chicken ribs―things of little value or interest (yet you hesitate to throw them away)

Confucius shoes (you don't need to buy special shoes for Confucius, just wear cotton shoes at home at ordinary times)

Hat (just use the usual one, you don't need to buy a month, because you rarely go out in the month)

Sanitary napkins for pregnant women (use sanitary napkins at night, don't buy sanitary napkins and chicken ribs for pregnant women! ! ! )

Baby powder (Never use emulsion, especially in autumn and winter).

Must buy goods

Disposable underwear (you must buy an artifact to avoid the embarrassment of letting your mother-in-law and husband wash underwear)

Nursing pad is also called puerperal (buy it as soon as you buy it to avoid postpartum lochia polluting the bed)

Perineal irrigator (very convenient to buy during delivery)

Newborn nail clippers (must buy must buy! ! ! Baby nails grow fast! I have to cut it once every half month, which is super fast! )

Nightlight (breastfeeding at night is essential and can also help your baby distinguish between day and night).

My baby is one and a half years old. Welcome to add ~

Later, the baby may encounter flatulence, eczema, pneumonia and so on after birth.

Hello, as a mother of two children, let me answer your question.

Certificate category (important! )

1, mother's ID card

2. Obstetric service certificate

3. Household registration book

4. Marriage certificate

5. Other documents required by the hospital.

6, other important items: cash, bank cards, mobile phone chargers! (Someone really forgot! )

Mama supplies

1, clothes In the hospital, when preparing to leave the hospital, you should wear sick clothes, including socks, shoes, hats, scarves, etc. Those who are more particular about confinement may have to bring clothes that don't show their arms and legs.

By the way, although she was not pregnant when she was discharged from the hospital, according to my observation, most new mothers still have some big bellies. Don't be too nervous. I'm sorry. . .

My wife chose the safe route. Although she was very young after giving birth, she directly prepared a dress to get pregnant.

2. nursing bra. Well, my wife prepared this, but she never wore it in the hospital.

3. Disposable cotton underwear. This is very practical! Super practical! Otherwise, I will wash a lot of bloody underwear. . .

4, postpartum pelvic belt. Take it to the hospital and use it according to the situation. My wife prepared this. She is full of hope that she will lose weight after giving birth, but she is not in the mood to take care of postpartum recovery after giving birth. . . Moreover, caesarean section is different from lateral incision, and the time to start using it is different, which varies from person to person.

5. Anti-galactorrhea pad. It's enough to bring a case of this thing as a backup. After all, the problem faced by most mothers is that the milk is too slow and too little, not that the milk overflows too much.

6. towels. Wash your face or something, but I personally feel that it is better to use cotton soft towels directly. There is not much money for a few days, and there is no place to hang towels.

7. Basin. We didn't take it, but we survived. . . But if you are more particular, you can take it with you.

8. Toothbrush, toothpaste and mouthwash. The first thing my wife does after getting up is to brush her teeth with trembling hands. . .

9, skin care products. I hope to have the idea of skin care after giving birth! The skin care products brought back by my wife, no matter how she brought them back, don't move. But you can still bring it. After all, there is a kind of mood called psychological comfort.

10, maternity care pad. Also called disposable puerperal, very useful! My wife was cut sideways at that time, and the amount of bleeding was huge. She kept changing under her body, so we bought another bag and sent it directly to the hospital. The rest was used by Ms. Ye when she went out to change diapers, and it was not wasted.

1 1, toilet paper, napkin. The more the better! You have to do everything! But it is also very convenient to buy it in the hospital now. If the bag can't be put down, don't worry at night.

12, cup with straw. Wit, for example, I prepared a cup with a straw for my wife, and sure enough, my wife was lying down drinking water, praising me!

13, disposable cups. You think it's for visiting relatives and friends? In fact, he is a small expert in saving the scene, and it is also good to use soup and water that he can't drink. I also made a temporary guest appearance in Ms. Ye's ass-washing artifact, hahaha.

14, tableware. Need to know the hospital dining system in advance, whether to prepare tableware, such as lunch boxes, chopsticks, spoons, etc.

15, breast pump. Well, the nurse in the obstetrics class of the hospital told the anxious expectant parents a story that the postpartum mother wanted to use the breast pump but was not ready, and she didn't want to waste precious colostrum with the hospital breast pump, so that the new father went to the hospital three times a day.

