In life, many mothers have said that they have experienced the magical moment of "mothe
In life, many mothers have said that they have experienced the magical moment of "mother-child connection".
@ jingjingjing: When I was in high school, my head was a little dizzy and I fell down the stairs. Fortunately, it's not serious. At this time, my mother just called me and asked me if I was okay. She said that her eyelids suddenly jumped violently, and she was worried that something had happened to me, so she called me. I said I almost fell down just now. My mother began to sigh: "It seems that my mother can really feel you. Be careful in the future, don't let my mother worry. "
@ Rudder Rudder Rudder Rudder: My son is over three months old. Once, he had a good time in bed. I was just about to turn around and get him a moisturizer. When I turned around, I subconsciously looked back. As a result, his whole body almost fell out of bed. I rushed over and grabbed his thigh quickly, but fortunately I didn't fall off the bed. I've been scared ever since. If I don't turn around in time, the baby will definitely fall out of bed.
Mothers and children are connected to each other "from the fetal period"
"Mother-child connection" is mutual, the mother can perceive the baby, and the baby can also receive the mother's joys and sorrows. During pregnancy, if the expectant mother is in a bad mood, such as anger, excitement, anxiety and nervousness, these babies can feel it, so the baby will fidget in the stomach. Similarly, if the expectant mother is happy, the baby will be happy and comfortable.
When the baby is three months old, it is synchronized with the mother's heartbeat.
Israeli scientists have found through research that a 3-month-old baby can synchronize its heartbeat with its mother. The researchers placed 40 pairs of mothers and babies face to face, and each person's heart was equipped with electrodes that could detect the heartbeat. It turns out that with the appearance of mother's loving face or happy laughter, the heartbeat of mother and child will soon be "in step"! This is also the embodiment of "mother-child connection".
It doesn't matter whether mother and son are connected, what matters is the intimate feelings between mother and son.
The fact that mother and child are connected, and that father and son are of the same sex is the thinking ability of human heart, which cannot be confirmed by science. Only Buddhism talks about the most meticulous mental effort, that is, mutual yearning and sincere induction. This spiritual strength is that when children are young, they have the strongest energy, sincerity, function, nature, mutual reading and interoperability, and they are all sincere, because sincerity can play a role. Even if it can't be proved by science, it is still conclusive. When the child grows up and doesn't think much about his mother, this message will gradually fade away, and the frequency of one party will slow down, that is, intermittent synchronization, and the father and son are of the same sex. This is recognized by Buddhism, that is, taking gold as the pillar, that is, using a piece of gold, that is, same sex, that is, gold in essence. In fact, these truths have long been known by the ancients. Because of what, the ancients regarded this filial piety as so important, and the deceased had to be filial for three years, that is, when you were a child, your mother used her sincerity. You should, want, and be filial to her. This is not a moral kidnapping at all. This is, should, you use it for your mother now, or is it sincere?
"Scientific basis" is "emotional attachment". This emotional attachment to women is far stronger than that of men, which is hard to overcome. This is also the fundamental reason why there are more women with obsessive-compulsive disorder and depression than men.
What men have in mind is a "world" and an ambitious "career". Most of them can't let go of "power", "career" and "world", so men are not very single-minded emotionally, and they are more affectionate and philandering. However, the direction is not easy to get lost and change, and we always wake up and spur ourselves with "playing with things."
Women are full of "men", "family" and "children". They are not so ambitious, so they always give up "be immersed in love with their children". Therefore, they feel that it is difficult to make peace after a brief encounter. The east wind has risen and a hundred flowers are blooming. They always let go of "men, families and children" and don't care much about "the universe, the world, power and career". They are emotionally single-minded, meticulous and thoughtful in small aspects, and confused and ignorant in big aspects. Always "marry a China, dress and eat", in their emotional world, they just want to find a comfortable nest.
These emotional differences between men and women have physiological reasons; It is also the result of "cultural education".
Physiologically, adult women have congenital disadvantages (physical strength, endurance and strength) and periodic "holidays" (menstruation); Especially during pregnancy and lactation, women need emotional care and psychological comfort to feel safe and warm.
In terms of cultural tradition and education, China is a "farming" nation with artificial differences: men have accepted the feelings of "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order and governing the country" since childhood. 15 years old, you will ride with your father to become a "father and son soldier", or inherit your ancestral business and take on the heavy responsibility of the family.
Girls receive another kind of education: "three obedience and four virtues", that is, "married at home from the father, widowed from the son" (four virtues are not detailed), and "female classics" and other education. From the age of 13, parents are busy buying "wedding dresses", finding a good family, or finding a powerful person, even if it is a job. Therefore, in the history of women, in terms of "politics, economy, ideology, military affairs, science and technology", the fundamental reason why outstanding figures are "scarce" is extremely scarce.
