I have consulted hundreds of divorce cases and found that the better a man's career, the greater the probability of divorce, but the reason is not all extramarital affairs, but emotional internal friction.

For example. When you first got married, you and your other half were on the same starting line. A few years later, when his career is getting bigger and bigger, but you have been stagnant, your inner insecurity will be aroused, and you will start to be anxious and worried about getting lost. You are always worried that he will change his mind and abandon you.

So, you start asking him to control him. For example, keep an eye on the opposite sex around him, often check his mobile phone, ask him about his daily schedule, and go home after what time in the evening.

Only when he obeys you and tolerates you can you be sure that he loves you, your inner anxiety can be temporarily eliminated, and you will feel better.

But if these behaviors last for a long time, it will inevitably make the other half rebellious and feel tired and depressed when getting along with you. It seems that no matter how you do it, you can't give the sense of security you want. Gradually, he will start to alienate you and this family.

However, his alienation and escape will often not make you aware of your own problems, but will aggravate your inner anxiety and make you constantly guess that he has really changed his mind, doesn't love me, and there are other women outside.

So you will use greater efforts to control him and vent your emotions on him, and finally the relationship between husband and wife will fall into a vicious circle until the feelings are completely broken. Is it really the people who have become excellent who have caused this result? Did he change his mind? It seems not.

It is that when the partner becomes excellent, the other party does not choose to improve himself, does not perceive the needs of his partner, and does not give him enough emotional support. Instead, it is controlled by uneasy emotions, and the relationship between husband and wife falls into deep internal friction.

So when your partner is getting better and better, if you want to stabilize your marriage, you should either try to improve yourself and keep up with him; Either fill up your inner energy and don't let anxiety and anxiety control you.