Hong Tao said, "Material things are not called things. Formal loyalty and inner loyalty are two different things. "
Hong Tao's enlightened attitude towards marital loyalty is staggering, and it has been said more than once.
When she participated in "Venus Show", Venus asked her, Xu zhēng has become a famous director. What if she has a life as a director? Hong Tao said flatly, which proves that he has a good eye.
Hong Tao doesn't seem to care at all. Does she really care? Not necessarily.
In 20 19, Hong Tao became popular with "Little Joy", and fans shouted to Xu zhēng that he was not allowed to privatize Hong Tao.
Facing the crusade of fans, Xu zhēng Gao Tang admits: "Hong Tao is everyone's Hong Tao, and I am Hong Tao's private property." Hong Tao didn't say a word about it, which didn't look like a soul mate's reaction at all.
Looking closely at their marriage, Xiaohe found that not only what they said is worth studying, but even Hong Tao, who seems to have everything, got on the FF car in Zhang Ting in the past two years because of their marriage.
And all this seems to be Hong Tao's inescapable fate.
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1972, Hong Tao was born in an enviable intellectual family.
My father is a senior engineer and my mother works in a library. She is either rich or expensive, but her life is different.
Hong Tao inherited her father's intelligence and wisdom, and with the influence of family environment, she was always among the best in school, and even got the first place in her class when she graduated from primary school.
Parents always hope that their daughters can inherit the mantle and become respected knowledge-based talents in the future. Unfortunately, everyone's life will not go forward without deviation according to the plan in advance.
1983, the Beijing synchronized swimming team was just established, and coach Sonia went to various schools to select athletes. In this way, 1 1 year-old Hong Tao was caught by the coach.
Sonia thinks that Hong Tao's eyes are bent when she smiles, which is especially aura. She wants to take Hong Tao under her wing.
Hong Tao heard that if she wants to learn synchronized swimming, she can dance in the water every day. She can't hide her joy, but her parents don't agree.
Hong Tao's mother, in particular, hopes that her daughter can be seriously admitted to the university and resolutely opposes Hong Tao becoming an athlete.
Finally, coach Sonia assured Hong Tao's mother that Hong Tao would definitely go to college in the future, because after winning medals, athletes could go directly to sports schools without taking exams. Hong Tao's mother reluctantly agreed to let her daughter learn synchronized swimming.
Synchronized swimming is called "water ballet". Athletes should not only be able to swim, but also do all kinds of beautiful dance moves while swimming. Strength, skill and a lot of practice are indispensable.
In the face of high-intensity training, Hong Tao never shouted a bitter word or a tired word. He stays in the water for more than six hours every day and studies diligently under the guidance of his coach.
On the first Spring Festival when I joined the Flower Tour Team, all my other friends went home for the Spring Festival, and only Hong Tao insisted on staying in the training hall.
After six years of hard training, by going up one flight of stairs.
At that time, Hong Tao's coach was going abroad, and the Flower Tour Team had a new coach. The new coach thinks that Hong Tao has no talent and it is a waste of time to continue practicing.
After the coach expressed her thoughts, she hoped that Hong Tao would give up, but Hong Tao was inspired to be more effective. Others practice for six hours every day, so they have no talent. So practice 65,438+02 hours, and diligence can make up for it.
It's quite like The Legend of the Condor Heroes. Guo Jing's style is "Fight, try again".
Finally, Tao Hongzhen gradually rose in the flower swimming team through her hard training, and even became the athlete who held her breath for the longest time in the water, with a record of 3 minutes and 40 seconds.
With his self-discipline, Hong Tao became the captain of Huayou, and won the sixth place in the World Championships with 199 1, the collective synchronized swimming champion in China National Championships with 1992, and the collective synchronized swimming champion in the 7th China National Games with 1993.
As the old saying goes, three years old depends on age, and seven years old depends on age. Hong Tao's performance in flower swimming proves that she is not a quitter. No matter what difficulties and setbacks she encounters, she will bite the bullet and stick to it.
This personality has also made her transformation much smoother, but it is a pity that it does not bode well in marriage.
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1993 It will be sunny in Jiang Wen. The second girl, Yu Beibei, is a girl who can swim. Jiang Wen was reminded to go to the national synchronized swimming team for casting.
At the first sight of Hong Tao, Jiang Wen was secretly shocked. This girl is simply tailor-made for Beibei.
