Don't be too superstitious.
This whole baby thing.
If you plant flowers with your heart, you will not live.
You don't want it right away.
The most important thing is to take care of your health. My husband has given up smoking, so you can drink less. You two should eat properly and exercise moderately. And your wife should start taking folic acid orally before you are ready to have children.
Give birth to a healthy BB
Humans are different from animals, and animal breeding often uses the best seasons of spring and autumn to breed offspring. However, human beings have no obvious "seasonality" in this respect. Except in special circumstances, they can have sex 365 days a year, and they are all likely to get pregnant.
From the perspective of prenatal and postnatal care, it is very possible to choose a suitable birth season, minimize the unfavorable factors such as temperature change and disease epidemic, and ensure that the favorable factors conducive to fetal growth and development are fully exerted. Strictly speaking, China has a vast territory, and the climate between north and south, east and west is quite different, so it cannot be simply divided by a certain season. Considering the living and geographical conditions in most parts of China, it is ideal to get pregnant in August-September. Why?
From a medical point of view, embryo development has three key periods: one is the brain formation period, that is, the third month of pregnancy; The second is the brain cell division period, after six months of pregnancy; Third, after the cell development coordination period, the seventh to ninth month of pregnancy. If you choose to conceive in August-September, the third and sixth months of pregnancy and the delivery period are in the late autumn and mid-spring with suitable climate and convenient nutrition, the fetal nervous system can be well developed.
Some data show that July-June is the peak season for childbirth, and April-June is the off-season, which is closely related to people's choice of wedding date. Influenced by traditional ideas, many people arrange to get married on New Year's Day, Spring Festival and National Day, and get pregnant immediately after marriage. At this time, it is warm and cold at first or late autumn and early winter, and the temperature changes greatly, which is the season with frequent viral diseases. During pregnancy, especially in the first trimester, viral infection can easily lead to fetal malformation. For example, if a mother suffers from rubella in the first and second trimester of pregnancy, the virus can enter the fetus through the placenta and multiply, causing damage to the eyes, ears, brain, heart and nervous system (medically known as congenital rubella syndrome); Influenza virus can cause fetal anencephaly, hydrocephalus and other central nervous system malformations and lesions, as well as lip, cleft palate and congenital heart disease. If pregnant women have a fever, they are also prone to premature delivery or miscarriage.
Medical experts believe that the best season for pregnancy is around August, which lasts for nearly two months from late July to early September, which is reasonable. Let's take a concrete look at the benefits of pregnancy this season.
When the pregnancy reaction occurs 40-60 days before pregnancy, it happens to be in September or 10 month. Most pregnant women have poor appetite and are picky eaters, but at this time there are many varieties of vegetables and fruits, which can adjust and increase their appetite and ensure the nutritional needs of the fetus. Two or three months later, it is already late autumn, the climate is cool, and the appetite of pregnant women increases, which is very beneficial to the growth and development of the fetus. At this time, the sun is abundant, and pregnant women often bask in the sun, which can produce a lot of vitamin D in the body, promote the absorption of calcium and phosphorus, and contribute to the growth of fetal bones. Moreover, it is summer to go to Qiu Lai in August and September, so the night sleep of pregnant women is less affected by the summer heat, and the rest, nutrition and intake of various vitamins of pregnant women are more adequate, which is conducive to the development of fetal brain and intellectual development after birth. By the time the snowy winter and the early spring with influenza, rubella, meningitis and other viruses arrive, the fetal gestational age has exceeded 3 months, and the teratogenic sensitive period has passed safely. And the corresponding due date is around May of the following year. The baby was born in late spring and early summer. The temperature is suitable. Mothers are not easy to catch a cold when breastfeeding and bathing their babies. The supply of vegetables, fish, eggs and other non-staple foods is also very rich. The parturient has a good appetite and the milk is rich in nutrition. It should be the best season for "confinement". While ensuring the quality of breast milk, newborn babies should go into battle lightly and wear less clothes, which is conducive to the free movement of limbs and the development of the brain and the whole body. After the child's full moon, the season is summer, the trees are shaded, the air is fresh and the sun is shining, which is convenient for outdoor sunbathing and air bathing. Before and after the child is half a year old, it is golden autumn in October. It is time to increase complementary food, which has successfully avoided the epidemic season of intestinal diseases such as enteritis in children in summer. When children learn to walk and start weaning, it is the turn of spring and summer, with mild climate and abundant fresh food, which provides favorable conditions for children's growth and development. And at the turn of spring and summer, the stomach is easy to adapt, and weaning is easy to succeed.
Pay attention to avoid pregnancy in May and June, because the weather is hot and humid in July, the appetite is not strong, and the pregnancy reaction makes the nutrition intake insufficient, which easily affects the development of the fetus. At the same time, it is necessary to avoid 10 pregnancy and give birth in the midsummer of July. There are many parturients sweating. If you give birth to a child in the midsummer heat, the climate is hot and humid, and it is easy to get heatstroke. If you are light, you will feel dizzy, chest tightness and body temperature will rise. In severe cases, people will have a high fever, coma and even death. At this time, skin infections, diarrhea and other diseases are frequent, so it is best to avoid giving birth in midsummer.
Of course, this is aimed at most parts of central and northern China. The climatic conditions in different parts of China are very different, so we should consider them according to local conditions, and we can't copy them mechanically. For example, in some southern regions where the temperature difference is not great, you can choose the right season for pregnancy according to the local epidemic situation and nutrition supply. For example, August and September in the north and around June in the south.
Winter is not suitable for pregnancy, because the lack of fresh vegetables and fruits in northern winter makes the relative intake of trace elements and vitamins less, which easily affects the growth and development of the fetus. Moreover, the winter climate in the north is very cold, so there are more opportunities to get infected with the virus when going out. As we all know, the first 8 weeks of pregnancy is the embryonic period. If pregnant women are infected with the virus during this period, it will directly affect the fetus, leading to mental retardation or deformity of the fetus.
In addition, there are relatively few opportunities for outdoor activities in winter, doors and windows are closed, and the indoor air is not fresh. If heated indoors with a stove, the carbon dioxide content in the air is higher, which increases the teratogenic rate of the fetus of the first pregnant woman, thus increasing the birth of defective children. Therefore, married couples should avoid getting pregnant in the cold winter.
1 month is March 9 or April 9, which is in the cold winter and is not suitable for childbirth at this time. When a woman is breastfeeding, taking a bath or changing clothes for her baby, it is easy to catch a cold if she does not have good warm conditions. Newborns have poor adaptability to cold, and may have diseases such as upper respiratory tract infection and pneumonia. Therefore, April is not suitable for pregnancy.
On the other hand, having this will is not necessarily what you want. Sometimes, "it is impossible to plant flowers intentionally, but it is impossible to plant flowers unintentionally on Liu Chengxing". The time of pregnancy may not be as scheduled, so once you get pregnant at other times, let it be. Some people think that if you don't get pregnant on schedule, you should have an abortion first and then try to get pregnant on schedule later. In fact, this idea is too naive. Abortion itself is a kind of harm to human body, and it will also bring some damage to endometrium. Therefore, it is a question mark whether you can get pregnant again after abortion, and it is even more important whether you can get pregnant as scheduled. Therefore, it is suggested that pregnant people should not regret not being pregnant in the best season. After all, human evolution has gone through tens of millions of years of adaptation, and it can be pregnant all year round. Many material conditions, especially fresh vegetables, are now available in many places all year round, so the nutritional supply of the fetus is not a problem.