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I am a little ugly and fat, but I always meet people on the road. Why?
As the saying goes, radish and cabbage have their own love. This sentence fully shows that the so-called "floating is not beautiful" is not an objective existence, but our subjective evaluation. This is a set of evaluation criteria about the viewer himself and his appreciation. Beauty and ugliness are relative and often depend on the trend of a major evaluation system in today's society. For example, in the Tang Dynasty, the big evaluation standard was "taking fat as beauty", and people would add their own unique preferences to set their own standards on the basis of "taking fat as beauty". Nowadays, everyone knows that this standard has become "thin is beautiful", and people tend to like slim and delicate women, which is just a habit decided by this era. People will add some unique standards, such as liking the oval face and liking the cute type. However, the most important thing is not the "thinness is beauty" decided by the times, but the viewer's own standard, that is, as long as it is his favorite oval face. Speaking of which, you should know why "you are not beautiful but are frequently accosted?" There is a simple reason. Your subjective "unattractive" is not the standard answer. Maybe you dislike that your forehead is too high and your skin is too rough, or you don't like your single eyelid and high nose bridge, but you find it is not. These are just your own evaluation criteria. The bridge of the nose in the United States is generally high, and many people like it, and their temperament is not diminished. So, give up the prejudice in your heart, no one is perfect, you can't change the world, then you can only adapt to it. Of course, don't be sentimental because of your own shortcomings. Maybe your strengths can be completely covered, which is why you should "foster strengths and avoid weaknesses". Speaking of which, I don't know if you understand or if my words can help you. I hope you are happy every day!