First, don't give up the management of your external image.
In the past, it was always like the shopkeeper boy in Legend of Wulin. He was so fat that he became a bucket. When he laughed, his chin stole the mirror and stuck to him all the time? Aunt? Label. But women don't love beauty, so it took her two years to achieve a complete transformation. She lost 30 pounds and returned to her twenties and eighties, especially her long legs, which made people shine. Not only are people beautiful, but they have once again ushered in the peak of their careers. Therefore, no matter how old a woman is, she should keep a good figure. Eating less and exercising more can not only lose weight, but also be good for her health. Usually, beauty products are also used more. Although money is a little expensive, it is nothing compared with youth.
Second, keep your independence and have a wonderful life.
A 40-year-old woman was trapped in the family whirlpool, surrounded by various family chores, and unconsciously developed the habit of nagging and complaining. Even if there is no evil intention, who can be patient with her husband and children? So, don't be silly. Women should spare 30% of their time and energy to manage themselves well, have an independent job to support themselves, have one or two intimate friends to talk to, have positive hobbies, occasionally go out of the kitchen, enjoy delicious food, buy beautiful clothes, watch a movie and enjoy the beauty of life.
As long as you do the above two points, you will find that your husband will pay more attention to you, be more respectful and polite to you, and the atmosphere between husband and wife will be more harmonious. Children will be proud of you and proudly tell others that my mother is the best. It can be seen that managing yourself is not only beneficial to yourself, but also makes other family members happy.