Life is not easy, you have to work, you have to have children, you have to provide for the elderly, you have to maintain all kinds of worldly wisdom and so on. I have worked hard all my life. Only when my children get married and retire can I enjoy my old age.
Some couples quarreled when they were young, and even wanted a divorce, but when they were old, they were not so high-spirited and stopped quarreling. It is a happy thing to have a wife in old age. When two people watch the sunset together, talk about the past and visit their children and grandchildren, happiness is nothing more than that.
However, Aunt Liu, 56, filed for divorce with his wife, and her attitude was extremely firm. My wife is two years older than her. She works in a furniture factory and is an old employee. She has more than five thousand yuan a month.
My relatives and friends around me were surprised when they heard about it, and so were their wives. At first, his wife thought Aunt Liu was joking, but when she found out that Aunt Liu was not joking, he was very angry. He felt that he had to toss about when he was old, so he had a big fight with Aunt Liu and smashed Aunt Liu's mobile phone.
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Aunt Liu insisted on divorce even more. She said that she actually wanted a divorce 30 years ago. But by then, she had two children. For the sake of the child, she didn't leave. She wanted to wait until the child was older.
But when the child grows up, Aunt Liu thinks that after the child goes to school, she may be laughed at by her classmates, so she waits. When the child goes to middle school, she is afraid that divorce will affect the children's senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, and so on.
When the child goes to college, Aunt Liu thinks that the child will find a partner soon. If the parents divorce, it will definitely have an impact on the children, so she waits. And so on, until the child got married, she made up her mind to divorce.
Why does Aunt Liu have to divorce? To outsiders, the couple have always been very loving. But marriage is really like shoes on your feet. Only your feet know whether you are comfortable or not.
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At that time, Aunt Liu and her husband's marriage was arranged by both parents, and her husband was particularly masculine. He always secretly beats and scolds Aunt Liu. Aunt Liu has a lot of face and never shows it in front of outsiders. So outsiders seem that their husband and wife are very loving, but in fact they have never been loving.
Now Aunt Liu has filed for divorce, and her son and daughter have no opinions, and her daughter even supports her mother a little. Because when she and her brother were young, my mother was always injured and was beaten by my father at night. My mother quietly shed a lot of tears.
Later, Aunt Liu's sons and daughters were old enough to protect her mother, so her husband stopped hitting Aunt Liu. But he hooked up with a woman in the factory, and instead of taking the salary he earned at home, he posted it to that woman.
This situation lasted for more than three years, until the woman's husband found out that Aunt Liu's husband ended the relationship. Because of all this, Aunt Liu broke her heart. So now that the child is married, she insists on getting a divorce and living her own life.
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Aunt Liu's daughter said: My mother wants a divorce, and I have no problem with it. Now that I'm married, I can especially understand my mother's injuries and grievances, although I also hope my parents can be kind and loving and accompany me to the last moment of my life.
But I can't ignore my mother's feelings because of my own wishes. My mother has sacrificed enough. Now mom wants to live for herself and leave the person who broke her heart. It's her right.
Aunt Liu's son said: My mother divorced at the age of 56, which really surprised me. But I'm not surprised to think of the harm my father did to my mother. My father did what he deserved.
My father came to me complaining that my mother was going to divorce him. I sympathize with my father at this time, but I can also understand my mother, so I don't want to put any pressure on my mother. I respect her opinion. Whether my parents are divorced or not, my sister and I are their children, and we will support them.
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My mother is 56 years old and still insists on divorce. Many children may object. But there must be a reason why my mother asked for a divorce. If the marriage is happy, who will want to divorce for no reason?
Parents' marriage should be decided by their parents themselves. Children should not interfere too much, but choose respect! Aunt Liu's son and daughter are both reasonable people. They respect their mother's choice and don't deny their father. Their parents are still parents.
Many women go through a lot of hardships in marriage for their children. It was not until their children got married that they thought of living according to their own wishes, but by this time, their youth was gone forever and they were old.
Life is actually very fast, and a lot of time is spent waiting. If Aunt Liu, 56, waits any longer, her life will be like this. Aunt Liu's wife found out today, so why did she do it? If a person wants to live a happy life in his later years, he should be kind to the other half and children when he is young and accumulate more virtues for himself.