What a lady expresses is a feeling, a situation, not a method or a discipline. A lady gives a quiet feeling and won't make people around her feel restless. Her words should have priorities, be calm and fresh, and not let others watch her sleep. Therefore, a lady's words and deeds will make people feel that the breeze is blowing over the water and the willow branches are dancing with the wind, so there will be no such feeling as a raging fire. A lady's language is safe, not detrimental to her dignity, not thoughtless. Every sentence and every word is gently spit out from between her lips and teeth with a calm speed and a slightly emotional tone, plus a smile on her face that fits the situation (of course, don't laugh wildly). A lady is a state of mind. She is in no hurry. She will think with her head, stick to principles and adjust everyone's mood with her own temperament. A lady is a feeling, which combines the feelings of politeness, dignity, generosity, stability, wisdom and cunning. In a word, a lady is not faked or made, but from the heart, and naturally reaches that state.