? In fact, there is not much difference between people, so don't compare with others. Life is a long run. You may not be the first, but you won't be the last. You will be more motivated and happier than the front. But the important thing is to enjoy the process.
Maybe it's in our nature, or maybe it's because I grew up in a soft, warm, but depressing environment. Compared with others, this has become a normal state for me. I have a good friend. She is beautiful, generous and humorous. She can always get relatively dazzling results through her own efforts, as if she has been living in a world that is treated gently. A few days ago, when I was reading a book, I found a sentence, "The best feeling a person can experience is to understand that as long as he works hard, he will certainly be rewarded." For her, this sentence seems to be the most appropriate way to describe her life in the first twenty years. However, as I grow older, I find that the distance between us is getting bigger and bigger, and she is getting more and more beautiful, and I seem to be dressed as a student; Even those emotional experiences and school experiences, I compared them with her, so that I lost myself. On the road that I have compared with others, I am lonely, and I am much less than before. I am desperate, tangled, stubborn and stubborn in this maze of "deficiency", spinning alone like a top, but I still don't understand why I am spinning and how long I will turn. What is the significance of this turning point?
? In fact, such a comparison is meaningful, but excessive comparison will lose the characteristics of a person's life. In the words of a trend, it is "do you have a free style?" In fact, I don't care that others live better than me, but don't live better than me (haha, peel it off). It is better to spend more time thinking about your own characteristics. After all, there are thousands of fairies in Qian Qian on the earth. When the lights are dim, you are still the delicate pig Peggy or the carefree little seaweed!