We are fine, but we are prepared, but my wife has no milk next month. How can we take it back to the hospital?

16, soap. Originally, soap was intended to be used to wash wife's clothes and baby's clothes. As a result, our dirty things were either thrown away or taken back for washing, which was of little significance.

17, antibacterial hand cream. This is very useful. I always use this to rub my hands when I take care of them in the hospital. When relatives and friends come, I will clean them first. Convenient and quick. Suggestions.

18, fresh-keeping bag. When used as a storage bag, it is cleaner than a storage bag. Just pack the baby's clothes and bottles.

19, nipple cream. The little doll's mouth is so fierce that even my wife, a straight steel girl, has been painting for several days.

20. Disposable toilet seat. This is really necessary. My wife stopped living in a single room after giving birth. She uses one every time she goes to the bathroom. Clean and convenient, and her heart is beautiful!

2 1, maternity sanitary napkins. My wife was bleeding out. A few days ago, she was lying directly on the puerperal bed. After bleeding for a while, I changed it directly. Later, when I was able to walk, I used a maternity sanitary towel. It pains me to see it. . .

22.food Red bull, chocolate, energy drinks (chocolate should not be cited with energy drinks such as red bull at the same time, it will vomit! )

articles for babies

1, baby quilt towel. Basically, 1 quilt, 1 mattress, 2 towels, 1 bath towel is enough. Many hospitals will put them in bags, and these things can be bought.

2, baby clothes. Monk clothes are recommended for newborn dolls, which are convenient and easy to wear. Neither adults nor children suffer. As for socks and hats, look at the season of birth. My family, Ms. Ye, was born in 10, but the hospital has heating and has not worn socks and hats.

By the way, the baby's clothes should be prepared in advance when leaving the hospital.

3, the baby draws paper. Just like toilet paper. If you are in trouble, you can only take the baby to draw paper. Adults can use children's things.

4. bottles. If the mother is slow to breastfeed, make practical preparations. However, we should pay attention to the size of the nipple when buying, and choose the one suitable for the newborn.

5, a small spoon. If you are afraid of nipple confusion and slow milk production, you can feed it with a small spoon. However, according to my family's experience, even if the milk is slow, children are unlikely to be confused with pacifiers after eating pacifiers first.

6, baby milk powder. One can is enough. Mothers who are not ready to breastfeed must prepare, and those who are ready to breastfeed should also prepare a can. If your mother is slow to breastfeed, you should actually prepare.

7. diapers. A pack of NB (the youngest) will do. Don't prepare too much. The baby is growing fast! It's convenient to sell now. If it's not enough, buy it.

8. Wet tissue. Wipe the baby's poop.

9. Gauze handkerchief. Soft little scarf or something, you can wash your baby's face and PP.

10, butt music. Just in case, the little doll plays well. It's hard if your ass gets red.

First of all, congratulations on your promotion to be a parent. We should prepare a bag, including children's clothes, quilts, mattresses, bottles, pacifiers, milk powder, diapers, bandages, bibs, talcum powder, toys and kettles. Don't be too nervous about going to the hospital.

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question. I am the mother of my sister and brother, and I have two children. I hope I can give you some advice.

As for your question, I think it should be considered from two aspects.

On the one hand, we should get ready before the baby is born. Including things for children and things for Ma Bao. Children need to prepare 13 packages, 2 milk powders and 2 milk bottles, 3 sets of 3.4 clothes, 4 diapers, and 5 soap laundry detergent for children. Ma Bao needs to prepare the following items: ① a bag; ② Two or three sets of pajamas; ③ breast pump; 4 straws.

The second aspect is how to care for the baby and the baby mother after the child is born. Ma Bao needs nursing: ① Let Ma Bao lie down as much as possible and walk less. Don't play mobile phone. Baby care is the responsibility of Bao Dad or other family members. Prepare five or six meals a day for Ma Bao, because she needs to replenish her body at this time. Nursing care of infants includes ① early disinfection of the navel of infants. 2 Wipe the baby's neck and armpit with warm water to prevent water accumulation in the neck. (3) Diapers should be replaced in time.

This is my suggestion. I hope I can help you.

