I decided to spend some time sorting out the answers I collected on Zhihu (I think) that can help men improve themselves and grow.
1, from the perspective of a young person, I think these answers are helpful to my personal growth, involving all aspects, health, image, communication, occupation, attitude towards life, etc ... 2. Some answers are about "people, how to live a better life", not only for men, but also for gender discrimination. Hereby explain. I am just an organizer and a porter, and I sincerely thank all the friends who have contributed their experience, wisdom, knowledge and time to these problems. It is because of your selfless sharing that Zhihu has been endowed with the value of this platform, which makes this website so worthy of our care, which makes many people puzzled and makes many people progress. Thanks again! ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————— I am a serious and lively dividing line.
The Zhihu people in Zhihu have never heard of the "god looks at the face". My attitude towards the outside world has always been "trying to change what can be changed and accepting what cannot be changed". As for "the wisdom needed to distinguish the two"? That's the next topic ~ Maybe you haven't heard of many brands, and the prices of many foreign things make you flinch, but please remember this sentence-it is these beautiful things that make our struggle more meaningful and motivated. 1, dress
Is it boring or even meaningless to pursue fashion in appearance and clothing? How to choose suits of various price segments? Dress up for men's wear, please don't save money-Women's College Classroom-Zhihu column recommended basic men's wear brands-Women's College Classroom-Zhihu column the most cost-effective men's wear brand-Women's College Classroom-Zhihu column be a gentle rogue-Women's College Classroom-Why can't I buy Zhihu column G2000? -Classroom in Women's Hospital-Zhihu column Blue Leopard, Conscience of Domestic Suit-Classroom in Women's Hospital-Zhihu column What are the brands of "Haute Couture" fashion in China? The formal dress of a successful man is the basic standard-the classroom of a women's college-Why did Tom question Gatsby in Zhihu's column The Great Gatsby: "The man in the pink suit went to Oxford"? What's so particular about men's formal attire? How to evaluate Beckham's dress when he visited China? How to maintain a suit during a business trip? What's the point of turning the shirt collar upside down and putting it on the suit? How to wear a formal suit without wearing a salesman's style? Is it really disrespectful for Xú Zhēng to wear clothes with sleeves rolled up and chest open when interviewed by Thai female prime minister? Why did Cameron tie the bottom button of his suit? What's the butt and flat bottom of a suit like? What is the difference? How to match a shirt? What kinds of casual men's wear are suitable for social banquets, which are low-key but elegant? You need to wear a suit for an interview or a job. Is a pure black suit a good choice? How to judge the alignment of a suit? How do men wear formal clothes in winter? How should boys in their twenties wear clothes in winter to make girls like them? How do boys in their early twenties dress up in British style without affectation? How can boys find a suitable dressing style and improve their dressing taste? How to match the color of the tie with the shirt? How to buy a tie? What should a man pay attention to when wearing a tie? How to distinguish the common fabrics of clothes, and what kind of fabrics are good fabrics? Talking-Classroom in Women's Hospital-Shirts in Zhihu column, How does Fit First-Design- Zhihu column evaluate Vanke's upcoming "300 Shirts"? How to choose the shape of shirt collar? How should different ties match the collar shape of a shirt? When do you wear a shirt under your pants? When is it not needed? How to roll the sleeves of long-sleeved shirts properly? What should the collar of a shirt be called in these movies? How to use the metal collar? Why do foreign business people seldom wear short-sleeved shirts? What is the standard for men to wear shirts? What are the specific differences between British style and Italian style men's wear? How to choose suits of various price segments? What are the better brands of men's shirts? What should a man wear under a white shirt? What websites are there for men's wear collocation and sharing in China? What good overalls brands are worth recommending? How can a man look good in a scarf? What are the skills? Men's wear details? How should short boys dress up? How should obese men dress up to have the beauty of ordinary people, at least not bloated? How to choose men's woolen coats? What shoes can be worn for 5- 10 years, and can be worn with casual pants and jeans? Men's shoes: throw away the glue and hug Goodyear-the classroom of women's college-Zhihu column lace-up shoes are not formal shoes-the classroom of women's college-what's the difference between Zhihu column wing pointed shoes and Oxford shoes? 2. Personal physical transformation and physical health How can China men enhance their physical fitness? Why are there so many muscular men with extremely strong muscles in America? Why do you want to exercise? How much should you invest in fitness? How to do basic physical fitness test before losing weight? What is the correct jogging posture? Hard-core body-building strategy for a good figure. How good is it? How to practice? -Hard core fitness-Zhihu column topic-Terror of gaining three pounds on vacation-Hard core fitness-Zhihu column topic: Why does gaining three pounds on vacation come from anaerobic training in the first place? -Hard-core Fitness-Zhihu's column topic-Super-isometric contraction elastic training method at the forefront of fitness academics-Hard-core Fitness-Zhihu's column Rabbit and Xiaoping stool wish everyone a happy double festival ~ Fitness posture sharing-Hard-core Fitness-Zhihu's column topic is finally fat every holiday! Action without oxygen at home! -Hard core fitness-Zhihu column topic What kind of aerobic energy really makes you thin? -Hard core fitness-Zhihu topic-The name of the academic frontier of fitness-Detective Rabbit! Sports kill! -Hard core fitness-Zhihu's column on fitness nutrition+food training, you must indulge in life ... (Try to kill meow)-Hard core fitness-Zhihu's column is super important! The right direction, how to make a fitness plan! -Hard core fitness-Zhihu column Why don't most men in China pay attention to their figure, muscles and teeth? Which muscle groups can exercise every day and which muscle groups need to exercise every once in a while? How to make your own fitness training plan? How to lose weight healthily and effectively? .
