1. Frequent complaints

I found that some people habitually complain no matter what happens, for example, when they don't attend classes, they will complain that the teacher is not good at all; When things are not going well at work, you will complain about what kind of leader this is. They will always fall into this strange circle of complaints, putting the blame on others, thinking that everything is someone else's problem and will never find the reason on themselves. So, when you find yourself with this problem, you'd better change it quickly. If you keep complaining in this circle, you will never make progress. After a long time, you will bore others and think that you will only complain and not do anything. You can try to change slowly, and turn your frequent complaints into what should I do and think about how to solve them.

2. I don't know how to refuse

In fact, if you don't know how to refuse, it is simply a flattering character. Whatever happens, you won't say anything. No? But to say? Ok, may I? After a long time, you will become particularly insecure, afraid to make your own demands, and finally you will be particularly tired. So, when you have this habit, you'd better change it immediately. You can try to say it once. No? You will find that it seems not so difficult to refuse others. Listen to your true thoughts and don't make yourself so tired.

Cross your legs

Everyone may think this habit is nothing, but I can tell you that this habit is still very harmful to our health. For example, it will induce vascular diseases, hinder venous return, increase the risk of arthritis, and often cross your legs to get fat, which is the last thing girls want to see. Therefore, we should try our best to get rid of this bad habit.