In this interview, Huang Xiaoming's answer seems quite helpless.
Because there are too many rumors outside. There are reports that he is divorced, and there are reports that he is philandering outside, which is worrying. In a word, in the face of all this, Huang Xiaoming totally denied it and told his old friend in vain that you should never believe these rumors.
While taking care of the emotions at home, we should be busy slimming down, dragging our weak bodies to shoot new plays, and dealing with all kinds of hype disputes outside.
Huang Xiaoming, 44, seems to have lived like this in recent years. I have been working hard, like a tired mule.
As early as 20 17, when Huang Xiaoming was interviewed by Yi Lijing, he described himself as a mule in bad karma.
At that time, the host asked him what animal he felt like. Huang Xiaoming replied helplessly, "I wish I were a horse or a wolf, but now I feel more like a mule." .
What is the fate of mules? I was locked in the mill all my life, working day and night, and finally I was exhausted, and I got nothing but a full meal.
Huang Xiaoming is very accurate about his position, but he can't change it.
In fact, since Huang Xiaoming and Angelababy got married on 20 15, he has experienced many bad things in the past six years. In the face of all kinds of questions, Huang Xiaoming was so busy. In the end, it seems that I am still stuck in trouble, and I can't get out until now.
20 15 10, Huang Xiaoming and Angelababy got married, because the sponsorship of the wedding was too extravagant, which caused many questions. Because their coffee places didn't match at that time, their marriage was not valued by the outside world from the beginning of their marriage.
The outside world's doubts actually laid a curse for the subsequent gossip. Huang Xiaoming chose the other half regardless of all criticism, and naturally chose to face all the bad singing of the outside world.
After marriage, thanks to Huang Xiaoming's resources and contacts in Huayi Company, Angelababy got good resources and development opportunities, and Huang Xiaoming owed a lot of human feelings.
In order to repay the debt of gratitude in the circle, over the past few years, Huang Xiaoming has taken over many junk films, such as Ancient Love Songs, Legend of the Gods, Ace Playing Ace, etc. Single image performance, once became the representative of the overbearing president greasy man.
Around 20 17, Huang Xiaoming was questioned unprecedentedly and was once regarded as a lightning rod for rotten films. At that time, there were films and TV plays in which he participated, and the audience were very cautious, for fear that greasy Huang Xiaoming would get involved and ruin these works.
In order to seek better development for his wife, and not to disappoint the friends who found cooperation, Huang Xiaoming did not know how to refuse and acted as a good person. I made great efforts to do a lot of things, but in the end it was my image that was damaged.
Similarly, in order not to offend other peers emotionally, Huang Xiaoming also endured and never took the initiative to explain the situation. As a result, the rumors spread more and more, and finally they got out of hand.
In middle age, 44-year-old Huang Xiaoming always lived for others, but seldom thought about himself: how to live a person's life in the end will be truly happy and comfortable.
If Huang Xiaoming had been more ruthless and decisive, he might not have been so tired as he is now.
If he had been more ruthless, refused the invitation of bad movies sent by his friends, and was not bound by human relations, Huang Xiaoming might not have dropped the call because of his greasy image, nor would he face the situation that there was no drama to shoot.
If he had been more decisive at that time, he would have refuted the rumors of marriage change and made a complete showdown with his peers who tried to rub the heat, Huang Xiaoming would not have gone to great lengths to explain this, and in the end, not many people believed his story.
Huang Xiaoming once said in an interview that he was a "likable personality", eager to meet everyone's requirements and didn't want to disappoint anyone.
As a result, he became a good boy, a good gentleman, a good husband and a good boss in the eyes of others, but he still couldn't satisfy everyone and made himself black and blue.
To put it bluntly, the so-called "likable personality" actually stems from inner inferiority.
People with inner inferiority always care about other people's opinions and don't want others to see that they are uncomfortable. But please others everywhere, and finally Huang Xiaoming got nothing, but became more and more tired.
So for Huang Xiaoming, at this age of knowing her fate, it's time to find out what she really wants.
There is absolutely no need to always live for others, but also think about yourself: life has been in a hurry for decades, how to live is happier, and how to live is not in vain.