"Pursuing girls" is not a blind effort without dignity. After falling in love with a girl, many boys feel that this girl is perfect and that they are not worthy of each other, so they are desperate to care about each other, and in the process of pursuing, they are also blindly paying. In Ying Jie's opinion, you will only make girls look down on you more. Sister Ying then shared with her brothers how to change this humble situation.

First, improve yourself and get along with girls on an equal footing.

If boys want to attract girls, the first thing is to improve themselves. Only if you are good enough, girls will naturally notice you and be attracted to you. In order to maintain a good relationship between men and women, it is very important to learn to get along on an equal footing.

Only equality in love can usher in respect and truly pure love. Therefore, boys should learn more knowledge in peacetime; This knowledge includes not only some hobbies, but also knowledge about improving one's working ability and getting along with girls. Only by mastering enough knowledge can we really improve ourselves and attract girls in essence.

Second, expand your knowledge and let yourself have a topic to talk about.

When chatting with others, I am most afraid that there is no topic to talk about. If you want to extend the chat time between two people, it is best to expand your knowledge and let yourself have a topic to talk about; Talk about one topic before talking about the next, so as not to fall into the embarrassing situation of silence. If the content happens to be what a girl likes, then she will feel comfortable chatting with you, which will greatly increase your goodwill in her mind.

Many lovers start with friends. Only when you get to know each other can you know if you are your ideal type and get to know you better. Chatting with girls you like may be difficult at first, because they are not familiar with each other. Once you get along for a while and get to know each other, you will feel relaxed when you communicate. If you want the person you like to have a good impression on you, the key is to make the other person like to chat with you and feel comfortable with you.

Third, have your own bottom line, respect yourself and others.

Love pays attention to equality, if girls want to like themselves; As a boy, you should have your own bottom line, respect yourself and others, that is to say, you should have principles, and don't lose your principles in pursuit of girls, because once you lose your principles, you often won't get the love of girls, because girls will think this boy is very humble, and girls have some heroic complex in their hearts more or less. They like those excellent boys, so it is difficult for girls to respect you because you are too humble. Respect is twofold.