If a person denies your feelings or shows a wait-and-see attitude because of your absence, then I don't think this person will accept you as he said in the future. Appearance can be changed, but what is more important is the heart. Old age is inevitable for both men and women, and only the truly substantial inner nature is the most attractive. You have a good impression on him, too. You have to fight for it. If this man is not as good as Jenny thinks, will you still like him? Feelings are two-way, but they are also self! If you think there is nothing wrong with your state and your life is normal, you don't need to lose weight. People who really like you will not dislike you because of your appearance.