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Me and Jie Jun.

Reunion of old friends

Me and my military wife

I miss you not because of how good it was at that time, but because you were still young at that time. Nostalgia is an indispensable element in life, which makes our life more complete and rich. At the same time, it also tells us not to lose the beauty and beauty of the past, and always leave a place for those beautiful things in our hearts.

My military wife and I have a friendship of 365,438+0 years. We met in the training class for political cadres in Weihai on 1990.

At that time, there were more than * * * training courses 100 in the whole city, which were nominally for study, but actually for tourism. The town is surrounded by mountains and the sea, the air is cool and everyone is a stranger. At that time, people were still very traditional, and they didn't take the initiative to talk when eating together. Suddenly, a lady stood up and raised her wine:

"We are all Changchun people, and political cadres with certain qualities belong to non-mainstream jobs. It's a rare opportunity to get together here. I'm the Minister of Propaganda Department of Public Transport Group, and I'd like to meet you. I wish you a happy event! "

Then I took a sip of wine! At that time, the whole audience was amazed at her generosity. I have never been to such an occasion, and I have never seen a woman drink. I was completely shocked by her behavior. It's not easy to marvel at this lady! It's really women who don't want men!

Look at her carefully. She is of medium height, with heavy eyebrows, black curls and a brown and white dress. Generous and decent. Concise speech, extraordinary temperament. At that time, I had the feeling that Mu Guiying was in command, full of heroic spirit!

I admire it secretly. I can't help but stand up and learn from her appearance and introduce myself by raising a glass of wine. Then the scene suddenly opened, and under her guidance, everyone was no longer stiff, toasting each other and laughing.

I am a teacher, I am orthodox and have no friends. I think she is a heroine among women, and the highlights that attract me are refreshing. After the banquet, I took the initiative to strike up a conversation with her and politely left her phone number.

She asked me brightly, "Will you go back after studying?"

I said without hesitation, "Yes! The unit told me for a week. "

She went on to say, "Do you want to travel to Shandong?"

I said, "What if the unit criticizes me?"

Her words "will not be affected by foreign military life!" Completely overturned my way of thinking. I quickly replied, "I'd like to go with you. I've never been out of the house and listened to your guidance all the way!" "

Under her leadership, the four of us not only went to Shandong, but also went to Beijing. Her generous, straightforward and chivalrous style infected me all the way, and her words and deeds of helping others also touched me. I remember when I didn't have enough money, she offered to lend me 500 yuan! Thought; In the future, a little kindness will repay a spring.

We not only climbed Mount Tai, visited Qufu, but also went to Laoshan Mountain in Qingdao. Enough traveling in Penglai, Shandong went to Beijing directly by train. Along the way, friends from Qingdao bus system in Shandong invited us to dinner and drove us to Taishan and the station. This is unprecedented special treatment. Let me feel relaxed and grateful!

She put a glass of wine on the wine table, and she can drink it all at once! I didn't see anything at the technical school at that time, and no one invited me to dinner! I admired her all the way. I thought to myself: I will follow her all my life, a heroine among women!

After two weeks together, I learned a lot about how to treat people. After coming back, she invited me to buy some fruit and go to her house to play. She asked her 12 year old son to meet me at the construction site.

When I arrived at her house, I was envious. The house with two bedrooms and one living room is fully equipped with household appliances, and a table of delicious food is served to us. I still remember the feeling at that time: "I have no household appliances, just a timid old man."

I can't help asking her, "Where does your lover work?" Her words: "Working in Chaoyanggou!" Shocked my soul again! Then she began to talk about her life.

During the Cultural Revolution, she was 16 years old. Her father was criticized and isolated, and her mother was frightened and mentally ill. She takes care of five younger brothers and sisters, especially the youngest brother, who is only three years old. Her mother is insane. Not only does she not take care of the children, but she often gets lost. Military wives should take care of their younger brothers and sisters after school, and go outside to find a mentally ill mother ...!

1968, Jun Jie graduated and went to the countryside with her five-year-old brother. I can't tell you the pain and fatigue. Two years later, the military elder sister was taken to work in the factory. My father also took the "May 7th Road" and brought back a stepmother who was three years older than the military elder sister. At that time, the military elder sister's mother had been dead for a year.

What should have happened has happened, and what should have ended is over. Everyone and family have also started a new life.

