Recently, a 13-year-old child in Guangxi Beiliu was sexually assaulted four times by a 69-year-old man in the same village, which also caused the child to get pregnant. The old man's behavior is worse than that of an animal. The old man tricked the girl into committing a crime in his house on the second floor with candy and popsicles. It is understood that the girl has many brothers and sisters, but her parents have passed away.
About this kind of incident, it really makes people angry and sigh. What makes them angry is the behavior of the elderly, and what makes them sigh is the tragic experience caused by their children's lack of parental discipline.
I remember a sensational news a few years ago that a teacher in a rural school sexually assaulted one of his female students, and then the police found that he sexually assaulted far more than one child, and many children did not expose him, which made him more and more unscrupulous and fearless.
From these incidents, we can easily see that many children are caused by their parents' absence. There are orphans and left-behind children. On the contrary, parents will accompany fewer children. These sexual assaults are to seize the loopholes in the child's heart and make an agreement with the child to make the child a good boy who keeps his mouth shut. Many children don't understand, so they are used by these animals.
Other children, although they want to say that their parents may be powerless, as left-behind children, their parents are not around all the year round and can only live with their grandparents. In order not to worry their elderly grandparents, they chose to keep a secret, which also encouraged these people to commit crimes again.
I sympathize with children without parents, but some parents go to other provinces to work. After four or five years, they always say that they are busy and want to make money. Don't you have time to send a video with your child to make money? Can't I buy a long-distance ticket to go home and see the children during the Spring Festival? Besides, can't I take care of my children at work? Are all these questions reasons for not loving children?
In addition, as parents, if we are accompanying our children to grow up, we can't find sex education difficult. We should treat this kind of behavior positively, let children establish correct concepts, protect their private parts, and don't educate themselves. Do we want these animals to succeed?
When children are young, we should convey the differences of body structure between men and women through entertaining, for example, girls have ovaries and boys have testicles. Therefore, men and women are not close, and it is best to convey it through some popular science books. When the child is older, about ten years old, and slowly begins to wear fashion, we should tell her to protect her private parts, even those that will not be exposed if she wears less in summer.
There is a saying that boys should be poor and girls should be rich.
I think as parents, we really need to be "rich" for our daughter. This kind of "wealth" is not only material, but also reflected in the love for children. If you use the "poor" method, the love she can't get from you will be taken away from the society, and she will suffer if she is not careful.
I remember a neighbor who seems to be an irresponsible father. He often gets drunk alone, probably because he doesn't care about his daughter. Her daughter looks 13- 17 years old. She dresses badly every day and hangs out with a group of friends (mostly men). Suddenly one day, my daughter came back with blood all over her face, crying that she had been beaten, and her friends ignored her.
Therefore, as parents, we should give our children the necessary sex education from an early age, and at the same time give them enough fatherly love and maternal love, so that their children can grow up healthily and happily and avoid being hurt by animals!