Hong Tao's eyes naturally have a confused feeling, and his face is very handsome. When he smiles, he has a cool flattering look, which is impenetrable, but pure enough to make people close.
After Jiang Wen brought Hong Tao to the crew, this idea was strengthened. Hong Tao, who had never been exposed to acting, brought Yu Beibei to life at once.
Hong Tao seems as easy as blowing off dust. In fact, all her efforts are in the corner where others can't see them.
Hong Tao once generously admitted that he was not a talented actor. When some actors cry, the director asks them to cry immediately, but Hong Tao can't. No matter how hard he tries, tears will not flow down at once.
Hong Tao can play the role of Beibei well because she has read many novels by Wang Shuo. She knows what kind of person Beibei is, and then finds such a role from life and substitutes herself into this role.
Hong Tao has other plans in his heart. She wants to go to college. Jiang Wen recommended her to take the Chinese opera exam, and Gu Changwei recommended her to go to Beiying.
1 1 year-old, she left school to be an athlete, and it seems like a lifetime ago that she took the study exam in the culture class. No one knows what kind of spirits Hong Tao drank. A year later, she was admitted to three major art colleges: Chinese Opera, North Film and Shanghai Opera.
In the end, Hong Tao chose Peking Opera, and she was the monitor for four years. She takes the whole class to stretch leg press on the playground every day, rain or shine.
Hong Tao, who is not a talented player, also faced his studies by rote in college, and won the recognition of teachers on another battlefield. He not only got the first perfect score in the professional examination in the history of China opera, but also helped his classmates complete their graduation project, and played the role in eight works by himself.
1997, Hong Tao, who is still a junior, got a promotion by studying opera. Her film Black Eyes won three awards: 10 Best Actress in Damascus International Film Festival, China 1998 Best Actress in China Watch Award and 18 Best Actress in Golden Rooster Award.
Hong Tao has indisputably become a popular actress, which paved the way for her to take on the role of "Pig in Spring", and also paved the way for her emotional development with Xu zhēng.
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1998, the filming of "Pig with Bright Spring" began, with Hong Tao playing the little dragon girl and Xu zhēng playing the pig eight quit, and the little dragon girl was infatuated with the pig eight quit in the play, which also extended from TV series to reality.
When he played this TV series with Hong Tao, Xu zhēng was still unknown in the film and television circle. This TV series is also his first transformational work, but Xu zhēng's achievements in drama should not be underestimated. At the age of 26, he has won the Best Actor Award in Magnolia Drama.
Professional self-confidence gives Xu zhēng a sense of pride. Before each performance, he always smoothed out the content until he was satisfied. People who have worked with Xu Zheming will eventually follow Xu Zheming's ideas forever, but the situation in Hong Tao has changed.
When Xu zhēng and Hong Tao communicate their own clearly arranged plots, Hong Tao always puts forward more wonderful opinions, which makes Xu zhēng, who is already quite conceited, shine at the moment.
However, Hong Tao is more dazzling than Xu Zhimo. When shooting this TV series with Xu zhēng, it is inconvenient to eat because Xu zhēng has props on his face. Every time Hong Tao feeds it xuzh ng.
When the crew ordered food, Hong Tao responded faster than Xu zhēng, and reminded the crew at the first time every time that Xu zhēng was inconvenient to eat, so don't order noodles.
This is why many years later, when Xu Zheming gave Hong Tao a platform in the chess room, he blurted out that Hong Tao was pursuing him.
In fact, the talents of Hong Tao and Xu Zhimo should be equal. At first, it was better to be a hero than to know who was after whom.
When Bo Huang first publicized Hong Konglong, he said, "To tell the truth, I don't think this play would be much worse than Xu zhēng if directed by Hong Tao."
This indirectly confirms that Hong Tao and Xu zhēng are really two people who are neck and neck in talent, and it is this mutual appreciation that brings them together.
In 2003, despite the reluctance of both elderly people, Hong Tao and Xu Zhuoning firmly entered the besieged city of marriage.
Hong Tao's parents were dissatisfied because they felt that Xu Zheming's achievements at that time were not as good as his daughter's. Xu zhēng's mother is unhappy because she is afraid that her daughter-in-law is too nice and she can't enjoy her care at home.
In fact, Hong Tao has never "bullied" Xu zhēng because of his fame, and even knows how to take care of Xu zhēng's emotions better than most wives.
