If you want to work, or because breast milk is not enough for your child, you can consider weaning your child.
We should not only love our children, but also love ourselves.
If you just don't want to breastfeed, you may feel very tired. It's really tiring to take care of children, but it's even more tiring to feed formula milk, because you will become more tired because of the endless hot milk, the howling of children waiting for you to warm milk, the endless bottles, all kinds of research on whether milk powder is suitable for your baby, watching Baba, massaging your stomach and so on.
If there are compelling reasons, such as starting work. Then I suggest that you wean not too directly. The previous method of saying no to feed is really not recommended. It has a great influence on children's hearts. Don't let the child go through the pain of thinking that his mother doesn't want him.
If you are sure to wean, I suggest you choose a good milk powder and add it from one bottle. It is estimated that many breast-feeding mothers are not sure how many milliliters their children can eat. The formula for calculating the baby's milk intake is as follows: the daily milk intake is 100 [1 10 body weight (kg)]/86. The simple algorithm is that the baby's daily milk quantity is 128 ml (kg), which means that every kilogram of baby increases, it will increase the milk quantity of 128 ml. Note that this is the total amount of milk for 24 hours a day. How many times does your child usually eat milk, just divide by several times, which is the amount of milk at a time. At first, you can measure the baby by formula, and then observe whether there is any left after the baby eats, and how much is left. Or just after eating, I stopped crying after eating, and the time from the next breastfeeding was not significantly shortened. I still finished eating, but I still have to eat when I am full. According to the specific situation, each baby is an independent individual, not a machine, and there must be differences, as long as the height and weight develop normally.
Start buying small cans of milk powder. From day one, add a bottle of milk. After feeding for two or three days, observe whether the baby spits more milk than before, whether there is any allergic reaction, and whether there is any change in Baba (for example, it turns green, with many milk flaps, very dry or thin). If there is any problem, replace the milk powder. If there is no problem, continue to feed for three or four days and add another bottle. Doing so is good for both the child and the mother physically and psychologically.
For example, for work reasons, I suggest not to go home from work or accompany my children every day. You can add breast milk every morning and evening until your mother has no breast milk at all. In fact, most of this time can be extended for a long time. After all, breast milk is definitely better for babies than milk powder.
If it is for psychological reasons, such as not wanting to breastfeed, being very repulsive to breastfeeding, unable to control emotions and being very upset, then there may be a tendency to depression. At this moment, first of all, we should take care of our mother's emotions, don't persistently advise her to continue breastfeeding, and only care about whether breastfeeding is good for children or saves money. You can ask your mother if you can consider sucking it out with a breast pump first, and then someone will feed the baby with a bottle. Some mothers hold their children and kiss them, but they just feel bored, tired and collapsed. If mother agrees, they will use the breast pump. If mother can't accept this, she will have to wean herself. For a family, the mother's role is the most important, so we need to pay close attention to the mother's psychological state.
In addition to meeting the needs of mothers weaning or not breastfeeding, it is also necessary to observe whether mothers need psychotherapy.
In this case, the attitude of family, especially dad, is particularly important. Don't let mom feel that dad only has eyes for children.
In fact, breastfeeding is really a dilemma for mothers. Every treasure mother knows the benefits of breastfeeding, but in fact, how long breastfeeding can last is a real' challenge' for treasure mothers.
In fact, psychological entanglement accounts for a large part of the factors:
1, economic pressure
The birth of a child will inevitably add a lot of family expenses to the family. For families with poor economic conditions, it is really necessary for mothers to bear part of the source of income.
This means that mothers can't take full-time care of their babies, and it is difficult to insist on breastfeeding.
2. Stress in life
The pressure comes from some family conflicts to a great extent, because after having children, family conflicts will be more frequent than before, so the pressure from mothers will be even greater.
Some mothers who have decided to accompany and take good care of their babies will inevitably want to get rid of this bad environment and restore their previous social circles to alleviate the negative emotions from their families. These are all understandable.
