1, talking to yourself, bragging. For many men, the success of their careers and the Excellence of their friends and colleagues are assets that they can be proud of. When facing women, many straight men will unconsciously brag, as if women will begin to admire themselves.
But in fact, it is difficult for women to have any affection for men who only show off. Women will only think that such a man is superficial and naive and has no essential advantage. Besides, when chatting, women have the desire to talk, and men only talk to themselves. Why do women like this way of chatting?
2, has been pouring cold water, reasoning is stronger than men's innovative thinking ability, focusing on solving difficulties. Women are emotional and pay more attention to the expression of emotions. Sometimes it's a whim, such as losing weight for three days, such as taking a trip suddenly, and sometimes it's just an idea, just saying. But as a man, telling her the truth blindly, throwing cold water on women, and analyzing weight loss a little, we must insist on exercise, self-discipline and control our personal privacy at ordinary times. Traveling on holiday is not practical at all.
For women, this kind of behavior is what they hate most, and it will only make them feel that you don't understand them at all. Everything about her is being denied by you and not recognized by you. Of course, I won't like a man like you, and I won't have the idea of chatting with you next time.
What women say is perfunctory. I don't care that women always have a strong desire to share and talk. No matter with sisters or men, when you see something interesting, you want to share it with people you care about. That is also a kind of happiness for them.
However, some steel straight men, when chatting, are reluctant to pay attention to what women are not interested in, and then breed perfunctory answers, which will soon be completely forgotten. For women, this way of chatting will only make them feel that they are not valued and it is difficult to have a good impression on men.
4, excessive gossip, asking about other people's things everywhere Sometimes, when it comes to gossip, everyone thinks that this is also an adjective for women, but in fact, some men are also very gossip and like to ask about other people's things all the time. Maybe it's just curiosity, or maybe it's because they want to hear jokes.
For women, gossip is more important to simply add some topics and happiness to chat with sisters, but men who gossip too much really don't like it, and they will think that this man is too nagging and curious about other people's affairs every day, so men must pay attention.