Edit | Micro-historical Interpretation

Many years ago, on the plane to Tibet, a charming woman sat by the window, silently watching the scenery.

At this time, the man next to her politely asked, "madam, can you change places?" I want to sit with my friends. " The woman replied in a low voice, "Yes."

Then, another mature and attractive man in a suit said to her secretary, "Find out the identity of the lady next to you and what she is doing in Tibet."

What they don't know is that this beautiful woman is not a real woman, she is a transsexual Venus.

Afterwards, Venus recalled and said with a smile, "At that time, they didn't dare to look at my face. They just looked down at my stomach. Fortunately, there was not much meat on my stomach at that time. "

Maybe it was a mistake. Venus should be a woman.

1August, 967 13, Venus was born in Shenyang, Liaoning Province. His mother is an orphan. When she was young, she went to Shenyang and settled here. Her father is a descendant of the Korean nation, a soldier and a former chief of staff.

The first child of the Kim family was a daughter, but the preference for sons of the older generation made them desperately want a son, and they got what they wanted. The second child gave birth to a boy named Venus.

Venus, the brightest planet before dawn, is the only planet in the solar system that rotates in the opposite direction. Parents' intentions are clear.

Everyone's childhood gender enlightenment is given by their parents, and Venus is no exception.

But what makes him different is that there is always a feminine charm calling him in his heart.

When I was a child, even when I was with a group of boys and mixed with them, he was always absent-minded, and he couldn't resist turning his head to see what the girls were doing and cast envious eyes.

This separation between people is Venus's whole childhood.

Because of his father's busy work, Venus always followed her mother to take a bath in the women's bathhouse before she was five years old. He often secretly puts on his sister's flowered skirt in front of the mirror for a long time, imagining how good it would be if he were a daughter.

At the age of six, Venus, a little boy, would imitate the plot in TV series, stand alone in the rain in the thunderstorm and say, "Lightning, turn me into a girl!" " "

This desire to be a girl has been with Venus for as long as he can remember.

Until Venus was nine years old, the army's art troupe came to his school to recruit people. He did not hesitate to sign up for the dance of the propaganda team.

But the mother's old idea has always been that a boy is not serious about learning to dance, and he hopes his son will study hard and be admitted to a good university.

However, Venus, who loved art and dance, could not easily obey. He protested to his mother by means of hunger strike, and put aside the cruel words that he would never eat unless he learned to dance.

Seeing that her son was so stubborn, the mother refused to listen and was forced to agree.

Venus, who successfully entered the art troupe, not only opened her own artistic path, but also became more and more eager to become a woman.

Venus met her teacher in the chorus. The teacher takes good care of him. He always takes the fledgling boy with him when he goes out, or even two people live in the same room.

As they approached, gossip spread outside.

It turned out that the teacher was criticized and punished for loving homosexuality when he was young. He may see that Venus is the same kind of person as himself, so he prefers these.

The teacher also recommended him to participate in the "Peach and Plum Cup" dance competition and encouraged him to try bravely.

Venus did not live up to expectations. He won the first prize for his solid dancing skills.

A few years later, 12-year-old Venus was transferred to China People's Art Institute for systematic study because of her outstanding artistic talent.

In the art college where handsome men and beautiful women gather, Venus is not interested in girls at all, but is deeply attracted by a boy.

This boy is undoubtedly excellent. He is the monitor and has always been the focus of attention. He is not only an outstanding dancer, but also admired by many girls. He is handsome, too. The most important thing is that he is gentle with Venus.

But Venus knows that the monitor just regards himself as a brother and has no wild desires.

If you express your love rashly, two people may not even be friends.

So, he buried this secret love in his heart and silently guarded it alone.

He thought: One day I will become a real woman and be the truest self.

1988, Venus got a place to study abroad and went to new york to study modern dance.

During this period, he made continuous breakthroughs in artistic achievements and became the first China dancer to receive a full scholarship from the United States.

Venus walks on the streets of new york, and its confident light from the inside out attracts the attention of countless passers-by, with a 100% turn-back rate.

In this foreign land, he gradually found that his gay identity was not rejected, which made him feel unprecedented freedom and have the courage to face himself.

Venus also met her true unforgettable first love.

The two met in a performance in Night of Venus. Walking through the crowded crowd, he saw the tall and handsome man at a glance, and his heart was instantly embarrassed like a deer.

Fortunately, men also fell in love with Venus at first sight, attracted by his graceful figure, and had a strong love.

In this way, they came together the first time they met.

The man attracted by Venus is called Clay. He not only doesn't care about his girlfriend's figure, but thinks Venus is a woman in her bones, with many characteristics that women don't have.

First love is always crazy. Venus gave up her artistic career for love and followed her boyfriend to his ranch to raise cattle.

This is the first time in his life that he realized the happiness, simplicity, freedom and comfort of being a wife.