Finally, the empty mother wants to say: we all know that breastfeeding is good for children, but in fact, the' love' from the mother is the driving force for the growth of children's lives. Therefore, if the baby mother really thinks about it and really doesn't want to insist on breastfeeding, it's no big deal. As long as you remember to always care about your children and let ta grow up in a warm and harmonious family environment, you can also make up for the so-called' debt' in the process of children's growth.
We are all willing to talk about' imperfect mothers' now. In fact, mothers really don't have to push themselves too hard, because life itself should be the natural way you are used to. It is good to have a good example for reference, but there is no need to feel guilty because you can't reach it.
If this mentality is not adjusted well, you will inevitably make bigger mistakes in the years to come when you get along with your children, so as a mother, you should learn to forgive yourself for being' incorrect'.
I am an empty mother-parenting is a tedious and long-term thing. May we work together to make children and parents better and better.
Hello, dear! First, give you a hug. Breastfeeding is really hard.
In my opinion, breastfeeding children is really hard, and they may have to go to work during the day, but if breastfeeding is good and the feeding conditions are really sufficient, then try to stick to it, because breastfeeding is good for both the baby and the mother, and the baby is healthier and the mother is also beneficial.
First, breast-fed babies are healthier.
1, why do you recommend breastfeeding?
Breast milk is the best nutrition for children. Breast milk contains suitable protein, carbohydrates (sugars), minerals and rich vitamins, enough to raise our growing baby!
When I was pregnant with Dabao, my milk was like clear water and I didn't want to feed it. I feel no nutrition, because I see other people's milk is thick and white, and I feel that my milk is definitely not good, so I want to pinch off the baby's milk and give it to her to eat milk powder.
Later, I saw in the neonatal feeding guide that milk, even like clear water, still contains all kinds of nutrients necessary for the baby's development. In fact, my Dabao is fat in vain, and all the indicators are normal during the physical examination, while we are pure breast milk without any other supplement.
Breast-fed children are less sick. Breast milk, especially colostrum, contains a lot of immune substances against viruses and bacteria, which can enhance children's ability to resist diseases. Breast-fed children are generally very resistant and rarely get sick, which is unmatched by any formula milk, colostrum and so on.
My penis is fed with milk powder. Compared with my friend's second child, my friend's child is breast-fed. They never get sick. Some people have a cold and a runny nose, and they will be fine in two days. My second child, full moon pneumonia, has a fever and a cold. It is necessary to take medicine, and it is better to adjust your diet slowly in the future.
Breast milk also contains high-quality protein to promote brain development, essential fat and lactic acid, and a lot of taurine needed for brain development, because breast milk is so important, it goes without saying!
Why not breastfeed?
(1) may be due to its own factors.
I am. I had a serious illness before I was pregnant with my second child. If I breastfeed, I will get sick again, so my second child must be fed with milk powder. I always feel very sorry and sad.
(2) there is not much milk, and it is hard to chase milk;
Some people want to give up milk after giving birth, so we can start with feeding methods, feeding skills and self-nutrition.
Feeding methods, to ensure that the baby's posture is comfortable, can not press the baby's nose, resulting in poor breathing. Feeding skills, master the correct method of mouth-milk connection. Nutritional components, that is, maternal nutrition, should be balanced and supplemented during the tonic period.
Secondly, breastfeeding is of great benefit to mothers.
1, which is beneficial to uterine repair.
Repeated sucking on the baby can make the mother's pituitary release oxytocin, which can not only make the breast secrete milk, but also make the uterus contract, effectively preventing postpartum hemorrhage.
2, you can lose weight very well.
After I gave birth to Dabao, I breastfed and didn't deliberately lose weight. I soon lost weight. After giving birth to Bauer, because of special circumstances, there was no breastfeeding. As a result, it was difficult to lose weight. I think it still makes sense.
3, help to reduce the risk of cancer.
In addition, it is inferred that the risk of breast cancer will be reduced by 1 1 to 25 percentage points if the mother breastfeeds for 6 to 24 months during the reproductive cycle.
4. It is helpful for the cultivation of parent-child relationship.
Breastfeeding is a unique interaction between children and mothers. It is a spontaneous skin-to-skin nourishment. The prolactin produced by sucking can calm the mother's mood, reduce postpartum depression, stabilize the mother's mood and make the contact with the baby more intimate.
