Boyfriend from the past 200 kilograms, slimming success into a handsome boy. For girls, it should be something to be happy about. Recently, on the stage of Speak Out, there was a couple. Because her boyfriend lost weight successfully, their relationship entered the dilemma of breaking up. In the past, it was not that girls didn't like their overweight boyfriends. She likes his sincerity and kindness and will consider for herself. In her opinion, now the thin boyfriend has become picky, no longer cares about her feelings, is too narcissistic, and only thinks about how to be better for himself. She can't accept it! Emotional tutor Tu Lei said that a person from fat to thin is almost equivalent to a person from poverty to wealth. These are all good changes, but if you change your mind because of these external changes, it will be a disaster for your feelings.

In his opinion, this boy actually shows signs of changing his mind, but it is not obvious now. But a careful analysis of the state and behavior in his life can still reveal some clues. Tu Lei said, "The first sign of a person's change of heart is to deny the past. I don't associate with my old friends anymore, and I don't want to talk about the past. I think everything was bad before. Just as boys don't care about girls as much as before, he has become selfish. In his mind, he feels that girls are not his only choice now.

If this goes on, my wife will change eventually, and so will my lover! He reminded the boys: "Don't forget Ben just because you are getting better now. Think about who didn't abandon you when you were fat in the past, treated you wholeheartedly and stayed with you without regrets! The reason why the ugly duckling turned into a white swan is still liked by people is that it only changed its appearance, but never changed its heart. Whether a person is fat or thin; Rich or poor. It is gratifying to change and work hard for a better self. The essence of love is that two people are together, and it is better and better to be able to accompany each other. If you dislike each other because you are getting better, or no longer consider each other's feelings, such people will never get true love even if they get better!

See a person clearly with one thing and decide the result with one attitude! A person who doesn't want to treat you like he loves himself is really a waste of time! This is not a person worth paying for, wake up! You don't have to have him to be happy in your life! Remember! Your life is beautiful because of yourself! Share it with people who are still confused! Then tell him: "You deserve to be loved! 」