Share my own experience with you, I hope you can use it.

It was the prospective father who saw the problem. Mr. Bei was especially moved and happy for the wife of the subject, because you were very attentive. So, the baby is coming, what do you need to prepare?

I won't talk about the details of Bayeux, such as bags. I think your wife is ready. Bayeux said something that you may not have considered.

First, prepare relevant documents and medical insurance cards.

The subject should know that going to the hospital for labor requires birth certificate, marriage certificate and ID card, so I won't go into details here. I mainly talk about the medical insurance card.

Now many hospitals directly reimburse children's medical insurance, which means that we need to register a medical insurance card when we enter the hospital, and the system will directly reimburse them when we leave the hospital. We only need to pay the reimbursement. Therefore, the medical insurance card needs to be activated in advance, and the loss reporting card needs to be reissued in advance or go to the government affairs hall to issue a certificate.

Second, plan the route to the hospital in advance and prepare a good car.

For the prospective father, the most important thing before delivery is to make all preparations, such as sending his wife to the hospital. Because the signs of labor are sudden, and some are even quick. Once the time is delayed, both the child and the mother will be in danger.

Therefore, the prospective father needs to plan the route to the hospital in advance, or be ready to call the 120 emergency hotline at any time, or get a good car ready to take his wife to the hospital at any time.

Sometimes, time is really life.

Third, make clear the admission process or apply for an admission card in advance.

Although most maternity hospitals have the same admission process, there are still subtle differences. In order to prevent the wife from suddenly giving birth and needing to be hospitalized, and the prospective father is at a loss and knows nothing, the prospective father needs to go to the hospital in advance to ask about the admission process.

For example, when and between what time, where to be hospitalized, and who needs to sign. For example, how to do emergency hospitalization in an emergency, go to the window number.

In addition, some hospitals can apply for hospitalization certificate in advance after the parturient reaches 38 weeks, that is, they can be hospitalized in advance, and then they can be admitted to the hospital for labor only by paying fees, so that you can know in advance.

Fourth, arrange escort, delivery and confinement.

After preparing to have a baby, the prospective father should also remember that it is necessary to arrange maternal care and confinement in advance.

Escort hospitals generally limit the number of people and only let one person accompany them. At this time, the prospective father will work harder and do it himself. After the child is born, the new moon or mother (mother-in-law) needs to appear in time. After all, prospective fathers need to take care of expectant mothers, and children can only be taken care of by them.

Every man who is a father for the first time is very nervous, looking forward to the birth of the baby, but also afraid of the birth of the baby, afraid that he can't take care of the baby, afraid that he can't take care of his mother, and so on

What do you need to prepare before the baby is born?

First of all, we should get our luggage ready. Some hospitals only need to cover dad's money in Baogang. Some hospitals don't provide Bao Da, so they have to make psychological preparations in advance. What exactly should the bags prepare? There are mother articles and baby articles online, and Bao Dad can buy them as usual.

First of all, let me talk about what must be prepared here:

1, the electric breast pump must be ready, and it can be used one hour after delivery, because the newborn baby is weak. At this time, using the breast pump can better get through Ma Bao's breasts and avoid breast congestion.

2, postpartum pad, 72 hours after production will eliminate a lot of lochia, it is best to prepare more.

3, maternity pajamas, some treasure mothers will sweat a lot after production, it is best to prepare two sets and replace them in time.

4, crib, in order to avoid the baby and mom and dad sleeping together to oppress the baby, it is best to prepare a crib for the baby.

5, ready to go to the hospital required documents (maternal and child health handbook, medical insurance card, birth certificate, etc.). ).

Secondly, what psychological preparations should be made:

When my father sees the baby for the first time, he will definitely let the little man put it down, small and soft. At this time, he has an unspeakable psychological taste. What should Bao Dad do at this time?

1, Bao Dad, don't focus all your attention on the baby. At this time, the mother needs psychological and physical care. Because postpartum hormone levels change, and postpartum role changes are more likely to lead to mood swings, so Bao Dad should pay more attention to Ma Bao.

2. Newborn babies breastfeed more frequently. Because Ma Bao is weak after giving birth, it is necessary to help Ma Bao take care of the children together.

