Psychologically speaking, people who eat melons have a certain psychological basis, which is the normal psychological defense mechanism of human beings. For people and things that have nothing to do with themselves and have no conflicts of interest, people take a onlookers attitude. On the one hand, they use it as talk after dinner to kill time and fill their emptiness. On the other hand, they often project themselves, compare the observed phenomena with their own lives, and draw some conclusions, that is, they know their "mirror image" by observing others.

People who eat melons are basically psychologically vulnerable groups. One of the best ways to solve the phenomenon of people eating melons is to improve their own quality, improve their quality of life, and turn their goals to themselves instead of always staring at celebrities. To put it bluntly, set small goals, medium goals, long-term goals and ultimate goals for your life. Small goals should be achieved as soon as possible, so that individuals can get satisfaction from the realization of goals and maintain the continuity of pursuing ideals. The spiritual richness gained by the realization of life goals is far more precious than that gained by onlookers. A person who is busy achieving his goal in life has no energy to be a melon eater.

In addition, the mass media plays a great role in promoting social mass events, often in order to keep the heat, constantly fermenting things to attract the attention of many people who don't know the truth. However, it has invested less in promoting social harmony and personal growth. I hope that the mass media can pay more attention to personal development and social spirit, render positive energy and provide more channels for self-realization.