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Very fat, but don't want to lose weight, what should I do?
Since she doesn't want to lose weight, it means that she doesn't feel fat, or that she is very comfortable with her weight. For example, even so, you won't leave her. Only when she encounters a crisis that seriously affects her comfort and thinks she should lose weight will she lose weight. No one can persuade a person to lose weight. It's like forcing a cow's head to drink water, and it can't be done.

What are the reasons for not wanting to lose weight? The first is the physical level, such as worrying that the body can't bear it when losing weight, or the spiritual level, such as being unable to resist the temptation of food! It is suggested that we should first know which level we belong to, establish a relatively correct concept of losing weight, and gradually penetrate into the girlfriend's consciousness from the profession, such as the harm brought by obesity and the changes brought by fitness!

She really doesn't want to change, either accept, can't accept, change, can't change, just ... accept it, in case she is willing to change one day. What if one day it is fate for her to lose weight? After all, it's good to have a boyfriend/girlfriend these days. Don't just stare at the small shortcoming of being fat, but learn more about her advantages.

If you can't accept it, will she change it for you? If you like, give her full support and encouragement, give her a fitness card, accompany her to exercise, and ask her professional personal trainer to lose weight faster. If it works, praise her, praise her. Always pay attention to fitness information and share it with her until she loses weight successfully.

Each has his own merits! Many palace moths starved to death in the thin waist palace of the king of Chu. What is the personality of the questioner who asked his girlfriend to lose weight for him? ! Look at your honor in the mirror first. If you love someone, you must accept all of her. If you are picky about this, you might as well put down your fulfillment. Don't delay the girl's youth or waste her feelings. If a girl is really fat enough to affect her health, don't her parents care about her health? If a girl is really obese, won't her parents remind her to control her weight?

Don't let a girl blindly compare and lose weight for a little vanity of a shallow and fickle man and a little boasting between brothers, regardless of whether the girl affects her health.