In the west, after the Renaissance, especially after the industrial revolution, women made rapid progress, and the feminist movement also developed with the development of the civil rights movement. In China, despite the "New Culture Movement" and the 70th anniversary of the founding of the People's Republic of China (the New Culture Movement has passed a hundred years), the progress and development are seriously lagging behind due to thousands of years of "cultural inertia" and thinking inertia.
Therefore, "connecting mother and child" is only an emotional attachment and emotional sustenance, and there is no supernatural power and no so-called sixth sense.
That's all. Feel for yourself.
Hello, it's my pleasure to answer your article. The following are my personal views and experiences:
A new study shows that a 3-month-old baby can synchronize each other's heartbeats with their mothers in milliseconds. Keep your heart synchronized? What a difficult thing it is! But for babies and their mothers, this is the simplest thing. The researcher did this: he put 40 groups of mothers and babies face to face, and each person's heart was equipped with electrodes that could be attached to the skin. One by one, just a smile time, the heartbeat of the mother and the child almost immediately merged.
How amazing! This may be the so-called mother-child connection, which is a magical induction and a sacred place. Not long ago, a public service advertisement "Organ Donation Heartbeat" told such a magical story: a crying baby, whether it is a handsome uncle, a kind grandmother, menstruation, a lovestruck couple or a young child, can't make him calm down and stop crying. Until the arrival of a strange uncle, the baby who heard the heartbeat gradually smiled and held his uncle with his little hand.
It turned out that the mother's heart was transplanted to this uncle a few months ago.
It turns out that love can make people beat.
It turns out that mother and son are connected and really exist.
In addition to the shock brought by this public service advertisement, there are many stories about the connection between mother and child. Sometimes, the mother saved the child, and sometimes, the child saved the mother.
Story 1
A rural mother, after seeing her three-month-old child fall asleep in the early spring afternoon, thought about going to the vegetable field to grow vegetables. So, she put the child on the bed, covered him with a quilt, and then took the rapeseed and hoe and went to the vegetable field near the village. But after working in the vegetable field for a while, she suddenly felt something was wrong, her heart was stuffy, her heart was racing, and her mind was full of children's faces and crying. Unconsciously, she felt that the child was in danger, so she threw down her hoe and ran frantically to the village.
When she ran home and rushed into the nursery, she was immediately frightened by the scene in front of her: the child had got into bed, and the whole person could not even see her head or cry. In desperation, she lifted the quilt and picked up the child. At this point, the child's face is already a little pale, and it seems that he has no breathing, and there is a painful expression on his face. She panicked and ran out with the baby in her arms. Just as she was about to rush out of the house, the child cried with a "wow", and she was already crying into tears.
There is still a little chill in early spring. The quilt that parents cover their children is a little thick. Children will move when they sleep, and may slowly and unconsciously get into the quilt. However, the child is still young, and he can't kick the quilt that covers him, nor can he lift it. If it weren't for the mother's telepathy, I'm afraid the child would have suffered a tragedy.
Story 2
There is a mother in England. When feeding her 6-month-old baby, the baby always refuses to eat the milk from her right breast. If you keep feeding her, she will scream. The young mother felt very strange and went to the hospital for an examination. As a result, she had a very rare triple negative breast cancer, grade two. Moreover, the doctor told her that most people often don't know the disease and die because of delayed treatment. So she can be found in time, and she is a lucky one.
Mother was filled with emotion: if it weren't for her daughter, she really couldn't doubt that she would get cancer. This is when the mother is in danger, the child instinctively sends a signal, thus saving the mother. This empathy is really touching!
What is even more amazing is that this magical telepathy exists not only between parents and babies, but also between adults and parents. The ancient book "Twenty-four Filial Pieties" recorded such an anecdote: once, once Shen was chopping wood on the mountain, a guest came to the house. His mother didn't know what to do and hoped her son would come back soon, but Zeng Shen still didn't come back. So she bit her finger, and Zeng Shen was heartbroken. She immediately went home with firewood and asked why. Mother said, "Suddenly a guest came, and I bit my finger to make you realize.
So, what leads to the connection between mother and child? Is there a scientific basis for connecting mother and child? Recently, a new discovery by the research team of the University of Washington seems to provide an important clue to solve this mystery. The research team found that a very special kind of cells-microchimerism cells are often found in women's brains. Nearly two-thirds of women were found to have the DNA of their male fetus in many areas of the brain, and it lasted for a long time because the oldest owner was 94 years old. This phenomenon shows that fetal cells have entered the mother's brain. It is probably because of the existence of this micro-chimeric cell that mother and son are connected!
How amazing! Well done! May everyone cherish this hard-won love between mother and child and accompany them all their lives!
There is nothing wrong with this sentence. When the baby is still in the mother's belly, he (she) can receive the mother's emotions and share joys and sorrows with her.
