Shanghai women have always been the most controversial group of women in China. The famous director Wong Kar-wai once said: Shanghai women are a good film theme, because Shanghai women are more complicated. Therefore, it attracted everyone's doubts. How complicated is this Shanghai woman?

In my opinion, I prefer to understand Wong Kar-wai's complexity as a kind of uniqueness. This uniqueness lies in having a soul, and the soul is a kind of warm life texture.

For example, many people say that Shanghai is a place to raise women, and Shanghai women are very feminine. This femininity is not rouge, perfume, ten fingertips or slender jade legs, but a temperament that is still not shallow after years, which makes people feel worthy of another look. Because she has been educated since she was a child, the beauty and ugliness of women are only a matter of decades. The important thing is to be a man and satisfy yourself. For example, some people are like cigarettes, which only turn into wisps of light smoke after burning, while others are more like sandalwood, even if time passes, there is a faint fragrance rippling.

Fashion is the attitude of the times, and Shanghai women are undoubtedly the attitude of fashion. Shanghai is always at the forefront of fashion, whether it is a cheongsam dress in the past or a brand trend that leads the world today. Shanghai women naturally become the leaders of fashion trends. Over time, I pay attention to some qualities and styles that form myself through dressing up. It is not surprising that I have the money to wear world-famous brands that can adapt to any social occasion. What is commendable is that Shanghai women who have no money can also choose ordinary clothes in style and style, and it is a beautiful appearance to walk out the door.

This makes the word petty bourgeoisie sentiment closely related to Shanghai women. In fact, the petty bourgeoisie sentiment is not derogatory, but only shows that Shanghai women have a passion for life, which makes them have more lasting endurance in their hearts and will not be easily defeated by the sufferings of the world.

I don't believe it, Nong. Look, their hearts are naturally affectionate. They know how to smooth the folds of life in daily life and how to make things that are easy to be vulgar exquisite and exquisite. Whether it's the fruits and vegetables in the basket of the older generation, the soybean milk fried dough sticks in the morning, the layers of lace and lotus leaf lace in the room, the leisure bars of the new generation, charging in their leisure time, or doing aromatherapy spa by themselves after going home, these are all manifestations of Shanghai women infiltrating their daily lives into a little love song in different ways. They regard this little love song as a band-aid, and stick it carefully, tenderly and thoughtfully on many wounds that have been rubbed by life, so as to make themselves more vivid and vivid. Just like a picture scroll, they like to spread their exquisite and beautiful posture bit by bit and spread it deep into the years.

Perhaps there are still many people who think that Shanghai women are unconventional, unpretentious and unpretentious, but they have to admit that Shanghai women are unique, lively and attractive, just like blooming, fragrant and colorful, just like Ira's Shanghai dishes, which have a strong taste of oil and red sauce.

Shanghai nanren

In the past, many people may have disdained Shanghai men's "buy and burn" and "fear of their wives" and thought they were cowardly and sissy. But nowadays, men and women are more equal, and love and marriage are more relaxed and independent. It is these "otaku" and "cooking men" who know how to balance career and family. Therefore, it is neither too early nor too late for men in Shanghai now, just in time for this golden age that makes them feel at home.

For a long time, Shanghai men's Shanghai style has been praised and criticized by the public. Although it is inseparable from their personal actions, the whole is formed because of the many influences and creations of Shanghai's unique geographical situation. Just like those Chinese herbal medicines, it is a truth that only after a long period of "frying" and "boiling" can they finally be combined into a bowl of thick and beneficial medicinal soup.

Internally, these Shanghai men have to deal with all kinds of "three" and happy "jobs" of Shanghai women, thus becoming well-known gentlemen; Externally, it is necessary to practice strong viability in Shanghai, an international metropolis with fierce competition, so as to have a place of its own and win a shrewd reputation.

I don't believe it, Nong. You see, the thoughtfulness and propriety of men's words and deeds in Shanghai is really a scenery to please women. In dress, their precise grasp of fashion and their own cleanliness are no less than those of Shanghai women; Between words, they never skimp on some gentle and delicate greetings. In manners, the good upbringing they have received since childhood makes them look gentleman, reserved, gentle and gentle.

The pace of Shanghai is changing very fast, both in life and work. Shanghai men living in this environment are very adaptable. They are smart and affordable, know how to learn from others and constantly enrich their connotations. They are serious and reliable, and are famous for their credit and efficiency. They know how to be independent, which is a clever way to deal with the world, and how to win the most favorable position for themselves in a complex environment. The twists and turns can only be described as "clear".

It can be said that Shanghai men are almost decathlon men. They have a sense of responsibility for their families and can really bear hardships for them. They are very self-motivated in their careers, so they are also capable of putting on a play in their careers. They are like an embroidery needle, which not only has tenderness in front of women, but also has their own ability to target the wheat to be outside. So, at home, they are just a cup of fragrant coffee; Outside, they are solid backers in the storm.

Therefore, no matter how praised or criticized by the outside world, every Shanghai man is actually just a Shanghai man. Their own accent is like the sentence that Zhou Libo refused to say in the Spring Festival Evening: "Not every drop of water has to melt into the sea, I am the one rippling in the Huangpu River."