Personality is so important to us that our personality has some defects more or less. However, nothing is absolute. As long as we make some appropriate psychological adjustments, our personality will be properly optimized. If you want to optimize your personality, you must first exercise your motivation to optimize your personality. From now on, remember the following points:

(1) When encountering a problem, use "yes" instead of "no".

(2) Establish a new attitude towards life, enhance the possibility of success, and replace "trying" with "determination".

(3) Believe that failure is only an episode on the road to success, and force yourself to focus on the planned goal and work hard for it.

(4) List the most important requirements and hopes at present, and then write down the benefits of each item and the decisive factors to complete it. Before going to bed and getting up every day, look at it and say to yourself, "I will succeed."

(5) Consult relevant experts, make a development plan for successful personality, and arrange every step for success.

(6) Add simple, novel and positive self-suggestion vocabulary to yourself. For example, keep saying to yourself: I can form good habits, and I will forget failure. ...

(7) Imagine the joy of completing the work and increase your self-confidence.

(8) Conduct a comprehensive health examination to diagnose whether there are organic diseases. If so, consider special plans, including relaxation, behavior improvement and biofeedback therapy. Get in touch with more successful people and overcome fears and worries.

(9) Respond positively to what others tell you, and immediately concentrate on solving your own problems.

(10) Concentrate all your energy, focus on the current goal and finish what you started.