Having personally experienced the sharing of friends, I seem to understand the meaning of this sentence better.

About four months ago, I began to try to share my reading and fitness records in my circle of friends. It can be said that I have tasted all kinds of flavors. Just because of this little change in action, I have gained a different experience.

I will open a circle of friends to share. The main reason is that I read Li Xiaolai's book Wechat Internet Civilian Entrepreneurship, and then I got up the courage to try to open a circle of friends.

Why is it an attempt? Because I have never sent a circle of friends before, I have read my circle of friends records in previous years, and I have sent almost no more than ten articles a year, and sometimes even a year is blank.

In order not to let my attention be influenced by all kinds of information in my circle of friends, I closed my circle of friends from July 2065438+2008, and then I almost disappeared from this world for three years.

For three years, my circle of friends has been blank. Others don't know what I have done, and I don't know how others are doing. When I think of a friend occasionally, I will turn on his micro-signal alone, and then I will look at my friend's circle of friends alone. My information source is as simple as that.

Because of the influence of the book "Wechat Internet Civilian Entrepreneurship" and the influence of new friends around me, I spent three months doing ideological work for myself, and finally issued the first record about fitness punching in July.

Because I really don't know what kind of content I can send. Everything I have been doing every day seems normal except reading and fitness, and I don't know how to express it.

I set myself a fixed content that must be posted every day, reading and sharing, and a record of fitness punching.

Because I have no sideline to sell and no other good interests to help others, I can only choose to build my own circle of friends from these two aspects, so that my circle of friends can be slowly established: no matter how small the individual is, I also have my own brand.

Speaking of which, I have been in my circle of friends for four months. What did I get?

The biggest benefit should be my own reading sharing, because I simply summarize the books I have read and send them to my circle of friends.

In this way, I will not forget the books I have read, but deepen my impression, especially the contents of my hair circle, which will reappear in my mind in the near future.

Because of my careful preparation, because I don't want to send useless content, I will read and summarize the reading content to be circulated one day in advance every day and send it out the next morning.

The reason for doing this is influenced by this sentence: do the longest thing with the least time. Prepare the second day's reading one day in advance, and the third day's reading the next day, so that you can keep it for a long time every day.

The fitness punch-in record is mainly for self-monitoring, so that you can continue to exercise to the end.

Secondly, does sharing through my circle of friends affect others?

That's for sure, especially when a stranger added my friend three years ago. We can't remember whether we made friends because of work or other reasons, because we never talked.

She told me today that I share it with my friends every day, and she will save screenshots. She also said that I was lucky in her circle of friends because my words helped her.

I was particularly moved to hear such a compliment. Out of trust in me, she treated me as a friend and then told me her recent problems. She thinks I can help her.

It's my pleasure to win the trust of others. Based on my own experience, I shared with him my method of resolving anxiety-writing therapy. She said that she had benefited a lot and would do it.

This is really a very happy thing, because my sharing can help many people. I hope I can stick to it, because I feel needed.

The record of punching in the gym also affected my classmates. Because of my insistence, they are also acting silently and starting fitness exercises.

Whenever I receive such feedback, I feel a great sense of happiness, which may be the greatest happiness brought by sharing and the most elegant way to increase my influence.

I hope I can kill two birds with one stone by selling myself gracefully and helping others gracefully through sharing in my circle of friends.