Hong Tao also strongly supported Xu Zheming in his career, and made Xu Zheming make a beautiful turnaround in Crazy Stone. At first, Ning Hao also invited Hong Tao to play. Hong Tao thought the play was very good and introduced it to Xu Zheming.
Hong Tao not only introduced the script to Xu Zheming, but also prepared a large sum of money for Xu Zheming to invest in this film.
Xu zhēng, whose official career has not been smooth, hesitated. He is worried that the money will be wasted in the end. It was Hong Tao who cheered him up: "If you lose money and make money, you can do it boldly."
Even if she lives behind closed doors, Hong Tao can quickly integrate into the role of daughter-in-law. She won't put on airs just because she is a big star. When her mother-in-law was in bed with a cold, Hong Tao washed her underwear herself.
It's a pity that my heart is like cattail grass and a rock.
20 10 after the fire of "People on the Road" in Xú Zhēng, the news of suspected cheating has never stopped.
On 20 12, Xu zhēng was photographed hugging Wang Xiran, a 2 1 year-old student of the Central Academy of Drama, and finally walked into a private hotel.
20 16, 161in the early morning of October 6, it was suspected that Bo Huang's assistant sent a woman with short hair in a green coat to Xu's room on the second floor until 1 1 in the early morning. An hour later, the woman in green also left Xu's room.
A series of tidbits in Xu Zongheng pushed Hong Tao to the forefront. Every time the host is interviewed, the unavoidable question must be, what does Hong Tao think of Xu Zongheng's suspected love affair?
Think about it. What would Hong Tao think? Leave or endure, there is no other way out. Since you don't want a divorce, you might as well just pretend you don't care. I'm afraid this is the original intention of Hong Tao's shocking remarks.
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No matter how careless people are about their partner's infidelity, the inner hurt and pain are destined to be passed on to others.
Psychological research has long proved that partnership has the characteristics of specificity and exclusiveness. No matter how to deny it, the sense of security in marriage comes partly from the loyalty of the other half.
The only difference is that others succumb to this lack of security, but Hong Tao insists on his own opinion: no matter how promiscuous Xu Zheng is, he must have the confidence to keep him from leaving.
In order to achieve this goal, Hong Tao really let herself blossom in all directions.
Xu Zongheng acknowledged Hong Tao's outstanding performance. In the performance, Hong Tao had "little joy". She showed the anxiety of a middle-aged single mother incisively and vividly, and her superb acting even made the audience chase Xu ZH and shout, forbidding him to leave Hong Tao at home.
Xu Zhimo recognized Hong Tao's directing ability, and almost every film of Xu Zhimo was shot at the suggestion of Hong Tao. Bo Huang also said that if Hong Tao is the director, the effect is not necessarily worse than that of Xu Zheming.
As an investor, Hong Tao's animated film Curse of the Wind not only broke through 100 million yuan at the box office, but also won the Best Art Film Award in the 32nd China Film Golden Rooster Award, beating rivals White Snake: Origin, Bear in Primitive Times, C9 Family, Crazy Bullring, New Big Head Son and Little Head Dad 3 Russian Adventures.
When she participated in The Birth of an Actor, she directed The Last Queen with the newcomer Peng Yuchang. In just ten minutes, Hong Tao told the touching life of the last queen with delicate light and shadow switching. Zhang Ziyi sighed on the spot: "Sister Hong Tao, there should be more than one director in your family."
Xu zhēng thinks that Hong Tao will make money and Hong Tao will make Jinshan Yinshan, which makes Xu zhēng, a famous director, feel sorry for himself.
According to the statistics of Tianyan, there are 16 companies directly related to Hong Tao, and there are 14 companies in existence, covering film and television, media, trade and investment. Among them, there are many luxuries such as fur and high definition.
Xu Zhimo once gave Hong Tao a nickname-"Tao Shouyi". As long as Hong Tao pursues something, she will go forward and stick to it.
In the face of marriage, someone asked Hong Tao, is it a little sacrifice for you to do so? Hong Tao replied: "I decided on my own, and I will bear the consequences myself."
It's really painful to see this result now. In order to tie a man's heart, he wandered the borderline of the law and finally let himself rolling in the deep. Doesn't seem worth it.
With Hong Tao's strength, she is willing to give up her death in marriage, far from this.
I don't know whether Hong Tao, who is being investigated at the moment, regrets it, and I don't know whether Hong Tao can survive with her in such a big fall.
Author: Xiao He, born in the gravel, has a warm heart and leads an interesting life.