At the beginning, the vows of eternal love between hands in the Bible had already dried up, leaving only bitter blood, which smelled sour with love under the sun.
Now, bid farewell to the era of slow mail. In reality, love has become a fast-food life. Meet and talk, and then establish a relationship. Space and circle of friends will be grandly announced, and couples' names and avatars will be changed. Everywhere is full of that kind of decorative love, boring together every day, showing love from time to time, sprinkling dog food. However, how long will the shelf life of such love be, one month, two months, six months or one year? I can't seem to think for too long, because everything comes and goes too fast.
A fast-food love is always full of love and no love, which is always so easy to say. Jiu Nan has always only dared to say "I like you" to you, not to say "I love you" to you easily, because love needs more, and two people need to help each other and share everything with each other. Fast-food love is always the surprise when we are together for the first time, and when the surprise disappears, only two people are bored. In their eyes, life becomes dull or even boring without surprises and curiosity. Perhaps, fast-food love is just for the passion of being together and enjoying the sudden change. This is not love, but the test of long-term loneliness.
Jiu Nan recently saw such a problem-
"In this era, it seems that the difficulty coefficient of seriously talking about a love is much higher than talking about a gun. What is this? "
Nowadays, the life of parents and the words of matchmakers are no longer a mountain. For young people of our generation, we don't want a marriage without love. If it takes a lifetime to wait for love, then we will not get married in this life.
More and more people don't want to get married, lack the conditions of falling in love at first sight, lack the capital of long-term love, and are unwilling to spend time and energy emotionally to promote a stable relationship. Therefore, some people are willing to seek a little stimulation and comfort in the long loneliness, and Jiu Nan declined to comment on this. After all, everyone has their own ideas, and people are different. There is no need to be demanding.
The world is very big and life is very long. Perhaps there is a kind of happiness that you have a job and hobby, do what you like and watch the sunrise alone. Instead of giving precious time to another person, it is better to choose one person to lead a wonderful life.
The world is small and life is short. Perhaps there is a kind of happiness, that is, meeting someone who falls in love at first sight and having a long-term love. Sweet love is a romantic fairy tale, and the ultimate romance is a solemn marriage. Each other in the length of time, in the dusk, complaining about the short paper love, two people spend the rest of their lives hand in hand.
No matter how big or small the world is, no matter how long or short life is, it will always be there, neither increasing nor decreasing. Because there are billions or less than one person on this earth who can accompany you. Not everyone is lucky enough to have a beautiful love from the first love to the end of life. Most people are destined to walk with you for a while and then wave goodbye. Therefore, whether you are in love or not, you should be responsible for your own happiness.
Choose an honest lifestyle for yourself and act according to your body's wishes: eat when you are hungry, sleep when you are sleepy, turn away when you don't love, and don't lie when you love. You are responsible for your own happiness, whether it is accompanied by your lover or alone.
Everyone has only one life, so you can't give generously to the person you don't love.
The way of the world is too vulgar, it is better to watch the sunrise alone.