Israeli researchers have found that a 3-month-old baby can synchronize its heartbeat with its mother. The researchers placed 40 pairs of mothers and babies face to face, and each person's heart was equipped with electrodes that could detect the heartbeat. It is found that with the appearance of mother's loving face or happy laughter, the heartbeat of mother and child is "synchronized" soon.
The scientific basis hypothesis of "mother-child connection" A research team at the University of Washington found that a very special cell-microchimerism is often found in women's brains. Nearly two-thirds of women were found to have the DNA of their male fetus in many areas of the brain, and it lasted for a long time. The oldest owner is 94 years old.
This phenomenon shows that fetal cells have entered the mother's brain. But how this phenomenon came about has not been confirmed, but it is enough to show that the relationship between mother and child has a "foundation" in the brain.
I believe there is a connection between mother and son, because I wake up three seconds earlier than my son every time I sleep. Many times, I can catch him one second before he is ready to fall out of bed in the middle of the night. "
"Being a mother is not easy! From the moment the child was born, he became a superman! I won't reach out until my daughter rolls over and kicks the quilt. If she kicks the quilt, I will unconsciously reach out and cover it for her. I can feel every subtle movement. "
Children's educational psychologists believe that parents have unparalleled advantages in their children's personality and psychological development. The nearly 10 months of life between mother and son has formed a kind of psychological intimacy between them, which is irreplaceable by father and any caregiver. Only mothers can instinctively perceive the needs and dangers of their children;
Only the mother can instinctively give the child a sense of security and satisfaction, and the healthy growth of the child's body and mind especially needs the uninterrupted care of the mother. A year and a half later, the father's role is to guide the children to explore the outside world independently and form a sense of independence and security. Therefore, no matter what kind of parenting style you are adopting now, you should be more involved in children's physical and mental growth and education.
After three years old, I can teach my baby to read. My daughter began to study at this time, and she used many methods to cultivate her interest. The most effective way is to use Apipi. Baidu search cat handsome is good for you to learn Chinese characters. My daughter has used 1 for many years and likes it very much. Now she often tells me stories. That's great.
Mother and child are connected, because the child is born by the mother, and it is a piece of meat that falls from the mother. Motherly love children, children love their mothers, so mother and child are connected.
Mother and son have the same blood, so they are connected with each other. There is a saying in psychology called telepathy, and some people say it is called the sixth sense officer. Sometimes mother and son are not together, and the two places are far apart. Once one party is unwell, there is no need to write or call, the other party will feel uncomfortable in heart or body, or pain in a certain part of the body, or palpitations, or even upset or even want to cry. Sometimes I dream that my relatives are not good in my sleep, and sometimes I can confirm it by making a phone call. This is called telepathy or sixth sense consciousness. Some people may say that this is accidental and cannot be used as a scientific basis. But there are many natural phenomena in the world that science can't explain so far. Maybe science hasn't developed that far. Once science has explored its secrets, there will be scientific basis.
The understanding of this problem is that life exists in the natural place, not only the mother, but the lover, lover and predestined relationship who are caught in the real picture or entangled in body language first conceive the reality. There are many kinds of empathy, such as many special working environments, you have to find them yourself, such as special forces, aerospace and so on. However, we must know that we can compare illegal existence with choice, and we can distinguish actual existence from natural existence. Doubt comes from the heart, thinking comes from the heart, out of nothing, out of nothing, or empty or present. If the realm exists in the past and the future, it exists in the mind of the self. The existence of trace natural Taoism does not drive me crazy. A study is not completed with the development of self-brain function. People are still aware of the existence of trace natural Taoism and the existence of nature. It's already published.
Also called telepathy. Semi-crazy theory uses the theory of discouragement to solve the bell, which requires the person who tied the bell to trace the existence of natural Tao. This is based on the idea that science must continue to solve doubts according to inheritance. It's all about understanding, perception, consciousness, conduction, recognition and learning in learning and thinking. The long-term habit of listening, listening and listening becomes natural, which produces the so-called sixth sense. Is that people get * * * frequency in the real map. At the same time, the understanding of the spiritual shadow area of thinking mode is also combined with the mind and spirit, and is combined with the feeling of consciousness. It's the Poisonous Heart Sutra, which says that there is no love, no connection, no ruthlessness and no hate, and there is a beginning and an end. It is also said that the origin is doomed, the Tao comes from the right place, and the shadow is endless. This kind of existence continues, the heart is determined in the environment, the artistic conception is imagined, and right and wrong are self-determined. Suffer in an all-round way Suffering from responsibility and mission, first.
