First, because you are strong and have a big skeleton, if you want to impress other boys that you belong to the soft girl type, you should consider wearing some nice clothes. To change your appearance, first of all, you should wear loose clothes, not clothes that can only show your figure, because your figure belongs to the short and fat type, and wearing some slim clothes will only expose your short and fat nature.
Second, you need to change the way you speak, because a big difference between a soft girl and a woman is the difference in voice. Female men are often the type who speak loudly and then say everything directly, while soft girls are completely different. She is the kind of girl who speaks softly, and at the same time she is shy to some girls and doesn't speak loudly, so what you need to do next is
Third, Ruanmei's personality is fragile, shy and timid. Although you may not be able to completely change your personality, you must show a very delicate look in front of the boy you like. Only by being more delicate and shy can boys love you more. The reason why the female man is single is because she is too strong, which brings great pressure to the boys. Weak girls should be weaker than boys.