After the incident, the family of the deceased said that the child's suicide may be related to the school he attended. According to his parents, the teacher of the school had beaten and scolded the students many times before the incident, which may be the cause of death. In this regard, the school denied beating and scolding students. The police immediately launched an investigation into the school.
So what? What is the result of the police investigation? A boy as young as 1 1 should enjoy his childhood and the care of his parents and relatives. What kind of loneliness and pain he experienced made him disheartened and chose this road of no return so firmly?
(1) Event Review: The boy hanged himself when he came home from school! The deceased Xiao Liu was born in an ordinary rural family in Huoqiu, Anhui. For the sake of family livelihood, his parents work in Hangzhou all the year round to earn money.
When I was a child, I was fine. His parents always take him with them when they go out to work. But later, because of school problems, when he was eight or nine years old, his parents sent him back to his hometown to be taken care of by his grandmother. Since then, Xiao Liu has become a "left-behind child"!
He studied in a boarding "private school" in Xihu Township, Huoqiu County, Anhui Province, and only took a vacation every two weeks. March 18 happens to be the day of school holiday. Xiao Liu left school and went home. The next day, he hanged himself near his home.
At noon on the day of the incident 1, a neighbor found Xiao Liu hanging from a stump when passing by the incident. Neighbors immediately rescued him and called the emergency number. Regrettably, Xiao Liu eventually died because of ineffective rescue.
When his parents heard the news, they rushed back to their hometown overnight and found their son lying there. The couple cried all day in Lacrimosa. According to Mr. Liu, the father of the child, after returning home, he heard a classmate say, "That classmate said that his son was beaten by the teacher three times a week!" Therefore, Mr. Liu questioned that the child's death was related to the beating and cursing of the school teacher.
"The child committed suicide because of the psychological trauma caused by being beaten and scolded by the teacher," Mr. Liu said.
Regarding the question of the family members of the deceased, the person in charge of the school responded that after the school investigation, Teacher Shi had never beaten or scolded Xiao Liu. Teacher Shi has always been serious and responsible for his work. He is an excellent teacher and has never beaten or scolded his students.
Police investigation results! After the incident was exposed, it triggered a hot discussion on the Internet. Netizens hold different views on the reasons why 1 1 year-old boy committed suicide.
Some netizens said that "the boy's suicide after coming home from school does not rule out the snoring behavior of the school teacher"; Some netizens also said that "most left-behind children have great depression and pain, which is related to the boy's suicide or long-term stay!"
The local police also attached great importance to the discussion of netizens, launched an investigation on the school, and promised to issue a notice online once the investigation results were clear.
On March 24, the local police issued a notice. Notice content display:
In response to the family members' doubts about "teachers beating and cursing students", the police investigated 13 teachers, students and related personnel of the school where the deceased was studying before his death. At the same time, relevant videos of the school canteen and hospital were taken to confirm that the deceased was not beaten and scolded by the school teacher before his death, and everything was normal when he left school on March 65, 438+08.
In addition, the police informed that on the day of the incident 1: 03, the deceased called his mother by mobile phone, during which he was criticized by his mother. After hanging up the video call, Liu immediately went out. Grandma thought he went out to go to the toilet, but she didn't care too much at that time. Around 1: 30, neighbors found Xiao Liu hanging from a tree.
Conclusion:
The police report has made it very clear that the deceased had suicidal thoughts only after being criticized by his mother. Obviously, the main reason for the boy's suicide is closely related to his status as a "left-behind child".
Children's childhood is a critical period of growth and development. Different from other children, left-behind children have long been unable to enjoy the guidance and help of their parents in ideological understanding and values, and lack of emotional care and care from their parents during their growth, which easily leads to two diametrically opposite results.
Some children are optimistic and strong-willed In an unfavorable growth environment, they usually know how to have fun in difficulties and understand the difficulties of their parents. They will become stronger, more sensible and learn to be independent earlier during their stay. This is what we often say, "The children of poor families take charge early ..." But this is only a small part!
In real life, most children's psychological endurance is not so strong. Staying behind for a long time, not only can't feel the care of parents, but what they expect is often criticism and accusation, which leads to serious deviation in understanding and value of these children, and their personality and psychology are different from other ordinary children.
For example, it is easy to form various negative emotions such as inferiority, introversion and rebellion, such as complaining about parents and their own situation. ...
It can be seen that most left-behind children have seriously deviated from the law of "children from poor families take charge early" and lived a very depressed life in real life. What they need may not be how much money their parents bring home every year, but communication, exchange and love!
According to statistics, there are more than 60 million left-behind children in China, all of whom belong to the "vulnerable groups" of society. I hope the society can pay attention to them and give more care to the left-behind children.