Since 2005, I have been cutting my hair intermittently in Sister Meili's shop. At that time, she opened two stores, and there were always two or three apprentices in the store who dyed bright hair and blew it high. Slowly, the number of apprentices decreased, and finally she was busy in the shop alone. If she doesn't have an appointment before going, it may take a long time. Asked why, she said that her husband was sensitive and didn't often see her in contact with other men. Later, the person who walked by the store became the laid-off husband of Sister Mei. He will chat with the guests in the shop and ask him if he wants to take the car home. I used to ride in his little black car. It was an Alto car. He is impulsive and insecure when sitting. When I went again, the little black car was replaced by a motorcycle to deliver fast food to a restaurant.
At that time, the beautiful sister was short and fat, and her head and clothes were very casual. When chatting with people, she can feel each other's feelings and promote her own dyeing and perm package. She is a clever woman. When talking to her husband, she shows extreme patience, always with a tone of expectation and encouragement. I thought at that time, maybe because my beautiful sister is a girl from other places, marrying a Shanghai man always carefully maintains the relationship between husband and wife. Her husband wears glasses and is thin. Both his appearance and temperament indicate that he is not suitable for his wife.
This time, Sister Mei is not as smart as before. She said that after her husband was laid off in 2005, she endured it for more than ten years and finally got up the courage to divorce her husband. The past few decades have been really tiring. Husband can't live up to expectations and can't help the wall. He also took him to see a psychiatrist. The doctor gave her a piece of advice. When I came back, I closed a shop and invited my apprentice away. I didn't think about dressing up, so the doctor told me not to be too strong and let my husband find a balance. I didn't expect my husband to find a balance, and he liked drinking and playing cards more and more. Think of yourself as a cash cow and take money from the store at home from time to time. Now, my daughter is attending a flight attendant school. Because of her interest in psychology, she spent tens of thousands of dollars to sign up for several classes. In her spare time, she looks at the official WeChat account of psychology and is also preparing to apply for a psychological counselor. Before that, I went to study the course of senior nutritionist.
"Elder sister, I am very relaxed now. I also bought a villa in Chongming. At an age when you should be relaxed, you have to pay back seven or eight thousand loans every month. Even so, I am happier than before. "
Hairdressing is very hard. When business is good, you have to stand for more than ten hours every day. Pay attention to the temperature when dyeing your hair, and often you don't care about eating. I used to go to Sister Meili's shop and often talked about her taking Chinese medicine. When it comes to menstruation, I often say something like bleeding. Now, Sister Mei is studying nutrition, not only successfully slimming herself, but also adding a slimming item in the store to help others slim down. She said that the psychology she is studying at present has also greatly touched her, so that when she has a haircut with her guests, she can help everyone sort out some psychological problems and let everyone walk out of the barber shop happily and easily. Of course, the most important thing is that I am not yet 50, so that I can be relaxed, cheerful and happy for the rest of my life.
During the whole chat, I was sometimes shocked and sometimes moved. I admire Mei Jie's learning spirit and am glad for her change. Positive people are always seeds. No matter how big the boulder is, it will break through the ground sooner or later and grow into a big tree.
I have a sister named Merry. May she be beautiful forever.