During that time, Venus lost the big stage of work day by day, wandering around the man she loved every day, focusing on three meals a day, but her dance career always haunted him.

Afterwards, Venus recalled: "People are casting pearls before swine, but I can only dance with cows."

A few months later, my boyfriend broke up with him and said, "You don't belong on the farm, you belong on the stage."

Yes, true love is not the fetters of each other, but the achievements of each other.

This short and beautiful love affair makes Venus unforgettable for a long time, because he thinks that Cory is one of the few men who can read his heart, but some people are destined to meet but not seek.

Soon after, Venus returned to her own stage, and he was still the dancer who was shining all over.

I thought his life would go on like this. Unexpectedly, he chose to get married.

There is no love in this engagement, but a mutual benefit relationship.

Because Venus has been working in the United States for a long time, China's identity makes it inconvenient for him to perform everywhere, so he came up with the idea of getting a green card.

As it happens, Ken Bolin, the girlfriend of his male classmate, is worried about having no room to live in, so Venus puts forward some suggestions:

I married Ken Bolin myself and gave them the house to live in. So I can get a green card and kill two birds with one stone. Why not?

Surprisingly, both the male students and Ken Bolin agree with Venus' idea.

1990, Venus married his girlfriend Ken Bolin under the witness of male students.

After the marriage, he and Ken Bolin became good girlfriends who talked about everything. They often go shopping together, buy clothes and talk about men all night.

Don't interfere in each other's private lives. Ken Bolin and her boyfriend are still in love, and there are many men around Venus.

However, after applying for a green card, Venus got tired of it. It's nothing to visit once in a while. The most important thing is that she can't go abroad for four years.

This is undoubtedly fatal for a dancer who performs all over the country.

Finally, he simply gave up and said frankly: "It is impossible to ruin his artistic career just because he applied for a green card."

Ironically, Venus thought that couples separated for more than seven months, and then they automatically decided that they were divorced. However, it was not until Kembolin became pregnant that she learned that she and her "sister" were still husband and wife.

Venus had to rush through the divorce formalities, ending this absurd engagement for ten years.

Ten years is not short, but it is only a blink of an eye, but it is during this period that Venus experienced the greatest change in her life.

1995, Venus is ready to fulfill her life dream, that is, to have sex-change surgery and become a real woman.

But before that, he must change the gender on his identity card, which must inform his parents.

Venus was very depressed. He thought: If his parents don't support him, even after the operation, he may live with guilt all his life.

After several ideological struggles, he told the news to his parents.

To his surprise, his parents not only did not object, but also strongly supported it.

Mother acted very indifferently, as if she had expected that today would come. He said to Venus, "Whether you are a son or a daughter, you are all our children. We just want you to be healthy. "

My father also took the initiative to take the certificate to the relevant departments to change the information. When asked, he was outspoken and unreserved.

With the support of his parents, Venus was completely relieved, but after the news of his sex-change operation spread, it caused a sensation at home and abroad, and various media rushed to report it.

However, in the face of tricky questions and voices full of doubts, Venus can calmly deal with them.

He showed his true thoughts to the whole world, and at the same time he became stronger inside, because the road he was going to take was bound to be full of thorns.

Before the operation, Venus scored 90 points in thousands of questions for transgender patients in the hospital and passed the test successfully.

You know, there are a few people who have reached 75 points before, which shows how firm his heart is.

Actually, it's nothing. By mutual consent, the whole operation process of Venus was filmed as a documentary by director Bird, named "Miss Venus".

He arranged the operation on April 5th, which happened to be Tomb-Sweeping Day.

The doctors in the hospital are very shy about this day and feel unlucky.

But Venus bluntly said, "Isn't it Tomb-Sweeping Day? Get rid of the redundant situation and you will understand! Still a good sign! "

This highly anticipated transsexual operation finally went on as scheduled. During the whole process, Venus seemed to be on the verge of death. Any negligence of the doctor may make him die on the operating table, which is very thrilling.

At 9 o'clock in the morning, he was pushed into the operating room for general anesthesia. The whole operation lasted 16 hours, and the surgeon Yang knelt on the ground to complete the whole process.

During this period, he kept bleeding and blood transfusion, which happened for 4 hours.

Just as the operation was coming to a successful conclusion, a major medical accident happened.

Due to the negligence of the nurse, the shelf locked on Venus' left leg was not fixed properly, which caused it to fall off and get stuck on the calf, and the blood did not circulate, resulting in a high degree of spasm.

This situation is hard to recover, even if it is recovered, it is also a waste.

When Venus opened her eyes, it felt bad to look at her tied left leg.

She asked loudly, "What happened to my leg?"

Then, all the doctors stood in front of her, looked at her legs and told the truth.

