month, and her son trembled with anger when he learned the truth. This incident also tells us that there are three kinds of women who can't marry.

A woman whose mother is unreasonable cannot marry. Before you marry a daughter-in-law, you'd better meet your parents more and see how they behave. From their words and deeds, we can roughly judge what kind of person their daughter-in-law is. Because unreasonable mothers and educated daughters can't be reasonable. Just like a clip in a recent hit drama, all the hard-earned money is used to buy a house for my son. But he was rejected by his mother and son and had no place to live.

This mother is a typical unreasonable person, otherwise she wouldn't have shut them out. If the daughter-in-law was reasonable, she wouldn't let her mother fool around and drive her in-laws out of the house. Therefore, a daughter whose mother is unreasonable cannot be married.

A woman with bad conduct cannot marry a woman with bad conduct and vanity. Because a woman decides what a family will look like in the future, maybe she can't change her husband. But such a woman will lead a bad child and affect the child's life. There was a woman in her hometown who was not "honest" when she was young, but her husband turned a blind eye and maintained this family. They have a daughter who got married early and took her out to work after giving birth. I also introduced my daughter to someone at work and encouraged her to divorce.

A woman with bad conduct can't get married, not only is her marriage unhappy, but even her children's future study is not good, which is not worth the candle.

A woman who doesn't respect the elderly is a virtue that can't be married, and it is also something that everyone should do. After marriage, I don't expect my daughter-in-law to be kind to the elderly, but at least I should know how to respect them. Respect the efforts and labor of the elderly, don't take their kindness for granted, and be considerate of them. A woman who doesn't respect the elderly has a personality problem and must not marry.