I remember that when CoCo Lee won the championship in the program "I am a singer" in the fourth season, the once hot dancer was still full of charm.

I watched all the tracks she participated in that day, but the last episode of her behind-the-scenes tidbits impressed me the most.

You saw her in a gorgeous shirt, but I saw the sweat and hardships behind her beauty.

Without this tidbit, we don't know that COCO, who is so confident and beautiful, was also an ugly duckling with inferiority when she was a child. Because she is the third child in the family, her father died for some reason a few days before her birth, and her birth seems so inappropriate. Others advised her mother to give her away to others, but her mother insisted on raising three children by herself. So in COCO's mind, I think only by doing better can we be more likable.

I used to be fascinated by her dazzling image on the stage, but I don't know how much effort she made to achieve such results.

But now many people, intentionally or unintentionally, block the efforts behind these glamorous things, and always feel that others are so lucky and they are so mediocre because of bad luck.

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Everyone wants others to see their bright side, not bitter haha.

It's just that many people are divorced from reality and pursue the glamorous side prematurely. Buy a big-name bag with a few months' salary, but it can't improve your overall worth; If you are poor, you must pretend to be high and live a happy life in your circle of friends.

There is nothing wrong with letting others see your glamorous appearance, but at least it should be combined with reality.

If you think that the charm of others is self-contained and you don't need to work hard at all, then you are too young and simple.

A friend of a senior cost engineer told me that the young people in their company are too afraid of hardship now, and they can't stand working overtime for a few days at a fun running site. After studying for four years, I was clamoring to work for two months because I was too hard. People who shrink back like this can hardly do great things in their lives, because they just want an easy job and earn a lot of money. How can there be such a beautiful job in the world?

This friend is a monk over 500 years old and knows nothing about the road of building budget. He also knows that this road is not easy, so he should work very hard and grit his teeth.

He has worked hard for 10 years, and now he is also the first in this industry. He spelled everything by himself, and he said that this feeling is particularly practical.

Sometimes a dead end is not necessarily a dead end, but often it is another village.

Now that he has started to lose weight, he will also make friends, bask in his travels, bask in his running and bask in his slim appearance.

But only he knows the hardships behind these glamorous, and he is proud of it. His charm deserves all efforts.

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The other is my elder. In their early twenties, the couple met bad guys in business, owed a lot of debts, sold all their houses, and then rented houses everywhere. But she didn't muddle along. While doing her job well, she also taught herself accounting. A few years later, the industry in this place rose, and her technology just came in handy. Now she is also a senior in accounting.

Step by step, life is getting better and better, all debts are paid off, and I have my own house and car, and I am getting closer and closer to the life I want.

Now she is nearly 50 years old, and most of her peers are housework and have no pursuit of life. But she is as high-spirited as a young man, living a quality life, doing what she likes and going where she wants to go. Her life is colorful, and the light from her eyes and eyebrows after years of experience is so outstanding.

Others just think she is very lucky, and have no idea how much she has suffered to have everything now.

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People who are in a fog just don't like to complain about how hard they work, but you think they are really easy to get.

Perhaps that pretentious charm can bring you satisfaction, but this feeling is particularly nihilistic and has low timeliness. An hour may pass, but you have to bear the time and money you have paid for this charm. And this charm will never bring you the life you want.

Every job is not easy, just like every family has a difficult experience. If you are sure that you want to do this job and there is no better choice, then bite the bullet and only it will reward you.

Behind every shine, there is unknown pain. You have spent more time and effort than others, reached your goal step by step, stood at the peak of your life, and let more and more people see your light. What you pay behind is your inhuman and precious collection of others. .

I gradually learned not to make a little effort to tell each other, but to know after a little suffering, and gradually learned to accumulate strength silently.

Because 90% of what happens to you has nothing to do with others, and no one will care.

In fact, isn't it more fulfilling to have a blockbuster counterattack?