2. What are the interesting single boyfriends in Zhihu?
I know, recommendation: CoCo Lee, editor-in-chief of China Entrepreneur Magazine/People/Li Min, fun and single (the last one is the key). I learned from her blog that the MM recommended by Lucerne/People/Lucerne looks lovely: a social fresh person with a childlike heart to the world.
Normal students, who have been a student photojournalist for three years, are now learners in the Internet product industry. The activists in the media circle and IT intersection recommend Doriscafe /people/Doriscafe, a mysterious beauty wearing a silk scarf, who seems to know a lot about design.
3. What kind of woman makes a man want to stop?
The first kind, gentle and considerate woman
Marrying a gentle and considerate woman is the dream of many men. But it is not easy for a woman to be gentle and considerate. Such a woman has something to do with her innate character. Therefore, even if you deliberately pretend, you will not be liked by men and even the result will be counterproductive.
Second, a good-looking woman.
The word opposites attract really makes sense. Men like women with beautiful faces. But this is determined by your innate conditions, and we can't force it deliberately. However, it is not impossible for women to make beautiful faces through their efforts the day after tomorrow. You can have plastic surgery. In a word, if you have a beautiful face, you will be very popular.
Third, women who have sex with each other.
The man looked at the woman and looked at her figure. Even if there is no beautiful face, it doesn't matter. You can try to get in shape. A woman with a figure is not afraid of men not watching. In real life, a woman with a figure of * * * is often the object of men's psychosexuality.
The fourth kind, rich woman
It is true that people die for money and birds die for food. We have been busy all day. What is the last picture? Isn't it just to make a little money? The same is true for men. If you are a rich woman, you don't have to worry about men worshipping you. There are also many men who like to cut corners to make money. You can easily find a man who loves you.
Fifth, fashionable women.
The so-called fashionable women refer to those who follow the trend of the times. These women's pursuit of food and clothing is often too ordinary. We often see women dressed in fashion in the street. Don't you want to see your snow-white leg back as a man? Clothes make the man, and horses depend on the saddle. As long as you are fashionable enough, the men you pursue are dozens.
Sixth, open-minded women.
A woman with an open personality will often become the object that men are willing to accept. No man likes to marry a woman like wood and go home. So don't worry if you don't have the above conditions. Try to be an open-minded woman from today! There will be many men around you, and you will find that you are also a very popular woman!
4. Why does my boyfriend brush Zhihu every day?
Let me explain why I like Zhihu. Here I found many people with all kinds of curiosity like me. Sometimes I feel that my interest is surprisingly wide, but I find my ignorance from various answers. Learning from each other is the most attractive place in Zhihu. Most people are willing to learn from each other with a modest attitude and share with each other to think, consider, search, compete and discuss a problem. I will seriously open Zhihu every day and watch all kinds of thoughts collide. Not only that,
Zhihu can make me think more seriously. This is really a pure land, where my thoughts ferment. I hope I can immerse myself in Zhihu every day, find more good answers and think more every day.
Your boyfriend also wants to communicate with like-minded people and learn all kinds of knowledge. This is a good thing.