"Maybe someone rang the wrong doorbell." The father and son came back to continue to pump up the bike.
"Knock, knock!" There is a heavy knock at the door. As soon as I opened the door, I heard an aggressive voice saying, "My child wants to sleep. Are you going to tear down the house? "
Oh, it's the neighbor downstairs.
"I pumped some air into the child's bike." Plum heard Bao Xiao's father weakly explained 1.
"My child is still young, can you be considerate and don't make a sound? Didn't the property look for you? 30 cm above my window is my site. I will tear it down and waterproof it again. Your air conditioner plug-in fell off without changing places! It's up to you! "
1, housewarming was dispelled by difficult neighbors.
Plum remembered the last time she met the hostess and children downstairs in the elevator. The hostess didn't look like a difficult person. The children took the initiative to greet Mei Zi and introduce themselves. Mei Zi found it difficult to connect such a lovely child with the man at the door. "Some parents really don't deserve their lovely children." Plum heart can't help feeling.
Shortly after the Mei Zi family moved in, they got a call from the property manager, saying that the neighbors downstairs complained that their house was too noisy. Plum is very surprised. It never occurred to her that such a thing would happen when she moved to a new home. Looking back on those years in my hometown, when my children were still young, it was inevitable to make some noise when playing with toys, but I never complained. She doesn't even know who lives downstairs.
Mei Zi is a person who cares about the opinions and ideas of people around her. She is afraid of conflict. So, from then on, she always stared at Bao Xiao and told him not to make noise. One day, the child said, "Mom, what you say to me most every day now is' keep your voice down'." Plum also feels a little sorry for the child, but since the neighbors downstairs have opinions, they should be cautious.
But a few days later, Mei Zi received a phone call from the property manager, saying that she had been complained again. The housekeeper asked if there were any children at home, and after getting a positive answer, she understood that children would inevitably make trouble. He also thinks the neighbors downstairs are too melodramatic. Plum once again misses and appreciates her former neighbor very much.
From then on, Mei Zi not only stared at the children, but also looked like a thief at home. If she accidentally holds something unsteadily and makes a noise, she will be scared and think, "It's over, and she will complain downstairs again."
After installing the air conditioner, I received a phone call from the property manager, saying that the neighbors downstairs complained that the hot air from the air conditioner outside Mei Zi's house had entered their home and asked Mei Zi to change the location of the outdoor machine.
Mei Zi called the air conditioner after sale and replied that other places did not have the installation conditions, so he could only press that location. He also said that you can't let others turn on the air conditioner in hot summer just because you open the window downstairs to ventilate yourself. Plum thought what she said seemed reasonable, but she was afraid to go back to her neighbors downstairs.
Mei Zi thinks she is too timid. She obviously has a face of Wang Xifeng, but she was born with Lin Daiyu's fragile heart. She was ashamed of her poor ability to solve life problems. She is obviously so incompetent herself, and she has found a husband with the same intellectual temperament. Hey, if you just moved, can you change houses again? Such a difficult neighbor, when will the day end?
There is no one else outside the house.
One day, Mei Zi read "Rebuilding Life" by Louise Hay. The book writes: "Sandra Ray, a pioneer in the field of interpersonal relationships, believes that our relationship with the people around us reflects our relationship with our parents or mothers ... relationships reflect ourselves ... the qualities you don't like in them may be what you have, what you would rather not have, or what you think you have. If their qualities can't make up for your own shortcomings to some extent, you won't attract them or let them into your life. "
Plum felt particularly surprised and had to take it orally. Her feelings for the neighbors downstairs are just like her feelings for her mother: she is angry and wronged, and she wants to tell each other that things are not what you think at all, and I have made a lot of efforts. But she was afraid to say. She is afraid of each other, and she is afraid that the neighbors downstairs are garbage people, making things too big to go away; She was afraid that her mother's quarrel would kill her. At the same time, she seems a little envious of her neighbors downstairs who are fearless and desperate to defend their own interests.
Plum closed her eyes and thought, she hates the neighbors downstairs:
Do I have these problem patterns myself? Plum thinks so.
Miss Louise Hay gave us the solution: "Ask yourself if you are willing to change. When you abandon these patterns, habits and beliefs in thought or behavior, they will either change or disappear from your life.
Plum said to herself, "It's hard, but I decided to throw it away."