The mother on the side took the lead in crying and said, "Dancing is her life! Forget it if you can't dance well, but she dances so well, how can my child stand it! "

After seeing it, Dr. Yang, the chief surgeon, sighed again and again: "What a sin! Do evil! I ruined an excellent dancer! "

Venus hesitated for a moment and didn't speak, but it was always unacceptable in her heart.

She thought: Why on earth is this? Is my choice wrong, and God will do this to me? No, obviously the first half of the operation was a success! Are you sure you don't want me to dance anymore? No, God must be testing me to see if I can stand up. Yes, that's it.

When Venus's friends came to visit her, the whole person was shocked, because she looked a few pounds thinner, pale and haggard, and the quilt was flat.

She lifted the quilt directly, and then she saw the legs of Venus.

Then, she was so angry that she called all the doctors and said loudly, "You ruined a dance genius! Do you know! "

She also advised Venus not to go to court with the hospital, because it is very likely that she will never stand up again in this life, at least she will have compensation and a guarantee for the rest of her life.

But Venus said, "Then claim 10 million! But even if we sell the hospital, we can't afford it! What's more, if you really go to court, Dr. Yang's title is gone, but this is obviously not his responsibility. "

After that, Venus will never forget the day of recovery, because she was not feeling well for a moment.

As long as she doesn't take medicine to relieve her calf, she feels extremely painful, like countless needles stabbing you and can't stop.

However, this painkiller has a strong dependence. Once addicted, it will be as uncomfortable as drug addiction, so the dose is very restrained.

Twenty days later, Venus began to eat, and going to the toilet became a big problem, and it took a lot of physical strength every time.

Venus always believed that all these sufferings were a test of God's determination. As long as she gets through these hardships, she will return to the stage and dance freely.

With this belief, she gritted her teeth and continued to exercise with a limp. More than a year later, she actually broke through the medical miracle and successfully stood on the stage.

Looking back on the past, Venus smiled and said, "I still think it's fate."

After this difficult time, Venus felt that nothing could crush her, and she became a woman with a stronger heart.

Since then, Venus has been active in the world's major stages and theaters, and its artistic works have emerged in an endless stream, which has won unanimous praise from the public and further promoted China's dance career.

At the same time, she met Hans next door on the plane from Paris to China, and then they fell in love.

Venus and Hans first met at the Paris airport. At that time, they didn't like each other.

Because Hans is wearing a gray suit and a gold tie, his color jumps and his face is serious.

This makes many people see Venus and secretly laugh at it in their hearts.

She thought, this man is not ugly, and his collocation is too bad. He must not be French.

Hans saw the most conspicuous Venus in the crowd at a glance. She is confident and a little cocky, plus a leather coat and a pair of high boots.

He felt that this person was not easy to provoke, and he thought: I will never marry such a wife in the future.

Fortunately, after boarding the plane, Hans sat next to Venus in the first class and they had a pleasant conversation.

When sleeping at night, both of them put their chairs flat, one facing the left and the other facing the right.

Miraculously, they opened their eyes at the same time and saw each other's faces, and this idol drama was staged.

After that, Venus and Hans left contact information with each other, and slowly contacted each other before they talked about love.

After they confirmed their love relationship, Venus told Hans about her life without reservation.

She told Hans that when she was young, she dreamed of becoming a beautiful girl and dancing all over the world one day.

She thought the other person would be scared and turned away. After listening, Hans thought for a day.

The next day I called Venus and said, "I don't care about your past, but I love you now."

Venus was moved by this affectionate German man, and they became the sustenance of each other for the rest of their lives.

On February 1 day, 2005, Venus married Hans, and they officially became husband and wife. After marriage, they adopted three children and lived a happy and sweet life.

Hans is very considerate of Venus and dotes on her like a princess.

Venus casually asked for yogurt in the middle of the night, and when there was no yogurt at home, Hans would silently go out and buy it back.

Venus is drinking yogurt, feeling very happy, thinking: this heart is more important than anything else.

But this marriage pressed the pause button after one year.

It was the World Cup, and Hans and his friends in Germany were watching the live broadcast.

Suddenly I got a call from Venus and said, "Let's get a divorce."

Hans was surprised and stunned and asked, "Why?"

Venus said: "For the children to go to school, now come back by plane and go through the formalities immediately."

Hans was so angry that he had to give up watching the World Cup and fly to China to divorce Venus.

12, the three children remarried after the adoption certificate and schooling problems were properly handled.

Now they are as sweet as ever. Venus will take Hans to variety shows from time to time. They love each other and kill each other, attracting countless fans.

Under the acute irritability of Venus, what the audience sees is Hans' understanding and tolerance, and Venus will often spoil and comfort her husband. This should be the secret of marriage preservation.

You may not like Venus, but you will respect and admire her, because she has done something few people dare to try, and her heart is far stronger than we thought.

She lives freely, casually and freely, and shows the charm of women to the fullest. Her open-mindedness is always worth appreciating.