Some people are even equal to foreigners. They only heard that foreign mothers don't have a month, so it doesn't matter if they don't have a month.
The difference between a wet nurse and a wet nurse is that Xiaowen is a receptionist in a big company. She is beautiful and tall, but to outsiders, she is not very good at getting married. Xiaowen earns seven or eight thousand yuan a month, while Xiaowen's husband only has about four thousand yuan a month.
Xiaowen thinks that if she marries a person with low salary, she will feel safe and won't worry about cheating and other events.
The month after Xiaowen gave birth to the baby, her mother-in-law came, but she didn't like cooking. One meal a day still suits her son's taste. Her son loves salty and spicy food, and her mother-in-law cooks salty and spicy food almost every day.
Xiaowen felt that her mother-in-law not only didn't come to help but also added a lot of gambling to herself. She was very unhappy and had to cook by herself. It is not easy for her husband to come home from work without thinking about Xiaowen. The family income has become a salary of about 4000, and my husband is not in a hurry. He plays games after work every day and occasionally looks at the sleeping children.
I can't help it. Xiaowen has returned to work months ago, and she is depressed and has no confinement. Now Xiaowen always has backache and leg pain, and her gums especially love bleeding.
Different from Xiaowen's situation, Dandan was quite relaxed when he was confined. Mother-in-law and mother came, and the family also hired a new moon. Dandan said that his hair was almost white, and he was really a little idle.
Mother-in-law and mother wouldn't let themselves do this or that, and Yue Yue suggested that we stay for two more months before liberation.
But Danny has nothing to do and is full of energy every day.
Many people think this may be an exception. Isn't it nothing to see foreigners not confined to the moon?
Why don't foreigners have confinement? Many people will see many foreign babies through social media, then go shopping in high heels and recover well. It seems that there is no such thing as confinement, and it will not affect.
However, are foreigners really not limited to the moon? In fact, we still have many differences and misunderstandings about foreign cultures.
In Germany, confinement is also required after giving birth to a child, but the confinement method is different from the traditional confinement method in China.
They will stay in the hospital after the baby is born. If you are lucky, you will meet families with one room and one living room, mostly with one room and two beds.
In the first three days, the doctor will provide similar care as China. Even better, Ma Bao is responsive, and doctors in hospitals will help to take care of children more scientifically.
About six days later, the hospital will urge Ma Bao to leave the hospital, but it will also give many precautions, such as taking more rest, not carrying anything heavier than the baby's weight, drinking 2 liters of water every day to promote milk production, doing recovery exercises every day, and husband and wife should not have sex for at least six weeks. Although you don't need special supplements, you should have a balanced diet.
This is similar to the traditional confinement in China. Looking at foreign treasure mothers, there are scientific and reasonable postpartum recovery plans behind chic.
Therefore, strictly speaking, it is not true that foreigners do not have confinement. All countries have confinement, but they have different views and ways, and finally achieve the goal of physical recovery.
What should I pay attention to in confinement? Times are different, and confinement cannot completely copy the old rules. Use something scientific and reasonable.
get more rest
More rest is very helpful to physical recovery. If you don't have a good rest during confinement, it will also affect your mood. Some treasure moms have bad lochia.
Many qualified people will ask for a new moon, and it is comfortable to spend money to solve it. Especially when the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, it is very convenient.
Keep a good mood
It is also important to keep a good mood. A good mood naturally adjusts the body to a good state. Bad mood and endocrine disorders will have an impact on physical recovery and baby.
Take a good bath.
Traditional confinement means that you can't take a bath before confinement, but that's because conditions don't allow it. If you accidentally catch a cold in the shower, it will be very troublesome. But now most of them are in buildings, and the temperature is high, so bathing will not freeze. Proper bathing also helps to keep the body relaxed and clean freely, and helps children reduce bacterial infections.
42 days' imprisonment
People used to say that confinement is 30 days, but from the perspective of uterine recovery, physiologically speaking, confinement is almost 42 days, which is what doctors call "puerperium".