The existence of calculation is people's deep impression and image memory of the real environment after creating pure sociology with pure thinking and consciously existing in real thinking. All the * * * frequency entanglements are still unclear, which is called the common natural phenomenon of mother-child connection. Choosing right or wrong is a rule. Thousands of mistakes are also the entanglement of the human brain, but they are also homesickness conveyed in real situations, not the so-called artistic conception accused by others. Being great is good for you, you know? Oh! Time is not too long. It's too high to be blown away. Therefore, this is the secret that human's own body and mind get from the fate of the lover's lover, and the realization of emptiness and reality after the development of human brain function is also due to the existence of natural Tao and appreciation of others. There is a release on it. If you feel there is a call of duty, please enter the inquiry on behalf of 697. In your study and thinking, try to think about the promises of ancient craftsmen and terrans needed by the scientific basis and work hard for the benefit of mankind and everything. Thanks for the existence of the teacher. People demand the existence of elements in this class!
I wish everyone in mankind a better life, which almost exists in keeping wisdom, showing the inheritance and self-commitment of office in thinking, and contributing wisdom to future generations of mankind!
We have heard the expression "mother and child are connected" since childhood, and many people think it is used to describe the intimate relationship between children and mothers.
In fact, this sentence is not wrong. When the baby is still in his mother's belly, he can receive his mother's emotions and share joys and sorrows with his mother.
So, what is the scientific basis of the statement that mother and child are connected? When did it happen? Today, I will take you to learn more.
When did "mother and child are linked to each other" begin?
When a fertilized egg is implanted into the uterus to form an embryo, some cells will differentiate into a heart tube, which is the most primitive heart. When this heart dimly began to beat for the first time, a little life was formed in a sense.
Normal fetal heart rate is 120~ 160 beats/min, while pregnant women's heart rate is higher than that of ordinary women, but it is also in the range of 70~90 beats. With such a different foundation, it seems hard to think of the word "mother-child connection".
However, under special circumstances, the heart rhythms of mother and child may be synchronized. A study by the University of Aberdeen in the UK found that when the mother breathes at a specific frequency, the heart rates of the mother and the fetus are synchronized at a large frequency.
The researchers invited six healthy pregnant women who were pregnant for 34 to 40 weeks to carry out the experiment, observed their electrocardiogram through the fetal ECG monitor, and asked their mothers to breathe at different frequencies. The results show that when the mother breathes 20 times per minute, the coincidence rate of maternal and fetal heart rate is much higher than other situations. But when the fetal condition is not good, this synchronization will be reduced.
Therefore, in this sense, the earliest "heart-to-heart" between mother and child is that the mother always cares about the health of the unborn child.
How to "contact" between mother and child after the child is born?
If the biological basis can be found before birth, mother and child are integrated and the heart rhythm affects each other, then how to explain the phenomenon of "mother and child connected" after birth?
Israeli researchers have found that a 3-month-old baby can synchronize its heartbeat with its mother. The researchers placed 40 pairs of mothers and babies face to face, and each person's heart was equipped with electrodes that could detect the heartbeat.
It turns out that with the appearance of mother's loving face or happy laughter, the heartbeat of mother and child will soon be "in step"!
Who is leading the "mother-to-child connection"?
Is this "step by step" process that the mother synchronizes the baby or the baby synchronizes the mother?
A study conducted by American HeartMath organization found that mother is a key factor in the close relationship between mother and child. They monitored the electrocardiogram of the mother and the baby respectively, and found that only when the mother focused on the baby would her brain waves coincide with the baby's heartbeat.
In other words, as long as the mother concentrates, she can feel the child's heartbeat. But the reverse is not necessarily the case. After all, it is very difficult for the baby to concentrate on feeling the mother's heartbeat.
"Mother-child heart-to-heart" and microchimerism
The research team of the University of Washington found that a very special cell-microchimerism is often found in the female brain, which indicates that fetal cells have entered the mother's brain.
Most likely, fetal cells are produced during the mother's pregnancy and enter the mother through the placenta. Although this discovery cannot fully explain the principle of "heart to heart", it is enough to show that the correlation between mother and child is "basic" in the body.
"Mother-child contact" and social synchronization
A large number of psychological studies have found that there is a spontaneous coordination effect in interpersonal relationships. For example, when facing different interviewees, Larry King, a famous American TV host, will adjust his tone of voice with the interviewee, so as to close the distance with the interviewee through a "synchronous" atmosphere.
People will subconsciously change various external behaviors, which is a key to maintain interpersonal relationships. Psychology calls it "social synchronization". In addition, the long-term intimate relationship established in the same environment will also increase this synchronization. Therefore, it is not only the case of "mother and child are connected", but also the husband and wife are alike and friends know each other, which is an unconscious imitation to some extent.
Therefore, "mother-child connection" is not only a statement reflecting maternal love, but also a phenomenon that can be observed both physically and psychologically.
No matter whether the children are young or adults now, the mother's contact with them has never been interrupted
We have heard the expression "mother and child are connected" since childhood, and many people think it is used to describe the intimate relationship between children and mothers.