But the screenwriter didn't make such an arrangement, and their love will eventually face separation.
New Lei Zhi has such a line in the play-"I spend time dressing myself up, but what's the difference between my experience and those yellow-faced women?"
Yes, the world says that those rich people like beautiful wives, but why do they have to face those doomed endings when they are still young?
So, what kind of woman does a man with a monthly salary of 100 thousand need in real life?
0 1, smart and independent.
What is the independence of the world? Idiom interpretation is extraordinary and unique.
I saw a question on Zhihu before-what happened to the woman who became a rich man's plaything?
Under normal circumstances, people's thinking is the same to denounce the tragic situation of those people, or to sigh with emotion that the other side has made a leap like yue longmen carp.
However, Gao Zan's answer is just the opposite, with unique ideas. He claims to have a doctorate, and his monthly income has exceeded 654.38+ million, but his wife looks the same, and even graduated from high school with a degree and worked as a salesgirl at the cosmetics counter in a shopping mall.
But this does not prevent him from pursuing her and loving her deeply. Even she is the tutor of this doctoral work, and she can always pour a pot of cold water when he expands.
At the same time, it lists some real rich people we are familiar with. Their wives are not what we expected. They have no delicate appearance, and even a little ugly.
However, there is no denying that every one of them is very clever. For example, Bill Gates' wife, although not good-looking, can always give her husband some advice on the road to business. It can be said that she is an indispensable right-hand man for Bill Gates.
Therefore, those men who earn 100,000 yuan a month have brains and thinking that others can't match. It is precisely because of this that they can better understand that those smart and independent women are what they need most, compared with beauty.
02, the principle of doing things shows charm.
Little Joy is a very popular TV series. For the audience, some are for watching the plot, and some are for watching the story.
The drama mainly tells the story of the growth of children with different personalities in three families, but in addition, another attraction for the audience is the mode of getting along with three couples.
For me, what interests me most is the way Ji's parents get along.
Ji Shengli, Ji's father, is the district chief, but he has kept secrets from those erotic news. 50% of the reason is that Ji lives a clean and honest life, and the other 50% is because of his wife.
Ji's mother is the only dazzling Bai Yueguang in the whole play. Although she is the wife of the district chief, she is never proud. She has a quiet heart and faces everything around her with the most calm attitude.
When Eiko was not understood by her parents, she became the staunchest supporter of the other side and even became an unforgettable friend.
It is precisely because of such a good wife that Ji Shengli can rise without worries on the road of official career.
03, the value of self-existence
Love needs to be even. Most beautiful declarations full of "I will support you" only exist in romantic stories, and love in life is mainly based on cruel reality.
No matter in philosophy or psychology, the description of men is mostly rational.
So in terms of feelings, men are more realistic than women.
I have watched too many joys and sorrows in those emotional mediation programs on TV. It is nothing more than that women become housewives after marriage, and as a result, men still dislike their stories. The premise of these events is that women have no economic ability.
At this time, the relationship between the two sides is like a big tree connected with vines. Although he can shelter you from the wind and rain, once he leaves, you can keep very little.
The best relationship and the best marriage are often evenly matched. Only now, from the perspective of reciprocity, can you feel the importance of each other to yourself, and the interdependence is indispensable.
I don't know when, finding a rich man has become the slogan of many girls, but these people only see the shiny things on the surface, but they don't see the most precious things they need most.
Perhaps it is the poison of romance novels, or perhaps it is the distortion of the concept of money. The world in my eyes is completely different from theirs.
The rich people I know are more interested in pursuing women who are helpful to their careers than all groups who serve others.
Pursuing a better material life is a standard that everyone wants to achieve, and whether it can be achieved ultimately depends on the comprehensive strength of the individual.
Instead of dreaming unrealistic dreams, it is better to start improving yourself.
If you want to marry someone with a monthly income of over 10,000 yuan, your ability and capital are the most important factors.