Seeing this man's story in a real case, I can't help but think of two events that happened near my hometown. A couple who have been married for more than ten years usually have a bad relationship. Like most couples in daily life, there are occasional contradictions and quarrels, and they live a dull life. One day, the couple had an argument over a trivial matter. The wife called her mother angrily, and her mother rushed to their house and began to criticize her husband. At first, the husband didn't say a word, because the other person was an elder. Later, his wife joined in conquering her husband. The mother and daughter echoed each other and left her husband speechless. Then the husband was furious and picked up a thermos bottle and hit his wife on the head. The mother-in-law came to stop him, and the man hit him on the head with a thermos flask. Later, the wife and mother-in-law were sent to the intensive care unit, and the wife was seriously injured. Two days later, she died and her mother-in-law came to her rescue. The man was finally sentenced to death. They also have two children, the older 13 years old and the younger is only seven years old. It's really embarrassing.
There is another case. There is a family in our village with a very rich family. He not only has a house in the city, but also lives in a villa and drives a luxury car, which makes many people envy him. However, this son was addicted to online gambling and owed a huge debt, which was 500,000 for the first time. His father tied him up and beat him up severely, paying off 500 thousand's debt for him. Unexpectedly. The son of this family is addicted to gambling again, and it is getting worse. The man who wanted to pay the bill came straight to his house and drove away his luxury car. This time, his father refused to pay his debts and let him solve it himself. Unexpectedly, my son's solution was to continue to borrow money to gamble, and finally owed 2 million. At this point, the son had no choice but to ask for help, and he was desperate in the face of huge gambling debts. The next day he ended his life with a rope, leaving only his old father with gray temples. This son just turned 20 when he died and was unmarried. He was in the best years of his life, but he lost his young life because of gambling.
In recent years, similar cases of wife killing have emerged one after another. From a man who killed his wife and dismembered her body and rushed into a septic tank in Hangzhou, to a man who killed his wife and hid her body in a refrigerator in Shanghai, and now a man who killed his wife and burned her body in Shanghai, how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife has become a concern of all sectors of society, and even a joke has been circulated on the Internet. If you are not married, you may be in the office, in the bar and in KTV, but if you are married, you may be in the mountains, in the sea and in the septic tank. ? It is said that close relatives get married, and husband and wife are the two closest people in the world. But if the marriage is not well managed, it may be more indifferent than strangers. Nowadays, the relationship between husband and wife is indifferent, the trust between husband and wife is not enough, human beings are becoming more and more material, and the marriage relationship is becoming more and more utilitarian. In the current impetuous environment, should we be more rational in facing marriage?
The summary of the incident links these two cases together, and combined with the Shanghai man's wife-killing incident, two truths can be summarized. When husband and wife get along, they are prone to quarrels and contradictions. Once the mood is intense, the person you once loved most may become the person you hate most. As the saying goes, the depth of love is the cut of responsibility. Because there is love, there is more expectation. Once expectations are not met, it is possible to hate because of love. When the emotions between husband and wife are fierce and gamblers are always irrational. After gambling at the gambling table, what they want is how to get their books back as soon as possible and get back what they lost. There are always winners and losers at the gambling table. As an ordinary gambler, it is impossible to make a steady profit, and the banker will benefit in the end, so in life, you must not touch the gambling words.