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Wu Junru and Chen Kexin fell in love for 23 years and gave birth to a daughter. Now they are 55 years old, why not get married?
When Hong Kong female stars in the 1980s are mentioned, people immediately think of many beautiful women: Brigitte Lin, Joey Wong, Michelle monique Rice ... Their smiles and every move are fascinating.

But only one person, with his own "ugliness", makes people forget her. As long as he sees her, his mouth will rise unconsciously.

Her exaggerated "nose-picking" action is still vivid and has become a classic action in Hong Kong comedy movies.

She has appeared in more than 100 comedies and witnessed and participated in the golden age of Hong Kong comedies.

Many people say that there are her movies, no matter how nonsense, they are still willing to watch them again.

She is called "Stephen Chow" Wu Junru.

Wu Junru was born into a family of performing artists in Hong Kong. His father was a famous host in Hong Kong, Xia Chunqiu, who was called "Uncle Dong".

As the little princess in the family, Wu Junru is much loved. But she doesn't have the superiority of the second generation, and often feels inferior because she is not beautiful enough.

Influenced by his father, 16-year-old Wu Junru just graduated from middle school and entered the TVB TV artist training class as he wished. And after graduation named "Hua Dan alone", ready to take a pure own route.

It was only at that time that there were many beautiful women in the entertainment circle in Hong Kong and the competition was fierce. Carina Lau, Deng Cuiwen, Lan Jieying and Margie Tsang, her contemporaries, are ugly, and any one of them can dump all beings.

Wu Junru, however, has a mediocre qualification and can only play some small roles, and his acting skills are not yet online. She is called a "beautiful jade girl" and is in danger of being hidden in the snow at any time.

The program recorded by others is very beautiful, but she only plays the great white shark and cries bitterly.

There are a steady stream of pursuers behind others, but no one cares about her, and she once felt inferior to the extreme.

But life will not be particularly pitiful because you are weak.

If you want to live, you must swallow your tears, swallow your inferiority, and strive for a chance from the cracks.

1986, Tsui Hark's film "Beijing Opera Blues" was released, which was the first time that Wu Junru appeared in the film. Although there was only one line, Wu Junru practiced it thousands of times.

However, as soon as the film was released, people's eyes were attracted by the three beautiful protagonists, and no one paid attention to Wu Junru flashed in the camera.

She recalled herself during that period. "At first, the roles I got were very small. There is only one line in the three-page script, but all I have to do is play that line well. "

It is with this tenacity that she can attract the director's attention every time she says her lines. Director Jing Wong even discovered her comedy talent and invited her to participate in her new film "Best Bad Friends".

In the film, she needs to play a rude girl who doesn't care about the image, glaring, her hands akimbo, deliberately distorting her face, and then exaggeratedly picking her nose at the audience.

No one wants to vilify themselves in front of the camera. Even some male stars can't do such behavior.

However, Wu Junru accepted the play and made every effort to self-destruct her image during filming, so that all the audience could remember this unique actress.

She couldn't help crying when she saw herself picking her nose in public under the stage.

She finally realized that it is much harder to make people laugh than cry. Both men and actors should show sincerity. The key to a good comedy is to let yourself go.

Jing Wong commented that there is no new Wu Junru in Hongkong, because it is difficult to meet someone who has completely forgotten his appearance.

Only by putting up with what others can't stand can you get what others can't. Only by persistence can we have a chance of success.

If Jing Wong discovered Wu Junru's comedy talent, then Stephen Chow took her talent to the extreme.

1988, Wu Junru and Stephen Chow co-produced the humorous comedy Pisces. At that time, Stephen Chow was not a "Star Master", and Wu Junru was still very literary. Two lonely and nameless newcomers were unexpectedly in tune, and their nonsense performance surprised the audience.

In the same year, Wu Junru and Stephen Chow starred in Lady Enforcers together. As a supporting role, she performed better than the main character, and Wu Junru was nominated for the best Oscar, which made her famous overnight.

Later, the two turned to the film industry and continued to cooperate with classic films such as Gambling Saint, Invincible Lucky Star and Hope to Be a Jackie Chan.

Wu Junru started his own way of drama in an all-round way, and never took the road of comedy again, thus establishing his position as a comedian.

Perhaps because of the tacit understanding in the performance, Wu Junru was moved by Stephen Chow's earnest efforts and made no secret of his love for Stephen Chow. Even confessed to him from a distance. But I didn't wait for the "I like you too" response.

Stephen Chow is getting redder and redder, and she wraps herself more and more tightly. Wu Junru finally realized that reluctant feelings are not sweet, and giving up is also a kind of respect. She quietly withdrew from his world.

Regarding this relationship, Wu Junru later remembered that he would still say, "I have that feeling."

When Stephen Chow was asked about this secret love with a smile, he would know it with a smile. "Thank her and look up at me."

It's a pity that they didn't get together, but it is undeniable that in those years when they were together with Stephen Chow, Wu Junru found a comedy route suitable for his own development. After decades of acting career, only Stephen Chow can make her be real and unpretentious in comedies.

After developing separately from Stephen Chow, Wu Junru took on the film Lady Enforcers and met his first love Alejandro Delfino.

At that time, Alejandro delfino was a popular idol, handsome and beautiful. Wu Junru, on the other hand, is just a green leaf for other female stars, and she is going further and further on the road of "dressing as a comedian".

