My family is not harmonious. When I was a child, I grew up in an environment of beating and cursing. At that time, I was very careful At that time, I dreamed of growing up and leaving home quickly, so that I could live alone in a new place, where there were no parents, no quarrels and no scolding.
So it's time. I left the home where I just wanted to escape quickly, but I didn't want to stay another minute. After going to a distant place, I am much more cheerful than before. I won't live as carefully as I did when I was a child, and I don't have to please my parents anymore, for fear that they will fight and infect themselves.
But after a long time, I will miss them and wonder if they are healthy. At the beginning, I called back once every six months, and I was busy every day. I am busy making money, playing and studying.
It was when I earned money that I realized the importance of money to a family, because when I earned money, I saw more people who were very old but still insisted on earning money to support their families. I also saw more people who insisted on working even if they were scolded by their leaders because they could not do without that job.
Later I began to understand my parents. Our family is under great pressure. There are too many children at home, grandparents are sick, and they have to take medicine every day. All the burdens at home are on my parents. They must take care of the old and the young. They are really tired. Maybe it's because of time. I found that I was not so afraid of them, and I didn't blame them.
I began to understand my parents' difficulties. I began to understand that my parents had no choice. I also learned to love them, and the harm they caused in my heart was gone.
Later, when I got married and had children, I understood the hardships of my parents better, and I was even more distressed by the fatigue and sadness of my parents when they were young, so time will help you heal the wounds you left behind, so anything, no matter how bitter, can be handed over to time, and he will help you dilute it and make you better.