In the late 1970s, the elder sister of the army married herself and five younger brothers and sisters. Life has new pursuits and goals. Military wives who lack maternal love since childhood cherish happiness and are hardworking and competitive.

But fate is always unfair! When my son was three years old, his lover was unfortunately in a car accident, and he was in a vegetative state in the hospital. His military wife worked hard in the field for two years, and finally his human and financial resources were empty.

Suffering, death, loneliness, everything needs to be faced, life needs to continue, children need to be raised alone, tears have long dried up, and strength is her lifeline! It is her character not to admit defeat, and this generation is destined to go hand in hand with difficulties and hardships.

Nothing in this world is more cruel than time. This is fair and just cold-blooded. It never stays for anyone. It always takes away a lot of things in your life when you are caught off guard.

Compared with the same time in a thousand years, people are really small. Life is like a roaring train, only you are at the helm. Other people get on the bus occasionally, but eventually they will leave at a station, all of them are passers-by. Everything needs to be carried by yourself.

I remember her saying, "My life is full of struggle and pain. Turning a blind eye and pretending to be happy is not only a disrespect for life, but also a betrayal of oneself. No one outside knows about me. I praise life, because it will be rewarded after hardship, sadness and pain. No matter how hard life is, even if my heart is riddled with holes, I also dream of flying dandelions in my destiny. There is always that warm moment in my life, because I got a lot of help from the nobles.

Like a seed of hope. Open your heart and the seeds will fly in. With seeds in my heart, my heart will be like a piece of land and will not be barren. "Sister's mind how magnanimous and broad! I am deeply moved by this passage!

This year, she sent her lover away, joined the party, graduated from RTVU, and transferred to the bus group. Everything depends on indomitable spirit, tenacious will, overweight responsibility and the help of friends. She exchanged optimism for pessimism and changed the past with perseverance! Lead five younger brothers and sisters to overcome many difficulties and make life better.

Military sisters are not only hard-working and hard-working, but also can be wronged and perfect. Ability and courage are second to none in the company.

Later, the military sister was transferred to the small passenger transport office of the public transport group as the business section chief. After retirement, she was hired as the general manager of Sancun taxi company, managing hundreds of cars, and her business was in good order!

In her words: opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. As long as you pay, you will get something back.

In those years, I was in the real estate and she was in the garage. We used to work together to build a circle of friends and create our youth version of freedom and happiness. We are in the same boat through thick and thin, and our career is thriving. There are always new and good things for us to share and remember!

Without the baptism of blood and fire, we are not comrades-in-arms, but we have experienced the same joys and sorrows and the test of time.

I remember when my father died, it was three or nine days in cold winter and the snow was half a foot thick. She asked some friends to go to the hospital at three o'clock in the morning to help me with my affairs! I remember her son fighting with others and being sent to the police station. She knocked at the door in the middle of the night, and I got out of bed to find a relationship and went to find someone with her.

I invited her to the movies when she was sad. She talked to me when I was in adversity. We have different personalities, but we can complement each other.

I remember once I listened to other people's gossip and unilaterally cut off contact with her. No contact for three months! One day I suddenly got a call from her, and she said in a weak voice:

"Zi Han, my stomach may be a little uncomfortable. I have an operation in the hospital. If it is cancer, I hope to see you at last. " After listening to this, I was shocked and immediately said, "Which hospital are you from? See you later! " "When we got to the hospital and saw her haggard face, we both shed tears. The past is the past, we hug each other and encourage each other! Nothing happened after the operation, just polypectomy. Although it was a false alarm, we shook hands.

We have gone through 30 years in a blink of an eye. There were times when we laughed and teased, times when we were depressed, times when we were happy on the trip, and times when we were passionate, we were brilliant. The past is like smoke, and the sunset is short. At this moment, once again write down the continuation of friendship, the meaning of life and the value of life. Finally, express the fate of our generation with a poem;

Prose Poetry/Cherish Time

Time is in such a hurry,

Too late to create a fashionable head shape,

It's already frosted.

Time is in such a hurry,

Too late to buy a dowry,

I started buying houses for my children.

Time is in such a hurry,

It's too late for a vigorous love affair,

I have a full house of children and grandchildren.

Time is in such a hurry,

Too late to realize lofty ideals,