Zi Han, a name deeply loved by parents born in 1980s and 1990s, may be influenced by online literature. From kindergarten to university, almost every class is called Zi Han.

According to the statistics of colleges and universities, there are 18 freshmen in Wuda University named Zi Han, and there are 12 freshmen in Northeast Normal University. The age span of this name is very large. There are many students named Zi Han now, and there will be different Zi Han, Zi Han and Zi Han in one class. This is really a Zi Han.

Reason:

It is such a name that can reflect the style of the times. Recently, it has appeared in various videos, and it seems even a little confusing.

This stalk comes from a net picture: A "Zi Han mother" said in the group that their child Zi Han was bitten by a mosquito. Later, "Mother Zi Han" played tricks on the teacher in the group: "Teacher, why is my Zi Han bitten by mosquitoes, and the kindergarten looks after the children like this?"

She even asked, "Why don't you bite others?"

This conversation can be described as quite against the sky. Besides "Mother Zi Han" questioning kindergarten teachers' unkindness, "Mother Zi Han" and "Mother Zi Han" also voiced among parents.

The popularity of "Zi Han Literature" on the Internet is not only because of this name, but also because of the "crazy culture of parents" conveyed behind this incident.

WeChat group has become an important channel for communication between schools and parents. Nowadays, parents are overprotective and even doting on their children. Every time a child has a little thing at school, parents always make a mountain out of a molehill and constantly amplify the reasons for it, which is also an important factor leading to the disharmony between home and school.

Choking parents

Nowadays, although many parents are well educated, they are always out of control when facing their children's problems. They can't tolerate a small detail that doesn't follow their own ideas and arrangements, and try to correct it, even at all costs.

As long as the child suffers a little injustice, parents should find someone to settle accounts. When taking a group photo, the child stood behind, not in position C, and the parents questioned the teacher's reasons.

When arranging the duty table, the child has an extra job of taking out the garbage, and the parents ask the teacher for theory; In class, the teacher doesn't ask the children to get up to answer questions, but the parents ask the teacher ... These parents' suffocating operations have not only annoyed the teacher, but also affected the child's impression in the teacher's mind. After all, this is a "lose-lose" situation.

This generation of parents is completely different from the previous generation. Their material conditions are relatively superior and their education level is higher. If the previous generation of parents only asked for "listening to the teacher" and "studying hard", then this generation of parents obviously have a comprehensive concern for their children and have higher requirements for themselves and the school.

Behind this excessive concern, the essence is that parents' anxiety has nowhere to put it.

How anxious are parents in China today? In 20 19, iResearch published the White Paper on Growth Anxiety, and 9 1.5% of parents in China were anxious about all aspects of their children's growth. According to a survey conducted by China Youth Daily, 67.0% of the respondents attribute their anxiety to the psychological pressure of comparing with others, and 64. 1% of the respondents think that parents are demanding too much of their children now.