As it happens, where it is hoped that it will rain, the dark clouds will disperse; I hope it will rain cats and dogs where it is sunny.
Life is like this, not so much is just right.
Still, if you don't stop, there will be surprises.
Because God has his own plan!
Contrary to expectations, this is the normal state of the world.
Thirty without Nothing is a very popular TV series recently. Many viewers stay up late to catch up with the drama, and when they are ahead, they leave footprints that they pay for.
This drama really shows the diversity of women in real life from the shaping of different roles.
Living hard, pursuing career and choosing love, different people have different experiences.
Among them, the most touching thing is not the stories that happened to them, but the reflection that these stories brought to people.
As Gu Jia, played by Tan Ya, said in the play, "Not all efforts will succeed, and many things will backfire."
In the play, Gu Jia can take care of the family and help her husband succeed in his career.
All women want to be such women, and all men want to marry such women.
Even so, Xu Huanshan didn't control his inner desires and the derailed forest.
All Gu Jia's efforts seemed feeble at that moment, but after what happened, Gu Jia could only choose to accept them.
Because she can't fall, can't let her father worry, can't let Xu Ziyan get hurt, and as for herself, she can only accept that these things backfire.
Gu Jia's route is very realistic. "On the first day of my delivery, Gu Jia died, while Xu Ziyan's mother survived." .
Almost everyone will have a beautiful blueprint about themselves. It is simple to draw a blueprint in their minds, but it is really difficult to achieve it. There will always be unexpected episodes.
Who is not living a hard life, but backfiring is the normal state of this world.
On the contrary, there are other plans.
If all hearts can meet unexpectedly, how many sad stories will be lost in the world.
Many stories are moving because people didn't expect them, but "he" came anyway.
Perhaps this "he" is like a "disaster" for many people, but after walking through this "disaster", I suddenly found that it is actually beautiful.
This is the love story of Zhong He in Thirty for Nothing. Meeting unexpectedly is wonderful for them, but divorce is counterproductive for them.
Walking around, Zhong experienced a sister-in-law love that he had never experienced before, that is, the so-called youthful love, but when he looked back, he suddenly found that everything in the past was a memory.
Divorce is counterproductive for them. After remarriage, mutual respect and care is another arrangement.
In the play, the audience dubbed it "Chen Yu culture" because before their divorce, fish was more important than anything else.
After the divorce, Zhong tried to fall in love with Zhong Xiaoyang, but in the process, he suddenly understood what he wanted.
If there is no counterproductive divorce, I still won't know how to cherish it, and Zhong won't find it good.
Therefore, when you encounter something, you must keep a normal heart. Accepting the job change, Zhong became a best-selling author because of this feeling.
If you don't succeed, please believe that God must have other plans. Everything lost will come back in another way.
Accept the opposite situation and spend the rest of your life.
There are many things in life that go against people's hearts. It's not terrible that things go against people's hearts. The terrible thing is that people will complain when they accept something.
If you have a calm heart, it will be much easier to accept things.
Sometimes we will encounter things that can't be solved for a while, but walking, one day, we will suddenly find that things that were once unacceptable can now be said with a smile.
I remember a friend who cooked braised fish for us for the first time, happily bought fish and various ingredients, and then played several rounds in the kitchen.
Wash the fish, cut the ingredients, fry the fish, and then cook the fish. ...
When you take it out, the fish is no longer a fish. Its head and tail are still there, but its meat is gone.
We all comforted him half-jokingly, but he said, "This is life, and it is always not so perfect. Accidents are normal. Accept it when you come, because the future will be better! "
Life is like this, just accept the reality, accept the unpleasant things on the way, grasp the present and live the rest of your life.
When things have happened, don't complain about why it's me, but think about what I can learn from it.
Accumulate experience on the road that backfires, and one day you will meet those beautiful things in your heart.
May you be well, because "if you are well, the sun will shine!" " "