3, in the whole month, arrange a reasonable diet for your mother, which should be light, single nutrition, eat less meals, and eat more foods with high vitamin and calcium content.

Finally, I wish your father happiness!

Although I am very happy when I am pregnant, my parents will be very nervous once the due date is reached, especially when I am a father for the first time.

I remember that when Jenny, the star of A Curtain of Dreams, gave birth to a baby, her husband was so nervous that he didn't even know how to be a father.

The husband of the star is still at a loss, not to mention us ordinary people.

How should a novice father take care of Ma Bao and his children?

When I was pregnant, except for my father and sister, I almost did it myself.

First of all, when you leave the hospital, the nurse will ask you not to be lazy. You should help your child bathe and change clothes every day.

Secondly, when leaving the hospital, the baby should wear his own clothes, so he should bring an extra set of clothes to the hospital before the baby is born, and then the mother must wear more clothes, and then wear a hat and a pair of warm shoes for the next month.

Finally, when you get home, Ma Bao should stay in bed more. The baby can come and change diapers, lie down and feed when feeding, and do it if it is natural.

Breast-feed a baby

When bathing the baby at night, be careful that the basin is not too big, because there will be more water in the basin. It is recommended to wash in a big basin, but it will be nervous.

When washing, hold the baby's back neck and hold the baby's ears with your hands to prevent water from entering. It is best not to enter the navel. Don't be nervous if you accidentally enter the water. Just disinfect afterwards. When you leave the hospital, you'd better ask the nurse how to care for your navel.

I only washed the baby for two days. Because of jaundice, I was hospitalized, so the navel was all made by the hospital nurse.

Lactating mother

I had a caesarean section. I took a bath after half a month and didn't wash my hair for a month. Therefore, if it is a natural birth, you can also take a bath early. If the hair is not particularly uncomfortable, you can wait until after the full moon.

In terms of eating, try to eat as little oil and salt as possible, or you can not put salt. Some dishes are not put in, and they are eaten with relish.

I eat perch soup the most, local chicken soup only twice, seaweed soup and pork liver soup.

It is best to eat pork liver soup in the first week to help eliminate lochia. Then seaweed soup, perch soup and so on. It changes every day.

You can also do it according to Ma Bao's taste, but you must remember a light diet, otherwise it will easily block the milk.

I hope my answer is helpful to you.

First of all, don't be nervous. Face it calmly. Keep a normal heart. You're nervous! It's not good for your production. I was always scared when I was pregnant. The most important thing is fear of pain. When I actually get on the operating table. On the contrary, I acted much calmer than usual. Cooperate with doctors. Listen to the doctor's arrangement. That's what I thought. Don't be afraid. Face it calmly. I was still talking and laughing with the doctor when the doctor gave me a caesarean section. You're afraid of having children. If you are not afraid, you will be born. Then why not accept it unpleasantly and have such an idea? You won't feel any fear. Welcome your little prince or princess happily. You should prepare some. Children socks. Diapers. The diaper is not wet. Milk powder, bottle. Small bowl. Spoon. Towels. Pot, blanket. Bags, clothes You need to prepare yourself. You should prepare some change of pajamas yourself. Pajamas are more comfortable to wear. It's best to prepare pure cotton. Sanitary towel, paper towel, etc. I hope it helps you.

Congratulations on becoming a father.

Get your luggage ready.

Maternity use: bring the documents and materials needed for admission. Toiletries, straw cups (or disposable straws), breast pumps, breast-feeding underwear, breast-feeding clothes, disposable underwear, postpartum sanitary napkins, breast-spilling pads, and breast-feeding pads (which are placed under the buttocks when lying in bed by caesarean section).

Baby's uses: flatulence-proof bottles, diapers or diapers (don't prepare too many diapers of one model, children can change quickly), baby's clothes, schoolbags, saliva towels (wipe spilled milk), bibs, small hats, milk powder (don't prepare too much), small socks, hip cream containing zinc oxide (prevent red buttocks) and calamine lotion (rash).

Being a mother for the first time must be a special joy, and you may be a little nervous. Bao Dad should first adjust his mentality, and at the same time, he should be very concerned about Ma Bao's mood, because after giving birth to the baby, his mother is very weak and needs psychological care from others. Ma Bao needs you most now.

All right, that's all.