But after marriage, after the baptism of daily necessities, my mind changed. It's really hard to make money. The hardest thing is that not only can I not count on my husband's family, but her husband's family also counts on us to raise them.
Just find a rich family from the beginning. These things, which were realized only after marriage, expressed the voices of many married women.
Before marriage: Be a good person and be filial to me and his parents.
After marriage: filial piety is not something I can change, but parents think that if you do nothing, you are filial to you, and it is useless to do anything without filial piety.
Before marriage: As long as you are smart and filial, you can please your in-laws and be happy and healthy.
After marriage: cleverness sometimes backfires, because it is human nature to ride more thin horses. Keeping your distance is called self-defense. Otherwise, simplicity and weakness make people see the words "please bully me" written on their heads.
Before marriage: if you change your mind and treat people well, people will repay you.
After marriage: people can't change their minds.
Before marriage: it is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult. I think I am versatile and should be able to get along well.
After marriage: the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is too fucking difficult.
Before marriage: you can be the daughter of your mother-in-law.
After marriage: mother-in-law will always be mother-in-law, and mother will always be mother.
Before marriage: What is money? Love comes first.
After marriage: What is love? Giving you money is love, not giving money is love.
Before marriage: love comes first, attitude determines everything.
After marriage: money comes first, and responsibility decides everything.
Before marriage: My money and my husband's money are their money.
After marriage: My money is my money, my husband's money is my husband's money and my family's money is my family's money.
Before marriage: the husband can rely on.
After marriage: the economic base determines the marital status.
Before marriage: money is not everything.
After marriage: you can't do anything without money.
Before marriage: moonlight clan.
After marriage: planned economy.
Before marriage: spend money for me without frowning.
After marriage: I began to persuade me to shop less in Taobao.
Before marriage: my husband's poverty has nothing to do with me. We can make money slowly without money.
After marriage: it's really hard to make money. The hardest thing is that not only can I not count on my husband's family, but they also count on us to support them. Just find a rich family from the beginning.
Before marriage: after marriage, two people go to play everywhere and travel everywhere.
After marriage: it is not a fart to travel after marriage, but it is serious to save money to buy a house and have children.
Before marriage: if you have children, let them grow up healthily and happily, and don't give them too much burden.
After marriage: the early bird catches the worm, and it is not enough for children to play.
Before marriage: although I don't like children, I will automatically have maternal love after birth.
After marriage: Why do you keep crying? I can't take it anymore. Someone will help me get it back to the kindergarten.
Before marriage: it is difficult to raise children.
After marriage: how difficult it is to raise children.
Before marriage: read more books when you are young and fight for your career;
After marriage: I wish I had children earlier.
Before marriage: I really want to have a group of children.
After marriage: having children? Think big.
Before marriage: I want to have my own husband and children, and I want to be good to them.
After marriage: the child is his own, but the husband is not. So the child should be right, and the husband may be a baiwenhang.
Before marriage: lying together likes to cover the same quilt.
After marriage: cover yourself with a quilt and sleep better.
Before marriage: 2 1 century what is the most expensive and harmonious! So two people should respect each other, understand each other and accommodate each other.
After marriage: either the east wind overwhelms the west wind or the west wind overwhelms the east wind.
Before marriage: The most important thing between two adults is rational communication.
After marriage: communication is an armchair strategist. You can bear it. If you can't bear it, you can't bear it.
Before marriage: you can slowly reform your husband's bad habits.
After marriage: never try to reform him, the result will only get worse.
Before marriage: My husband loves me the most and cares about me the most.
After marriage: same as above, the subject becomes a wife.
Before marriage: My husband is so nice that he lets me go when I get angry.
After marriage: Why didn't he compromise and apologize to me?
Before marriage: He is busy at work, so I can wash dishes several times, as long as he is kind to me.
After marriage: Why do I always wash the dishes?
Before marriage: I'm not afraid of the cold when I sleep in winter, I'm fanned when it's hot in summer, I'm cooked when I'm hungry, and someone picks me up no matter how late I get off work.
After marriage: an electric blanket+an air conditioner+takeaway+taxi = solve all problems.
Before marriage: When you get married, you always have a shoulder to lean on and a partner to face everything together.
After marriage: rely on? Almost ... I always wonder if he married to get a wife or a mother. ...
Before marriage: Try to be virtuous and be a good wife.
After marriage: don't call yourself a metropolis before marriage, otherwise it will be your job in the future and you can't get rid of it.
Before marriage: find a husband who is filial to his mother, and the filial child will be good to his wife.
After marriage: people are good to their mothers, but not necessarily to their wives! A man who doesn't understand filial piety or has Oedipus complex is unacceptable!
Before marriage: If you disagree with him, you may get divorced.
After marriage: not bad.
Before marriage: the power of love is infinite, and marriage without love is not feasible.
After marriage: love is insignificant for marriage, and a sense of responsibility is the guarantee of a solid marriage.
Before marriage: as long as there is him, suffering is sweet!
After marriage: I'm so fucking naive! !
Before marriage: lose weight in love! Lose weight!
After marriage: In order to live longer, don't lose weight for no reason, but pay attention to maintenance.
Before marriage: I must clean up and get rid of littering!
After marriage: Is there any way to hide the sundries so as not to be conspicuous?
Before marriage: I want to learn to cook the most difficult, complicated and gorgeous dishes!
After marriage: How can I make a delicious meal simply and quickly?
Before marriage: I don't think family background affects feelings.
Marriage: I deeply realized that marriage should be wooden door to wooden door and bamboo to bamboo.
Before marriage: I think marriage is between two people.
After marriage: I found that this is between two families, no, it should be between two families.
Before marriage: mom has some influence, everything depends on the conditions!
After marriage: How wise my mother wouldn't let me marry this man. Do you have any regret medicine?
Love him before marriage.
After marriage, love yourself.
Before marriage: I want to get married!
After marriage: I want to live alone!
Before marriage: no, leave!
After marriage: how to go if life is not smooth?
Before marriage: it doesn't matter if the mother-in-law is widowed. It is not easy for her to bring up her son through hard work, so we must honor her well.
After marriage: seven aunts and eight aunts at home are telling the truth, you can't marry, you can't marry. ...
Before marriage: He will always love me.
After marriage: love is bullshit. If you want to cheat, you can't rely on a good man, but you are safest on your own.
Before marriage: make out and drink enough!
After marriage: Love and marriage are two different things!
Before marriage: his parents don't understand, whatever, not living with them!
After marriage: When my daughter is looking for a partner, I must see what qualities her parents have! !
Before marriage: Be a smart woman!
After marriage: it turns out that stupid women will be happy, even if they are not stupid, they should pretend!
I didn't know how expensive rice was until I got married, and I didn't know my parents' kindness until I raised a child. Those things in life are not known until we have experienced them, which is quite different from our imagination.
Growth makes us destroy our illusions, but it also makes us strong. Two completely different lives before and after marriage make us realize that one thing can be solved with two kinds of mentality, and then we can live well and be really mature.