Pursuing perfection is human instinct, and everyone wants to be better.
But desperate to lose weight is to doubt yourself and not respect life.
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Excessive weight loss is a joke on life.
Being overweight will cause a great burden to the body, and everyone who is responsible for his health should learn to control his weight.
But losing weight without a bottom line, like obesity, is a contempt for life.
In order to lose weight, Xie, the "otaku goddess", used to eat only cauliflower for three meals a day, resulting in a perforated stomach.
Fennie Yuen became anorexic because of her crazy weight loss. She used to vomit everything she ate, only smoked for a living, and even didn't have her period for three months.
Stars urgently need fitness for their careers, but under the guidance of professionals, they can't guarantee complete health.
And many girls start to lose weight recklessly just by hearsay.
Classmate Xiaoling was originally a cheerful girl. After breaking up, her ex-boyfriend said "I like thin girls" and told her to lose weight desperately.
After seeing this method of vomiting, Xiaoling felt that she had opened the door to a new world. She can eat and drink casually every day, and then she will vomit, which is quite convenient.
But the feeling of losing weight without sweating is addictive. The frequency of her vomiting changed from once every three days to once a day and then to three times a day.
Later, as soon as she ate, she subconsciously pressed her throat and forced herself to vomit. If one day she doesn't hold her throat, she will be suffocated by the accumulated fat.
She began to suffer from insomnia. Insomnia leads to all hair loss, growing temper and becoming sensitive and negative.
Xiaoling knows that this is the price of losing too much weight, but she can't stop.
By the time we knew it, she was anorexia nervosa, depression aggravated and attempted suicide twice.
In her eyes, there is no health and unhealthy, only fat or not.
People who pay too much attention to losing weight are always full of doubts and anxiety about themselves. Even if they reach the target weight, they are still extremely inferior, afraid to face the camera and look others in the eye.
Only by watching your weight drop a little can you regain your confidence temporarily.
Many people want to lose weight but can't stick to it. They can only achieve their goals through slimming products.
There are all kinds of weight-loss products on the market now, but there are several that are really healthy and effective. More, it is the "three noes" products with unknown ingredients packaged by unscrupulous merchants under the pretext of losing weight quickly.
Last year, an online celebrity slimming drug named Shu was widely known.
Merchants claim to be imported from Germany, with all English instructions and very tall packaging. But the real production place is the black workshop in the backyard of the countryside.
More than one such black-hearted manufacturer was exposed. Dare you take diet pills?
Dare! Many people know there is a problem but don't care.
In 20 17, Xiaoli suffered from multiple organ failure, especially extreme hematopoietic dysfunction, after long-term use of a commercial weight-loss drug on WeChat, and died after being rescued.
17-year-old life passed away early before it could bloom, leaving only grieving parents and fragmented families.
Losing weight recklessly will really ruin a life.
It is normal to love beauty, and it is understandable to want to be better, but crazy weight loss will only bring endless self-doubt.
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Europe and America have always pursued health and beauty, and we regard thinness as the golden rule.
A website in Britain photoshopped the same female photo according to the aesthetic standard of 18 country.
Results 18 Among the perfect figure of women in countries, except China and Italian girls, other countries pay more attention to curvaceous beauty and healthy beauty.
The skinny, pale and morbid women in China are particularly shocking.
The perfection that should be pursued when abandoning health is actually incomplete and morbid in the eyes of others.
With the improvement of living standards, more and more people are classified as plus size, and the mainstream aesthetics are gradually changing.
A professor in college of wooster said:
Although women have always been more concerned about weight gain than men, we find that this dissatisfaction rate has now declined.
In European and American countries, many women are beginning to realize that the beauty of real women's bodies is varied, and health and pleasure are becoming more and more important, instead of blindly pursuing slim and thin appearance.
The flat and single aesthetic is slowly changing. This change is obvious in Hollywood.
Kat Dennings, one of the heroines in Bankrupt Sisters, is tall and straight, and her sexy flesh makes her more recognizable among actresses of the same period, and she has no intention of losing weight.
Super-large supermodel Ashley Graham's height 175cm and weight180kg. Her family and friends once told her, "You can never be a real model."
In order to make herself more in line with the mainstream aesthetics, she lost weight crazily and was once extremely thin.
But her body is getting weaker and weaker, her mood is extremely low and she feels unhappy.
After she resumed her diet, her weight recovered and her condition improved.
Now, she has become the 10 "most profitable model" by her own strength, and has appeared in the American Vogue125th anniversary issue together with supermodels such as gigi hadid, Zuzui and Liu Wen.
Ashley told all the fat girls in the world with her own experience:
As long as you really love yourself, your body is perfect. Sexiness has nothing to do with your body.
Not everyone has a supermodel figure, but everyone has beautiful power. Fat and thin should never be the standard and dividing line of beauty.
We should know that everyone is unique and extremely beautiful.
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Accept yourself now, and you can become more beautiful.
The pervasive media and advertisements send us the wrong message: Fat people have no future.
Unconsciously, many people put colored glasses on the fat man, and it is difficult for the fat man to maintain self-confidence.
Cousin began to gain weight in high school and tried every means to lose weight.
She encountered too much malice during the period of character-building, and despite her successful career, she remained silent and inferior.
Being fat is not the original sin, but is entangled in the aesthetics of others.
Rulu said when talking about the topic of characters in "A Covenant between Shandong and Henan":
I don't care. I have to lose weight. I can't. Losing weight makes me unhappy.
In the big environment where everyone wants to be thinner, as a female star living under the camera, Rulu clearly knows what she wants most, and still insists on herself in the face of ridicule and satire, and has not been kidnapped by the public aesthetics.
The most touching thing about Rulu is that he is confident and cheerful, and fully accepts his shortcomings.
The so-called maturity is half the pursuit of beauty and half the acceptance of imperfection.
Fat girl Watanabe Naomi, height 157 cm, weight 200kg. With 6.66 million fans, she is truly the first online celebrity in Japan.
She showed herself boldly and confidently. Her cheerful and interesting personality attracted a large number of fans, but her plump figure made people see another kind of beauty.
She founded her own fashion brand PUNYUS, which is young, avant-garde and affordable, especially suitable for fat girls to create their own fashion.
She held solo tours in new york, LA and Taibei, and every venue was packed.
As long as Watanabe Naomi is a cover model, the sales volume will soar to 654.38+10,000 copies in one minute, which has a strong commercial appeal.
Obesity is not a direct beauty defect of Junichi Watanabe, but a boost to her career. She showed everyone how beautiful the fat girl's confidence was.
"Accept the imperfect self" says:
Your so-called' shortcomings', qualities you don't like, are actually your most precious wealth, but the degree of expression is a bit too strong.
They can be used by you instead of being a stumbling block.
The only thing you need to do is to show these qualities to the right level at the right time and in the right way, and don't overdo it.
Watanabe Naomi said, "If I want to lose weight one day, it must be for my health."
Accepting your imperfections, whether fat or thin, should be out of your own will.
Appearance is not the whole of life. Only by being true to yourself, doing what you like and being wonderful in live high can you live a good life.
I hope that the fat girls in the world can confidently go back to "I ate your rice cream and occupied your floor!" when someone forced them to "what can they do if they can't even manage their bodies well?"
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