Some people say: "After a woman gives birth to a child, all the focus is on the family and the child. I seldom pay attention to my appearance and buy clothes for myself. I am not willing to spend money or dress up. "

What I want to say is that it's not that we women don't want to love ourselves, but that we also want to love ourselves more, but we just don't have time, money and ability. Men think we are still beautiful and have face when we take them out. Who knows the sadness of being a child's mother?

I am the mother of a five-year-old child in 1990. I have been taking care of the baby at home for six years, and I haven't worked for six years. Everyday is to take care of children, clean the house, wash clothes and cook. Sometimes I really want to talk to someone, but after a long time, I gradually find myself out of society for too long, interpersonal communication has been cut off, friends have their own lives, and some words can't be said to their families, so I can only digest them myself.

Think about the past few years when I was looking after the children alone in my hometown. I don't even care about eating every day and can't sleep well. I used to be a gentle and virtuous woman, but now my voice is scary, which is practiced with children, otherwise I can't suppress the wild animals at home. In the dead of night, I will secretly cry and think about why people want to get married and have children. I can't find the answer ... because everyone lives like this, life is like this, there is no way! ! ! !

Men, please pay more attention to your's wives. In fact, they are really fragile and need your company and comfort. Taking care of the baby is not a matter for one person, but for a couple.