While busy preparing for the wedding, Zhong Xinyi learned that she was pregnant without warning. At present, the husband and wife are extremely excited and happy, and nothing is more suitable to describe each other's happy mood. Now recalling the process of pregnancy, she still can't hide her smile and replied, "I planned to have children after a year of marriage, but I didn't expect it to happen suddenly and enter the next stage of my life so soon." "Because Zhong Xinyi's mother used to be a professional nanny, she always has the personality of the urchin king in her bones. Because of this, she likes children very much, but when she is actually a mother, she finds that the emotional connection with children is so profound and touching. Zhong Xinyi said with a smile, "I usually like to use the Internet to absorb new knowledge. After becoming a novice mother, in order to understand the baby's nutritional needs and parenting knowledge, I joined many mom clubs with an anonymous Facebook account. While sharing parenting experience with netizens, I tried to figure out different baby non-staple foods. " Although the initial stage is also an ignorant novice stage, Zhong Xinyi soon found the skills of raising a little girl. Zhong Xinyi described: "Children are like a gift from God. Because she loves children, there are many subtle changes in her life details and mentality. Perhaps because of Aries' personality, Zhong Xinyi always lives in a fast pace, and it is easy to ignore everything around him when he is busy with his work. In the past, she would arrange her work schedule for a week and fight for her career. But because of the little girl, she knew that parents were very important to their children's family education and companionship, so she learned to slow down, change her past lifestyle, adjust herself and be a model mother who grew up with the little girl.
Cook a full family. When the little darling was five months old, Zhong Xinyi began to teach herself to make baby food. It is her greatest sense of accomplishment to watch Xiaoguai eat healthily. As a non-staple food, she accidentally discovered her interest in cooking. Now, Zhong Xinyi, who loves cooking, has screenshots of recipes on her mobile phone. She used to know nothing about cooking, but now she is a picky mother, and she is very strict about the freshness of ingredients. Due to constant attempts and accumulated experience, I once served tomato sauce porridge and onion chicken porridge, which I learned very well, to my parents-in-law. I didn't expect the reaction of my elders to praise them again and again: "Xinyi, this is really delicious!" Zhong Xinyi said with more confidence that once when Mr. Wang came home from work, he smelled the tangy smell as soon as he entered the door, which made Mr. Wang greatly appreciate her talent in making materials. In the process of cooking, Zhong Xinyi found that with a little encouragement in life, he could get a lot of happiness, satisfaction and sense of accomplishment, and encouraged himself to have more motivation to learn to cook. For cooking, she also hopes to make more different and delicious dishes for her family to taste.
Zhong Xinyi loves energy 100% happiness. In front of the camera, Zhong Xinyi, the heroine on the cover of FHM Men's Gang magazine, confidently showed the sexy charm of young women. Recently, she hosted a new program and actively engaged in the sideline of fashion beauty maintenance. When trying to interpret the role of working mother, she has her own guidelines on the concept of raising children. From her happy and sweet family relationship, readers can get to know Zhong Xinyi again, which is different from the past. Postpartum slimming: Zhong Xinyi gained 58kg during pregnancy and delivery. However, she once talked about the way to lose weight after childbirth in an interview program, and Zhong Xinyi revealed her secret of losing weight after childbirth, that is, breast-feeding and corset. Zhong Xinyi particularly emphasized: "Wearing a corset is really effective. Because it is a caesarean section, I need to put it on, and I need to ask my husband for help during the process. Although it is troublesome to wear body shaping clothes, it is still very effective for mothers to shape their postpartum body lines. When Zhong Xinyi started breastfeeding, she lost 50 kilograms, but until 50 kilograms, she began to lose weight. No matter how hard the mother worked to take care of the children, she didn't lose weight. It was not until she was five months old that Zhong Xinyi began to go out to buy food as a non-staple food. Every time she came home from work, when taking care of her little daughter, Zhong Xinyi used her sleeping time to think about the work schedule for the next day, so she was busy with her work and taking care of her children day after day.