Breast-feeding can enhance children's immunity, improve intelligence and reduce obesity and allergies, so breast-feeding is beneficial to children's health and mothers.
Finally, mothers want to give their babies the best. If there are special reasons why they can't breastfeed, then we will do what we can, because we will give our children the best love and care!
Breast milk is the best gift for mothers to give their children, and it is the only and most comprehensive food for babies in June.
It is advisable to breastfeed exclusively within 6 months. Don't give up breastfeeding easily if the mother has no physical reasons or lacks breast milk.
If conditions permit, it is best to breastfeed for more than six months. The immunoglobulin contained in breast milk is irreplaceable by foods such as milk powder, and breast milk is also the most economical and convenient way to feed. If it is necessary to wean a four-month-old baby for some special reasons, it is recommended to give the child an adaptation process, add appropriate formula milk powder in time, and add complementary food step by step to ensure the nutrition needed by the baby's growth and development, which will basically not affect the normal growth and development of the child. Ma Bao doesn't need to blame himself and feel guilty. Every mother is great!
The baby is almost four months old. You don't want to breastfeed. Should I stick to it?
I don't know. Why don't you want to breastfeed?
Benefits of breastfeeding: 1. Breast milk has high nutritional value and is rich in various trace elements needed by protein and babies.
2. Breast milk is natural and non-toxic, which is the most suitable food for babies in the first six months.
3. The baby drinks breast milk and has good resistance, so the baby is not easy to be constipated.
4. Breastfeeding is beneficial to women's health and can reduce the risk of gynecological diseases such as breast cancer.
5. Breastfeeding can enhance parent-child relationship.
In real life, many treasure mothers don't want to breastfeed after giving birth to their babies.
Some babies are weaned after half a year old.
However, there are also treasure mothers who insist on the baby 1 year and a half, but this is rare.
I don't know why you don't want to breastfeed. Some people don't want to breastfeed for physical reasons, but they have to breastfeed constantly.
However, if the body allows breastfeeding, why not insist? 1. Some people are worried about breastfeeding, so they need to eat more and lose their health.
In fact, breastfeeding can take away some calories, which is good for the body.
And the body is deformed, you can keep exercising, and your body will gradually recover after weaning.
2. Some people are worried about sagging breasts.
Indeed, breastfeeding may make breasts droop. However, sagging breasts are also a rule of life.
Breastfeeding can reduce some gynecological diseases, and the advantage of this station is more obvious.
3. Work is inconvenient.
In fact, nursing mothers can enjoy one-hour nursing leave when their children are less than one year old.
In addition, Ma Bao can also deliver milk. Many working mothers are like this. Even Ma Yili insisted on breastfeeding when she was filming.
Actually, for whatever reason. If we can persist, we will try our best to insist on breastfeeding. Think about the benefits of breastfeeding. It is good for children and themselves, and it can also enhance parent-child relationship. Why not do it!
Finally, I suggest you stick to it and at least wean your baby after half a year.
If there is enough milk, feed it. Milk within 6 months has antibodies, which can protect Bao from getting sick. Take some with you when feeding, and don't feed water. The baby cried and stopped crying when it was nursed. He fell asleep. My body is deficient in qi and blood, and I bled heavily when I gave birth. After eating a lot of milk, the baby is picky about food. After feeding her, I haven't breastfed for a long time. If I wake up from my sleep, I won't remember the milk and eat it.
As we all know, breast milk is the best food for babies, no matter how expensive milk powder is. Besides, you've been feeding for four months, and you've survived the hardest time. If there's nothing to stop, keep feeding.
Or, you can feed it for another two or three months, and then slowly stop breastfeeding after the baby adds complementary food.
If anything happens, be sure to cut off breast milk and choose milk powder carefully. When weaning and adding milk powder, the baby will definitely cry and don't want to drink milk powder. At this time, it is necessary to care for the baby more patiently and gently to help the baby through the difficult milk changing period.
Let me share my experience, hoping to help you!