For example, Victoria, the original spice girl, seems to have never seen her fat. Even after giving birth, she still keeps a hot figure.
Slowly, the recovery speed of star mothers after childbirth has also become a competition. Sun Li began to work three months after giving birth to her daughter. This figure is the same as before pregnancy.
Yang Mi and baby are even worse. Still slim and beautiful after childbirth, just like never having a baby. No wonder they have been suspected of surrogacy.
Now, the postpartum figure of a star has become the standard for netizens to evaluate whether they are dedicated or not. Once they gain weight, they will be scolded. Zhang Xinyi was recently scolded for this.
A few days ago, Zhang Xinyi, who just became a mother, visited her husband Justin's crew and was met by netizens in a restaurant. Her "ugly photo" was also uploaded to the Internet by netizens.
In the photo, her figure has not recovered, her face is round and her legs are thick.
As soon as this group of photos was uploaded to the Internet, it immediately attracted the ridicule of netizens:
"Too fat, too ugly!"
"So fat, this is the country aunt!"
"I don't want to be my wife. It's disgusting."
There are even some self-media articles that directly describe their sloppy behavior, self-release, regardless of the image, and like "Sister Ma", their words are full of accusations.
Subsequently, Zhang Xinyi responded by calling for "more tolerance and respect for a breastfeeding mother" and questioning the bad behavior of "teasing women to get traffic".
Later, she added that she didn't recover in time because she didn't have enough sleep to feed her children and couldn't go on a diet to lose weight.
But isn't double chin, bloated and chubby what most women look like after childbirth? Aren't female stars women?
In fact, Zhang Xinyi was not the only one who suffered verbal violence like this.
Aishwarya rai is the first beauty in India and was once rated as the first beauty in the world. Maybe some people don't know who she is, but when it comes to the hostess of the song "Bride Married, Groom Not Me", everyone should be impressed.
Aishwarya rai has appeared in many good works and created many classic characters, and is regarded as a national treasure of India.
However, being pregnant and having children after marriage made her figure begin to get fat, which was reviled by the Indian people.
Some people think that she insulted India's international image and allowed her weight to continue to rise, which is tantamount to "treason"; Some people say that she is "the witch who took her away". Indian netizens believe that slimming is the duty of Aishwarya, and obesity is like dereliction of duty. The public opinion is almost one-sided, thinking that she not only insulted the title of Miss World, but also seriously affected the global perception of Indian beauty.
The world is really unfair to women. Everyone has different pursuits. Some people want to stabilize their careers, while others just want to enjoy being a mother. What we need to remember is that a female star is a woman before becoming a star, and she has the right to choose.
If you still think it's easy for a mother to have a baby, then watch the movie Tully. It reproduces in detail the living conditions of women after giving birth to children.
Marlowe is a mother of three children. She was a hipster when she was young, but getting married and having children completely changed her. Heavy and trivial housework, two bears and a starving baby seem to crush her. Every cell in her is screaming for help, but she still has to hold on.
The rhythm of her life is:
Sucking, feeding, changing diapers and sleeping ... keep spinning like a top, so tired that I don't even have the strength to change dirty clothes. I can fall asleep by leaning on the sofa for one second, with messy hair, sticky eyes and a belly full of fat and stretch marks. ...
These are the most authentic states of most mothers.
The real scene in the film directly hits the pain points of the parturient. The main creator wants to create a frank, straightforward and unpretentious film to express the most secret pain on the road of motherhood-not only physical fatigue and discomfort, but also psychological pressure big enough to destroy reason.
Marlowe is in an endless cycle of feeding, changing diapers and putting the children to sleep every day, and at the same time he has to endure the pain of rising milk and being seriously out of shape.
Not only is there no one to help her, but the dirty clothes at home are piling up higher and higher, and there are a lot of housework waiting for her to do. I have to put up with all this and coax the children. Every time I cry, Marlowe, as a mother, is extremely painful.
These little accumulations finally crushed Marlowe, who didn't understand why it was so difficult to be a good mother. Gradually depressed, even depressed.
It is worth mentioning that in order to play Marlowe, Charlize Theron gained 50 pounds (22.6 kilograms). She found the process of gaining weight interesting, but after gaining weight successfully, she felt depressed and tired for the first time in her life, which was similar to the spirit of the characters in the film.
My best friend suffered a lot because she was pregnant. She told me that looking at the window after giving birth scared me.
According to statistics, 50%~70% pregnant women will have problems such as crying, emotional instability, insomnia and anxiety.
Some of them suffer from postpartum depression, pessimism, inattention, serious remorse and even suicidal tendencies.
Last year, two mothers committed suicide by jumping off a building because of postpartum depression, and one of them was still holding her daughter.
Some people may say that it is a woman's duty to have children, and everyone else can. Why are you so melodramatic?
This is all bullshit, don't believe it!
Are those depressed women because they don't want to have children? Don't! The status of pregnant women does not depend entirely on themselves. The company of husbands and relatives and the quality of working environment are all influencing factors.
My best friend said that the main reason why she can survive postpartum depression is that her husband's considerate company makes her feel married to the right person.
My best friend is lucky to meet someone who knows and loves her.
How many people can be as lucky as her?
There is no woman who doesn't love beauty. When she is willing to give up her beauty to have children for you, it is only because she loves you!
A little knowledge supplement, do you know how to say depression? How can I express my bad mood?
depress
depressed
bipolar disorder
bipolar disorder
hypochondrial region
hypochondrium
feverish
feverish
schizophrenia
schizophrenia
There are several manifestations of bad mood:
1. In a bad mood/temper.
For example:
I am in a bad mood.
I am in a bad mood.
The banter of these women makes me feel bad.
The taunts of these women make me feel bad.
2. Feeling bad/depressed/melancholy/uneasy/depressed
For example:
Whenever I feel depressed, I go shopping.
Whenever I am in a bad mood, I go shopping.
My mother knows when I am depressed, and no one can comfort me better than her.
Whenever I am in a bad mood, my mother will notice and come to comfort me.
Step 3 feel unwell
For example:
The teacher was in a bad mood this morning.
The teacher was in a bad mood this morning.
Step 4 be in a bad mood
For example:
Jack is in a bad mood because he is late.
Jack is late and in a bad mood.