The gap between two people can be imagined, but two people who are immersed in love are often instantly attracted and blindfolded. I don't care.

In the face of Wu Junru's ugliness, Alejandro Delfino said to her more than once, "You are so funny."

Wu Junru often feels inferior because she is happy and fat in love. In order to comfort her, Alejandro Delfino put his ear to her stomach and said, "If my girlfriend is skinny, where can I find such a comfortable stomach to lie down?"

When love comes, sweet words are especially useful, and Wu Junru is no exception. It keeps falling in love. I thought I found happiness.

To her surprise, Alejandro Delfino broke up at this time.

That day, she steamed the hairy crabs herself and waited for him to go home, but she waited for a sentence, "For four years, I have no feelings for you. Let's break up! "

She thinks she is too fat. In order to save her boyfriend's heart, Wu Junru lost 35 pounds in three months, just to surprise him at Christmas.

Unexpectedly, when she arrived at Alejandro Delfino's hotel, she bumped into another woman. The other person has a graceful figure and a delicate face. By contrast, she is like an ugly duckling. Wu Junru looked back sadly.

Sometimes it's not that you are not good enough, but that the other person has found another lover. She wrote in the book:

"It turns out that the reason why he liked you and loved you that day will eventually become an excuse to leave you and hate you!"

When we are in love, everything is lovely. When we were not in love, even a little cuteness became the original sin.

Wu Junru, who has always been free and easy, really moved and hurt her heart this time. She once stopped believing in feelings and even disappeared in front of everyone.

Disappearing is not depression, but accumulating strength and getting a better start.

During that time, Wu Junru actively lost weight, and made up her mind to try to transform, get rid of the label of "ugly girl" and play some images with different personalities, more depth and three-dimensional sense.

Two years later, Wu Junru returned to Red Star with thirteen sisters. In the film, her "thirteen sisters" are very affectionate and left a deep impression on the audience.

She also won the Oscar for Best Actress for this film.

This film not only successfully changed Wu Junru, but also made her meet the happiness of her life: Chen Kexin.

1997, Chen Kexin, who was still unknown at that time, was in a corner of the park, waiting to talk about cooperation with the director.

A girl with unkempt hair boldly ran over and shouted, "where's the assistant?" I want to drink water. "

After seeing it, Chen Kexin quickly sent the mineral water in his hand.

The two met at this point. They talked about movies and shooting skills, and there were endless topics from work to life.

Chen Kexin was moved by Wu Junru's sincerity and simplicity, while Wu Junru was also attracted by Chen Kexin's humor and talent.

Three years later, Chen Kexin won the Best Director Award at the Hong Kong Film Awards for his film Sweet Honey. He finally raised his glass and told Wu Junru:

"I don't like to talk at ordinary times, but with you, I become talkative. I think I have fallen in love with you. "

Simple words, but it sounds especially sincere. In this way, the two went from close friends to true love. In 2004, two people who had been in love for 7 years began to live together.

Maybe he was too hurt in his last relationship. Wu Junru has been very restrained in this relationship, no longer demanding possession, and did not get a marriage certificate. Economically, the bedroom is divided into two rooms. I fell asleep together when I was in a good mood, and went back to my home when I was angry.

To this, Chen Kexin did it one by one and gave Wu Junru great respect.

Even, because Wu Junru's nickname is "San Yi", he changed his name to "San Shu".

After years of accompanying efforts, Wu Junru silently saw in her eyes that she understood his character and that his efforts were not easy.

She encouraged Chen Kexin to set up his own film company. At the cost of gaining 30 pounds, he starred in Chen Kexin's film "Golden Rooster".

With this film, she won the Golden Horse Award for Best Actress. Chen Kexin has also achieved unprecedented success.

This is the best appearance of love, mutual respect, * * * grow together, evenly matched.

Later, Chen Kexin made a film "warlords". Although it has won many awards, the box office is still bleak. Chen Kexin almost lost his family and became a bald head overnight.

Wu Junru took out his savings without hesitation, sold the sports car and handed the money to Chen Kexin. Not only that, she began to take on plays again. She did not hesitate to put down her price to be a supporting role and guest star for others, and also took on several TV series at the same time, which finally helped him tide over the difficulties.

But Chen Kexin also understands the sadness behind Wu Junru's unbridled laughter. She not only takes care of her life, but also supports her to realize her dreams.

20 17, Wu Junru directed and starred in the behind-the-scenes transformation of Devil Rinrin. When she first became a director, she set a brilliant record of 360 million box office.

The host smiled and asked, "Will the outside world attribute all your achievements to Chen Kexin?"

Wu Junru said: "We have long been separated from each other."

Even without a marriage certificate, the two people still love each other, suffering and * * *. They are friends, confidants, partners and family.

In 20 15, at Wu Junru's 50th birthday party, Chen Kexin proposed to her again, but Wu Junru still refused, but his eyes were full of excitement.

For her, marriage is just a form. I don't get married because I believe in feelings. If love is gone, any form is redundant.

Throughout Wu Junru's several relationships, from juvenile ignorance to youthful vigor, to mature suffering and * * *.

Every relationship has its meaning and value, and every relationship is also teaching us to grow. Every time I lose something wrong, I want to meet the right one.

I hope you still believe that there is love in this world after your experience in Qian Fan.

As Wu Junru sang: If you give up, set me free. A new beginning, abandoning the old fragments of lovelorn love. It turns out that love is beautiful all the time in this world.