Lao Li has the habit of drinking. Even if you can only drink two cups, you need someone to accompany you, but his wife doesn't drink, so Lao Li seldom eats at home unless a friend comes to the house. The biggest contradiction between Lao Li and Lao Li is drinking. They have been married for more than 20 years, or rather, they have never seriously discussed this issue. Lao Li thinks that drinking is a hobby, and there is no problem. Lao Li's wife thinks he only cares about drinking and doesn't care about his family. So, two people were entangled in the wheat field by the needle tip. How many divorces have been blurted out, which has become a necessary tool for quarreling.
After the divorce, Lao Li's wife returned to her family. Her home is in another city, so she can't see Lao Li. Lao Li went to work step by step and went to drink after work, but no one quarreled and scolded him after drinking. He felt as if he hadn't finished his meal, but he could never go back. In the past Many couples don't know how to treat marriage. They all care about each other, but they use the wrong expression. It can only end in tragedy. In fact, the best management between husband and wife is understanding and tolerance. No one is perfect. Everyone has shortcomings. When we choose to love someone, we should also accept his shortcomings. Life really can't be as smooth and calm as written in the blessing, and there will always be stumbling blocks between two people. When there are differences between husband and wife, there are many ways to solve them.
If two people disagree, it is because they have different views on the same thing. Cognitive differences can't be changed in a day or two, and we can't ask each other by our own standards. If the other side can compromise easily, there will be no disagreement. Marriage is based on feelings, family is the bond, and you can't bind each other with cold rules. Women are emotional animals. When they encounter problems, they always act very angry. Anger is contagious. When her husband saw her angry, her anger eased her anxiety. So my husband is also very angry. The two began to make a scene and ended the scene. Finally, they seem to forget why they quarreled, and the so-called original intention no longer exists.
People don't understand each other because of different viewpoints. Men often ignore their families because they are desperate. They want to give their lover a better material life. Women are not as tired as men. And she has no higher requirements for material life, and he just wants to be with her husband. It will be less difficult if you can compare your ideas with the questions. If a person refuses to make efforts for his family, he is not a person worth relying on all his life. If a woman doesn't care about a man's life and death, but only wants to have a better material life, then this woman can't make her better. Life experience. In short, the most important thing between husband and wife is to get to know each other.