"Taking care of the baby, eating well and sleeping well is the key, and good health is the foundation."
Children's eating and sleeping are the key. Only by eating well and sleeping well can they play and explore better. So it is really necessary to spend some time on children's sleeping habits and eating habits.
About eating
For me, eating is really a top priority! Eat in a good mood and eat well!
Usually, I will create a menu so that I can arrange it well. When you take your baby to play, you can go to the food market to buy daily ingredients, or you can take the opportunity to learn some common sense of life, which is flexible and time-saving. Eating at a fixed time, everyone sits in their fixed position and eats with their own tableware.
Just develop the eating habits of diced beans. After more than six months, they can eat complementary food by themselves. However, during the period of having a second child, the old people often came and couldn't eat. They are always afraid that their children will not have enough to eat, and they will chase and coax them to eat.
With two children, I am more determined to cook for myself. There are too many food spices outside, and too many temptations outside. Children's attention is always easily distracted. Cooking at home, cooking with children, with children's participation, feels particularly good and tastes particularly delicious. There is nothing better than children eating, and the whole family has a sense of accomplishment in eating healthily.
After 6 months, Douya slowly began to eat complementary food, and the baby chair was a must. Douya sat in the baby chair and we breast-fed her. She tried to grab it with her hands or sit on our legs. She has a spoon in her hand. When we feed her, she imitates using a spoon or holding a bowl. A bean can eat with chopsticks and spoons, and it is definitely a pleasure to watch him eat every time. Of course, bibs and their own chopsticks and spoons are just needed. Don't be afraid of trouble, prepare specially.
The rules of eating should also be set, and everyone should abide by them:
1. Eating is very important. Families should eat together. My husband will go home for dinner at noon and evening.
You decide how much you want to eat. You should finish what's on your plate and don't waste food.
3. If you have time to eat, sit in a chair and eat, don't eat or play, don't get used to being forced, eat badly or be picky about food, you won't cook alone without snacks, and you can only wait until the next meal.
4. When you leave after eating, say "I'm finished, you can eat slowly" to your family, and then take chopsticks to the kitchen sink.
About sleeping
Children are active during the day and have the habit of taking a fixed nap every day. In the evening, they wash at a fixed time and have good night stories and chats. Children can still sleep. Later, Bauer was born, and the stage of eating and sleeping happened to be my son's active and talkative stage. At that time, the head was too big, but the key problem still had to be solved. So I breast-fed the baby, told the child stories, slept around me, and the eldest brother and the second child got enough sense of security. Gradually, the sleeping habits of the two children are consistent, and it is much easier to eat and drink together.
I have to say, pure breast milk is great Every time my daughter sleeps, her nipples will be blocked and she will sleep until the second time. Because her son has always brought a bean by himself, she will tell a story, take a shot or hum a tune to chat with him, and then take a second sleep. Douya is almost eight months now. She goes to bed from eight in the evening to seven in the morning. In the meantime, I went back to sleep with my nipples stuffed in a daze. After reading at 9: 00, the parents of One Douding sleep until 6: 00 or 7: 00 in the morning, and both of them have to take a nap for 2-3 hours during the day. It was not until he was almost one year old that I really got a good night's sleep. In contrast, the one who can raise a bean. Now that I have two children, my sleep quality is much better and my sleep time is much longer than before. His father even fell asleep, and our whole family felt that there were no children at home until dawn. This experience is really happy to tears.
"It is very important to take care of children and entertain them, and we should channel the power of the wild."
About the housework
As a full-time mother, I think many mothers feel that housework takes up a relatively large proportion of their time. There is no denying that having two children has really increased the amount of housework. Generally, I will list the types of housework first, and then arrange the time.
Daily housework summary:
Get up early: children wash clothes, make breakfast, clean up breakfast pots and pans, wash clothes and take out the garbage.
Noon: buy lunch, clean up lunch pots and pans, and clean up the kitchen.
Evening: buy food and cook, clean up dinner pots and pans, mop the floor, tidy up clothes and toys, and bathe the children.
Clean once a week, tidy up the idle items at home, sort out and disinfect children's toys and books, clean mountaineering mats and toy blankets, clean toilets, kitchens and living rooms once a quarter, and arrange and dry clothes in different seasons.
It is usually done by combining similar events and taking care of several projects at the same time. For example, when taking children to wash, soybean milk will automatically make soybean milk or rice cooker to cook porridge intelligently, and clothes will be automatically washed in the washing machine at breakfast time, so that several things can be done together at the same time, and the time utilization rate is really much higher.
About playing
Indoor play: play middle school and study.
Ever since I had a baby, my husband has called me "avalokitesvara". Buy at buy buy all day, even the diced beans will learn to shout "samples, express delivery!" Various picture books, sticker books, logic dogs, snowflakes, smart sticks, magnetic films, Lego blocks, puzzles, geometric blocks, beads, etc. There are three big bookshelves at home, which are full of toys and books. A bean likes to choose her favorite from them, and then sit by the window with me and read and play. Where's Douya, sitting in my arms or lying with us?
Doing morning exercises is one of beans' favorite morning exercises. At that time, he always said, "Mom, teacher, let's do exercises together." While the cow was listening to the song, Douya was lying on her game blanket, and I stood face to face with Douya. I composed five songs, but I didn't expect beans to dance well in just a few days.