Using communication and coordination to simplify complicated life, Zhong Xinyi said, "We will match each other's time and contact people who will go shopping after work. Maybe my husband can go shopping after work. If not, my husband will definitely open it after I buy it. " The part of taking care of the little girl is also that both sides take turns to arrange time and cooperate with each other. Zhong Xinyi is used to relying on the other half because she is loved by her husband at home. However, she shared with us: "Once she was worried that she and her baby would not be able to live independently without her husband's help, so she told her husband that she didn't need her husband to pick her up and go to the supermarket to buy food with her little daughter on her back, and she was not worried at all. It was not until she was ready to check out that she found herself buying more than 2500 yuan of goods. The two big bags in front of me can't be carried home at all, but because of face, they have been recognized as stars, so I have to settle all the goods and walk out of the department store with two big bags, a backpack and another baby. " After this experience, Zhong Xinyi was shocked that she had such great strength, and said with a smile, "When I became a mother, I found that my potential was infinite and there was nothing to be afraid of. 」
Willing to accompany and value the time together. During the filming process, as soon as Zhong Xinyi changes into her costume, she will tease and laugh at Xiaoxiao in a high-decibel and energetic way, which shows that she always shows deep love for her children. In terms of upbringing, Zhong Xinyi said, "I am a mother who gives her children all the love to the letter. On the other hand, I will also strictly discipline her children's daily life. I love children, but. " For example, once mobster saw many visitors at home. She didn't want to sleep because she was happy and excited. At this time, Zhong Xinyi held the little girl back to her room to prevent her from being influenced by everyone all the time, playing nonstop and falling asleep. Therefore, sometimes Mr. Wang will accuse him of being a "tiger mother" and his discipline is very principled. Because Zhong Xinyi attaches great importance to spending time with her children, whenever she gets off work, she will take her little daughter home from her grandparents. For Zhong Xinyi, no one can match the love a mother gives her children. Zhong Xinyi also said, "I have to take care of my work and family at the same time. Although sometimes very tired, but I am very happy that I chose this way! She also tells herself from time to time that parents should be the best role models for children after they are born. Because I often find many parents around me, parents not only use their own mobile phones, but also children play 3C, each playing his own game, without interaction. Faced with such a situation, she said, "Parents set the worst example, and children can easily follow suit. When getting along with children, she would rather concentrate on getting along with children in person, spend more time patiently cultivating the interactive relationship with children, and carefully observe all the needs and reactions of children. She believes that children are like a blank sheet of paper, and the way parents treat their children will make them look like people in the future. Therefore, Zhong Xinyi attaches great importance to his patience and companionship with children.
Zhong Xinyi loves energy 100% happiness. In front of the camera, Zhong Xinyi, the heroine on the cover of FHM Men's Gang magazine, confidently showed the sexy charm of young women. Recently, she hosted a new program and actively engaged in the sideline of fashion beauty maintenance. When trying to interpret the role of working mother, she has her own guidelines on the concept of raising children. From her happy and sweet family relationship, readers can get to know Zhong Xinyi again, which is different from the past. Spoil and discipline, and cultivate a character that is neither arrogant nor impetuous. In the process of parenting, you can find little progress every day. Zhong Xinyi said with a smile, "Dad didn't know how to be a father until the child was six months old. This sentence happened in our home very realistically. " Because the baby didn't do too much physical movements in the first six months, he couldn't interact with his father. But six months later, when teacher Sun Lexin looked at Xiaoguai, she was moved and said, "I can't imagine what it would be like to be a Xiaoguai in the future ..." In Zhong Xinyi's retelling, we can see the couple's love for their children. Mobster is the first grandson of two families. Perhaps it is because the elders in the family have been looking forward to holding their grandchildren for too long, and grandparents love this precious grandson. Zhong Xinyi said that even my father-in-law, who always pays attention to rules at home, has never held a child in his life, but he asked how to hold a child because he wanted to hold a little boy. The birth of mobster not only changed Zhong Xinyi for love, but also melted the happiness of every adult whenever he saw mobster's happy and lovely appearance. However, because mobster is so spoiled, she can't help but worry and say, "the elders at home give their children a lot of love and attention." Although it is good, they will still worry about the upbringing of Xiaopi in the future, and it is easy to develop his arrogant temper. 」
Happy study, free and unrestricted education, Zhong Xinyi doesn't want to give her children too much pressure. She thinks it is most important for children to study happily. Zhong Xinyi said, "As an only child in my family, the competition in music classes was fierce when I was a child. I remember that my mother trained herself with strict education since she was a child. My mother inevitably held the expectation that her daughter would be born in phoenix, although it would bring benefits and enable her to have good self-demand ability and do things well. But the disadvantage is that when faced with setbacks or small things that you can't do well, you often fall into serious self-blame and find yourself in trouble. " Because of her family life background, Zhong Xinyi knows that family education is very important for children's personality development. She believes that the older generation's educational concepts are good and bad, but such educational concepts are easy to cause psychological pressure on children and affect the healthy development of children's minds. Therefore, she doesn't want to continue to pass on her old educational ideas to mobsters. Free and unrestricted open education is a way of education that Zhong Xinyi wants to bring to mobsters. I hope she will become a polite, kind and happy child in a carefree environment, develop and grow with a healthy and happy mind, and have good childhood memories.
Empathy, give yourself freedom and happiness. Zhong Xinyi started his own fashion and beauty sideline last month, and there are many companies and projects to deal with every day. In the workplace, she should act as a quick-thinking decision maker, manage many important decisions in the store and come home from work. She wants to be a good mother with Miao Miao and show her patience and softness. On the role orientation of working mothers, Zhong Xinyi said emotionally: "At first, it was really difficult to adapt to the different environmental roles on both sides. Because she loves the pursuit of perfect personality, she hopes to achieve a balance between the roles of both parties. So, at present, she is still working hard. Because of Xiaoguai, Zhong Xinyi learned to tell herself to be better from different angles. She also thanked her husband for his support and companionship, which helped her get through the postpartum depression and talked about her sideline business. Zhong Xinyi said, "This is a career that I've been thinking about for a long time and always wanted to do. Because she thinks that many mothers can easily lose their values and interests in a long-term family environment, and they should not be afraid of what they want to do for family chores. It is not difficult to be a working mother. Don't worry about affecting your family and marriage, you can accurately master your own time planning.