A few days ago, I joined a 30-day weight-loss punch group. I feel that I have this group in my heart. You can lose weight and shape in the summer vacation, and then finish the counterattack of the soil and fertilizer circle when you start school.

I have to say that the ideal is full and the reality is very skinny. In the first few days, all the "comrades in arms" in the group made up their minds to lose weight. Just like the song "Calories", "Every time you eat more rice, you have to say sorry". Everyone is far away from home, and they are exercising to lose weight in their respective places, which is quite a scene of the richest man in Xihong City.

But with the passage of time, the members of the group gradually became familiar with each other, and everyone began to chat in the group, vying for pictures and endless water groups.

Sometimes when I get up in the morning, tens of thousands of messages lie quietly on WeChat. I didn't have the patience to look through them one by one, so I simply blocked the group.

If this is actually just a small matter, what makes me most uncomfortable is the way in which members of the group compromise with each other. Because many times, the dialogue is like this:

"Little ran, did you exercise today? Frown "

Gnome male-"tell you the truth, eat too much today can't exercise! Laugh and cry. "

"Ha, ha, ha, I'm relieved to see that you didn't exercise. Let's exercise tomorrow hh "

To tell you the truth, I was surprised to see this conversation for the first time. Isn't the original intention of this group to encourage each other to exercise? Why did you gradually become inactive and seek comfort from others in exchange for your peace of mind?

Such a punching group has become a decoration.

Countless times I was asked if I had exercised today, and I felt that I had deviated from my original idea, so I chose to delete the group.

Gradually, I also found that I can still achieve my exercise goal without the so-called punch group.

02

There is another group, I believe everyone has experienced it, that is, the niece of your friend's elder sister-in-law invites you to join the group, saying that there will be benefits. After entering, I discovered that this is a place where WeChat merchants sell things.

This regiment is more ferocious than the first one. If the first type of punching group is a self-organized non-profit group, then this group is undoubtedly established to make money.

After entering, it is the endless sales promotion of the group owner and all kinds of user feedback that I don't know whether it is true or not. They blew up their property. Fortunately, I am a rational college student, otherwise I might really fall into their elaborate trap like many people.

Wechat commercial products, light is a waste of money, heavy is skin damage, also known as bad face. I frowned and deleted the group without hesitation. Later, I found traces of WeChat business in my circle of friends, and I couldn't help but think of several WeChat business groups I joined at that time.

03

There is another group. There are only a few people in the group, but they can make waves. People who have never lived in a dormitory may never realize the complexity of the relationship between girls' dormitories.

As mentioned in the previous article, two roommates in our dormitory quarreled, so another girl and I were drawn into the group they built by these two roommates. Great, there are already two groups in the dormitory for four.

I think the days of "four people and three groups" may be getting closer and closer. I don't know if there is a group behind them that I don't know, but I ask myself that there is no contradiction with anyone.

One of the group names is "On How to Get Along with Older Children", which sounds naive and was given by this roommate who has reached the age of 20.

On the other hand, the "66 1 dormitory trio" silently excluded another person.

Not knowing how to respond, I chose silence in the three-person group on both sides. And a few days later, I was watching two trio, and I chose to quit the group chat at the same time, and still insisted on four people who had not moved for a long time. (It is estimated that they have forgotten this group)

Such a group, even if it exists, can only remind both sides of unhappiness. I don't know why I'm making such a fuss. But I think I did the right thing.

All of the above are personal experiences.

In fact, I have always felt that WeChat group is a very convenient and fast organization. We can easily gather a group of people and improve efficiency.

But now the friends really like it. "If you don't agree with each other, build a group." I accidentally took a photo in the same way and wanted to enjoy it and build a group. Brush the drama and gossip, invite friends to build a group; Listen to micro-lessons together, study together and build a group.

The result is always inexplicably pulled into various groups. Except for family and friends, everything else is out of reach, such as punching in, walking the dog, carpooling and take-out. ......

I thought these seemingly serious "small groups" could warm me up and even make me happy. Never thought about it, but my mind is full of screen-like expressions, one or two red envelopes, and meaningless nonsense.

It suddenly dawned on me that many people fooling around every day have nothing to do but waste traffic, occupy space and waste electricity.

In fact, many people will find some groups annoying, but because of all kinds of faces, entanglements and numbness, we forget to care about ourselves and ask ourselves whether we are unbearable, whether we need space for solitude and whether we need space for self-reflection.

But there is really no need to care too much about group chat. After all, the online world is full of miracles. Good chat, leave this group chat. If the chat is not good, please tell the group owner before deleting it, and see you in the Jianghu later.