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The so-called leftover women are, to a large extent, older girls who are still in the middle of the word and have the best comprehensive conditions. This is one of the common phenomena in the contemporary world, and there are many reasons. However, the mainstream society still thinks that marriage between men and women is a standardized life process or an important task for human beings, especially the social customs in China. Here, teacher Yu Fan of Aiqiao Marriage Center in Anhui Province puts forward the following nine suggestions for the reference of outstanding leftover women. When they feel panic, complain and confused, they can try to do so.

1, when others advise you or talk about you, you should think like this: Will you get married well if you get married early? Married wrong or not, which is more expensive? How many desperate women "betray" themselves, their love life is not happy, not to mention those who compromise;

Don't let yourself stay at home for too long when you are lonely and sad. It would be better to talk to someone you can trust, or just cry and vent.

In life, besides love, there are many things that can make you happy. While looking for love, we should also cherish the time with family and friends. The more spare time you have, the less time you have to complain.

Those women who can't get married because of high education and workaholism should always remind themselves that you are a woman. Men like women who are feminine. As long as you can attract him, he doesn't care whether you are a doctor or a graduate student.

5. In real life, "Meiyangyang" is far more attractive to men than "Kotaro", so women should at least make men feel smart and docile;

6. The premise of marrying a good man is that you must also have considerable charm. No matter how lofty your heart is, you must accept this reality. Watch less soap operas, eat less snacks, talk less about QQ, read more books, exercise more, learn more and communicate with people;

7. Stop complaining and accept the reality is king. You should always think that your charm is not enough, not that men don't appreciate it;

8. My mother told me from an early age that if you want to receive a letter, you must send it to someone else. If you want to know men and associate with them, you should learn to blend in actively, instead of avoiding them or waiting for men to come to you. Single old classmates, male colleagues, and male compatriots in the community can boldly try to contact;

9. If we can't attract ourselves, how can we attract others? Self-confidence is an omnipotent force that makes you more beautiful. When we are confident, we will show men more charm that we don't realize ourselves.

In a word, leftover women, you are excellent, and you are. Seize the time and strive to create a beautiful marriage. I believe a happy life is just ahead!